Date: 3/29/2001 6:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 12103
oh boy...well first of all, i would talk to this person, tell them why they feel the need to do this....what you can do to work something out..and if that dont work...if that person dont even care to communicate to you, i would just ignore it..perhaps just for your attention? sorry cant be too much help..never been quite in that situation before..good luck  |
Date: 3/29/2001 6:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
Hiya Firstborn! (How are ya?) I would have a one on one conversation with this person to see why they were doing this to me. I'd try to solve it by talking to them. Hopefully then we could settle our differences. Love,  |
Date: 3/29/2001 7:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
well!! I would state the truth of course then i would turn it over to God!!!! LOL  |
Date: 3/29/2001 7:00:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16671
thank you princess that makes a lot of sense. I agree and you are a help.  |
Date: 3/29/2001 7:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 15394
If you cannot communicate with this person...I would do just as wonderful Princess Jen said, and ignore it... Not everybody likes everybody right, so chalk it up to one of the few, and move on....or at least that is what I think I would do, bummer situation tho!  |
Date: 3/29/2001 7:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 11097
Well....probably at first try to reason with them, and usually in a respectful manner, if that doesnt work, id definitly stand up for myself. If you did nothing wrong, and the lyes kept coming, id also let karma show them a thing or two, and those who listen to the lyes, it just shows what type of person they are...thats my saying. Love-  |
Date: 3/29/2001 7:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 27845
I'd ask them why they feel they have to go to such extream measures just to get your attencion. It's obvious this person has very low self esteem so they feel they have to pick on someone else to make them feel big. People like this should be ignored. ~«*¤YourDestiny¤*»  |
Date: 3/29/2001 7:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 15621
Friend...if I felt this way I would leave it alone and forget it...thats the truth.....  |
Date: 3/29/2001 7:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 15033
You know what has been strange for me FB? Since I have been coming to this sight, I have found that most of the ones I have had little spats with ended up being my most valued friends...Now when I see myself getting mixed up with those feelings, I automatically know to to say something very kind and loving in their personal messages. Sure enough my hunch is right everytime...Funny how real family can be like that too. There seems to be enough love to feel like hate at times. Love,  |
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Date: 3/29/2001 7:33:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16671
Your right moon girl, I need to turn it over to God. LOL PRincess of light, Karma sure can get to someone. LOL |
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Date: 3/29/2001 7:35:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16671
Thanks JUNGLE and DESTINY, I appreciate your comments. sixgun sometimes its easier said then done, especially if you have told them that you were sorry if you did anything to upset them. |
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Date: 3/29/2001 7:36:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16671
yes, thunderhead, I've done that before also. I remember one girl specially, oh my gosh we went round and round and now we are such friends. |
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Date: 3/29/2001 7:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 15621
I know it is FB....but just let it go and god will handle it......just be cool..LOL |
Date: 3/29/2001 7:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 30621
First off sweety, Who is doin this? My advice would be to confront them and if that did not work ignore. Both are very hard for me to do but maybe you can. I usualy cry, but dont do that. luvs...SOMEDAY  |
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Date: 3/29/2001 7:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
OMG!!! I am going to miss you all so much!!! LOL First born keep the faith!!!! LOL |
Date: 3/29/2001 8:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 30081
well in all seriousness i would probbly just cuss them out and point out that they have no respect and all that other good stuff , because thats how i get when ppl that dont know me talk about me ~kittee~  |
Date: 3/29/2001 8:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 27403
I would try to find a common place to talk, like AOL messanger or that type thing, and try to work this out. Most of the people on this site are so good at heart, and very mature. Even the chilren act grown. But, sometimes, we will think we have been accidentally or purposely wronged, we lose our perspective. I am not sure I know who you are referring to, but I think I do. And both of you are VERY GOOD WOMEN. You just need to talk it out, alone together, and get back on an even keel. Light and Love to you  |
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Date: 3/29/2001 8:18:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16671
