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Boyfriend Advice!! Help me out with two tramps I need out of my relationship!

  Author:  5632  Category:(Discussion) Created:(3/3/2000 12:58:00 PM)
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I've been dating my boyfriend for two years now. But I do have a little situation that I need some advice on. So all you girls and guys- help me out! My boyfriend, Brandon, always hung out with a big group of people before we met. It was a group that consisted of girls and guys. There was these two girls in particular who espeicially were close to Brandon and his family. I always thought it was more than friendship to them. They are the type who are flirty, sneaky and hate other women. When we started dating, two years ago, these two particular girls, totally acted as if I did not exist, flirted with Brandon in front of me, and all-around disrespected me as his girlfriend. I was so shy and nieve then that I never said anything due to the fact the girls were close to Brandon's sister, and always over at his house. Well, one day I went over to his house and he was upstairs alone with one of them. He claimed she needed to talk privately to him. I was furious. I knew she was trying to get him alone. He said she was depressed that he wasn't spending enough time with her anymore. I told him that was outrageous, and she liked him way more than a mere friend. Anyway, after a huge fight, Brandon said he understood and has tried to avoid them every since. Since these two have made best friends with his family, they're still in my life. His sister invites them to Brandon's Birthday parties, get-together's, etc.They talk behind my back, and still flirt with B. Everytime I try to tell his family how I feel, there reply is "Everyone just needs to get along." And Brandon says, "I just want to keep the peace between my family and other friends." The girls are friends of B's other friends, too. How convenient.

Once, they came into the restaurant where I work to make me wait on them. When I refused {because I knew they were just being mean} they cried to Brandon's family at how rude I was, and asked how in the world could he like ME!

They are always writing him cute little notes {which he throws away} and the other day I found a scrapbook thay had made him as a gift with pics of the three of them hugging and taking roadtrips when me and B had broken up.

The thing is guys, is that they are so sneaky and good at what they do, I always look like the crab, and they appear sweet little angels. and they know it.I have never done anything to them, I never even spoke to them, even though we're together alot.It's hard for Brandon to satisfy his family and friends and me.

There's a babyshower this weekend at B;s house. One of the girl's won't go because she told his sister that she can't be put in that position with me being there.{see? she looks innocent, like i'm the bad one} The other girl is coming. I'm sick of this! What should I do? I'm not the type to start yelling at her, but have I been nice to long? Tell me what you think. Is it just me being paranoid?

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Date: 3/3/2000 1:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 4839    Don't get too hung out over it. What I think you should do is kill them with kindness...so you are nice to them which might help you to get along better with them. Actually, from experience I know it works and the people I did that to backed off and didn't try so hard to frustrate me and they lost interest. I hope I helped.
*starz*
  
Date: 3/3/2000 1:29:00 PM  From Authorid: 3894    I think starz is right. You could also talk it over with B and see if he will talk to them or you can talk to them your self and make sure they know whos boss. (sorry if non of this is good but I've never been in this situation being 12 and all).......HockeyGirl  
Date: 3/3/2000 1:36:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 5632    Thanks, guys  
Date: 3/3/2000 1:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 5553    I know that I've never been in your shoes, but it seems as if you haven't put much trust into your b/f. If you really trust him you should just handle things on your own; try not to get your b/f's family involved. Also, if you don't trust him that much, you really shouldn't be together...sorry if I offended you in any way-----Jayme, 12
Date: 3/3/2000 2:18:00 PM    Piece of good advice, Get out of this relationship now! You will be much better off, kick him to the curb girlfriend! You will be so much happier, trust! You don't need all the drama!
Date: 3/3/2000 2:35:00 PM    I wouldn't be so hasty to just leave your bf over this. Unless you have good reason to. I agree with the first reply, kill them with kindness. Then and only then can you feel totally good about it. And eventually, they will wonder from your life and B's. And you can keep your bf if you really love him.
Date: 3/3/2000 6:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 5402    two words "ASK JEDI?"
Date: 3/3/2000 9:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 1459    It's just high-school drama. It will all fade in time..JVAri§tovcrat.  
Date: 3/3/2000 10:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 3263    Sounds like a problem for Jerry Springer! Seriously, I think that starz had a good idea... be nice to them! Be so nice that they can't stand it, so when they get all uppity THEY are the ones who look bad! (LOL @ auth#5402) DARKCROW  
Date: 3/4/2000 5:19:00 PM    Hey,,,
Wow, this sounds so familiar!! I was involved with this guy last year, who kept telling me about his 'best friends'(two sneaky little girls, who flirt with him, get him to fix their cars, computers etc),,he always told me, that he was like a 'big brother' to them!! I believed it, I wanted to trust my boyfriend,,,but, these girls were with him constantly, flirting, having dinner, going to clubs etc,,,at times, he'd pay more attention to them than to me,,,
Needless to say, they called ME the crabby one, after a while I just didn't feel special anymore, and that is what I want in a BOYFRIEND, to feel appreciated, to be able to trust him.
A relationship is one on one--ask him, how he would like it if you had two "best" guy friends acting the way these girls act around him??
He needs to know that he hurts you by being so "cozy" with these girls--if he doesn't care, then you should break up, because you will drive yourself crazy trying to have this relationship with a guy who loves female attention so much that we won't give his girlfriend the respekt she deserves!!

Best of luck,
CC
Date: 3/7/2000 8:57:00 AM    Those girls are not the problem, your boyfriend is the problem. He is a "man", and he likes the attention. If he didn't like it, he would set them straight. And, he sounds a little wimpy if he doesn't want to make waves with his family. Too bad how his family feels, how about the way he feels and you feel? I think he's full of it. Let him know how you want it to be, if he resists, dump him. He wasn't worth it then.
Date: 3/16/2000 1:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 4144    ditto.....kill them with kindness. believe me it does work! good luck! kady  
Date: 5/3/2000 4:09:00 PM    I think that u need 2 tell him something about hiself.And slip them 2 girl's

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