Date: 3/27/2001 10:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 20977
good luck!!! I hope all begins to go well! koRn_staR  |
Date: 3/27/2001 10:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 30081
sorry you are having such a bad time with her , she sounds a bit mentally unstable and it sounds like its making you menatlly unstable as well how old are you sons? i cannot believe she tells them things like that ! are you still together???? if so i think you guys need to seperate its tearing you up inside. best of luck god bless ~kittee~  |
Date: 3/27/2001 11:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 27678
You poor man. Women in this country want to rule and oppress the men. It's sad, but true. Seems your wife doesn't appreciate you. Just take it easy and don't fall into the domestic violence trap, though, okay? Your boys will always need you and with the laws written regarding domestic violence today, anything you do, will cause you nothing but grief later on. If you are not a God-fearing person, then maybe you should consider that He can be a real source of comfort and will answer your prayers, if sincere, and help you decide what you need to do. Coming here and writing your emotions is a good thing and will help relieve some of your frustrations. Take care, buddy. Free Girl  |
Date: 3/28/2001 4:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 30229
I am sorry for your BAD experience but let me assure you, NOT all women are like that!!! Just like when women talk ugly about men because of a bad experience... NOT all men are like that either. There are Great people in this world of both sexes and you just got hold of a bad one. I got a bad one too, once, and divorce was the only answer....that was really rough. But 13 years later and a wonderful man by my side, everything is good. And it can be with you too. Just get through this, and give your self time to heal and the right one will be out there for you. Be there for your boys, they will need you, but for goodness sake, get away from that woman causing you to THINK the unthinkable, and if you need to talk... messages are just a keyboard away. Good Luck to you!!!!! God Bless you and your boys. ***Gail***  |
Date: 3/28/2001 6:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 13297
Take Samuel Cummins advice (aka Mark Twain) for a while imagine killing her everyway possible in your head. In one of his stories a boy worked on a riverboat in the Mississippi and he hated his boss so he killed him everyway he could think of mentally. That will keep you sain for a while. Then start keeping a diary of EVERYTHING that happens and keep it in a safe place. Document your fights, what she does and if you can record your conversations (though it's not admissable in court it will help a lawyer understand what you go through). Start building your case to prove her an unfit mother so you don't lose custody of your children. You are a very smart man I can tell by your vocabulary and your command of the language. Take the emotions out of this and kill her with kindness. Be the perfect husband and above reproach until you can build a case against her and leave her. It may take a year but it'll be better than killing her and living the rest of your life in prison. I hope all goes well for you, best of luck. Oh yeah and if you divorce and do find someone else - remember don't make her pay for what this woman is doing to you. Not all women are like this. cheers,  |
Date: 3/28/2001 7:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 5082
All i can say is think of your kids!!
ive been threw a suicide and i know first hand about the people that are left behind.
im tired of writing this!! people that think this
way all you and others are calling out for help.
thats all your trying to get people to feel sorry for you all of you who do this are selfish
thats all it amounts to im never repling to these
stupid dpression ones again...
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Date: 3/29/2001 8:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 1631
Hekler, I'm not sure what to say. If you need to talk, please message me, ok? *HUGS from the Heart*...  |
Date: 3/30/2001 8:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 28363
Dear Sir Heckler, been there and did that, the pain
you are experiencing is heart wrenching and just
plain sad. I know you don't want or need sympathy
from us here, you use this forum as a tool for therapy,
to help you cope. Sounds like your lass, needs proper
medical attention. I think that had this post been
put into the prayers area (even if you not believer)
then the concentrated well wishes and prayers, wud
have eased your mind a tad. I posted one there ( u wont
find it under this author id) cuz it was too embarassing
and I don't want ppl thinking me fruitcake. I cried,
when I wrote it, again on the way home, then even
harder when I got home and started seeing the
responses. What's weird is I dont cry, never have
in 15 years, until yesterday. God its worse than
gagging, but I think it helped me some. G-Day!
PS...If you want to know, msg me...I will tell you what
story it is...  |
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