Ok sixgun I will, I just hate being accused of *calling out the troops* when you know I never asked you or any one to come into a post on my defence. You and everyone has there own opinion and can comment how they want when they want. |
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Date: 3/29/2001 8:20:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16671
thank you someday, it takes a lot to make me cry as I hold hurt and pain inside too much, but yes I need to let it go. MOON Girl, I'm going to miss you to and I will keep the faith. thank you sweetie. Kittee, LOL, I know sometimes I feel like screaming LOL. Lightworker I think that is a good Idea as I'm willing to talk and find out just what it is that I might have did to get her so upset. I hardly know her. |
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Date: 3/29/2001 8:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 23956
sounds like this could be addressed to Jesus, or any of the spiritual masters, they all lied about them, so what do you think Jesus would do, just love them, thats all, look past the ego. Logan51 |
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Date: 3/29/2001 8:38:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16671
Thanks logan51, your right as are many that have replied. I guess I'm in good company. |
Date: 3/29/2001 8:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 13354
Well FB, I'm glad to be called one of your troops. I DO defend you
because I know where your heart is. I'm good at saying things the wrong
way or blowing my lid at times, but most people around here know we
really and truly care about them and would do anything for them. We are
human and don't claim to be God or even angels. Just do what you can do.
You can't MAKE people forgive you if you have hurt their feelings. Some
people don't want to forgive. They want to have a reason to be mad, an
excuse to cut you off or harrass you.  |
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Date: 3/29/2001 8:52:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16671
thank you my amen sister. Your so sweet and you are one of the best people I know. hugs to you. |
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Date: 3/29/2001 9:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 13354
Now that I have backtracked a little, I think I see
what's going on... I replied to this post first thing
when I logged on tonight. When I responded to this, I
did not know who the problem was with. Actually, I think this may
be all my fault... Blossom and I had a disagreement a
few days ago because I took something she said the wrong way.
I will admit that I read things into her comment that were not
there. I THINK we got things straightened out, I hope so. I
think blossom may be a little upset with you FB because she thinks
you said something to me about her. PLEASE let me assure everyone
that FB had NOTHING to do with this misunderstanding between me and
blossom!!! I don't know if this is what all of this is about or not but
if it is PLEASE stop and PLEASE just move on... |
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Date: 3/29/2001 9:22:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16671
thats strange Pam, as I have never said anything to you about her, why would I? Oh well, perhaps this will all end and each of us will stop reading into each others comments things that are not there. I've answered other people and she has often thought I was talking to or about her. Go figure. |
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Date: 3/29/2001 9:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 13354
Well, I need everyone to know that I need a day or two
once a month when I can be a grouch for no reason at all.
I'm sure you know what I mean... I need to just be IGNORED on
those days... lol... |
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Date: 3/29/2001 10:07:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16671
LOL, oh is that what is causing this water weight. I had the works removed at 27 so I never know until I get bloaty. |
Date: 3/29/2001 10:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 27678
You guys need to forgive and forget each other and mean it. It's ridiculous to act this way over words on a screen. Free Girl  |
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Date: 3/29/2001 10:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16671
your right freegirl |
Date: 3/29/2001 10:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Firstborn,
I'm a straight up kinda guy...I would confront them, tell them to back off and then leave it at that. Your real friends know you, so it really doesn't matter what someone who isn't thinks about you. I like to believe that opinions only matter when that person matters...just flick them off like a piece of lint on ya shirt. Though I might also utilise my 'old skool freaka' skills and hack them to cause a bit of mayhem...but thats just me *smile* Peace and hugs, AGENT SMITH  |
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Date: 3/29/2001 11:08:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16671
Thanks Agent Smith. Your a real Pal and I think your right. |
Date: 4/26/2001 7:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 23207
I think I would confront the person with plenty of proof of what they were doing and then see what they have to say...Good Luck!! IntroubleinTx :)  |
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Date: 4/26/2001 7:50:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16671
thanks in trouble. |
