Date: 6/23/2001 11:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 36352
My cousins husband did the same thing. Don't blame your self. Yes you made a mistake, the same that many make. You will learn from it. But the bottom line is they made the choice to die, not you. They must of had many many problems to do what they did. The world is tuff. I'm sorry you had to go through this. Love, AngelBelle  |
Date: 6/23/2001 11:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 7654
When a person truly decides to take their life there is little that anyone can do to stop them.You can't blame yourself either.I'm sorry that this happened.It's always sad to hear that one took their own life..  |
Date: 6/23/2001 11:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 23129
i would deffinitely feel bad, but at the same time it isn't really your fault. if they did something that drastic over something so small, they were going to do it anyways, and used you as an excuse to make it somehow right.  |
Date: 6/23/2001 11:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 26303
What a horrible thing to do to you. He probably would've done it anyway, and has left you feeling like its your fault. Its not!!!!!!!!!! I know it would be hard not to feel a bit guilty, thats human nature. But he did it to himself, he should not have used that kind of emotional black mail on you. I feel for you. ~Aussie Girl  |
Date: 6/24/2001 12:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 27318
I got frustrated with someone very close to me(my former husband) and told him I didn't care if he were there or not, now he's not. He died of lung cancer. Now I watch my mouth, and I make sure I tell my new husband and my 2 children that I love them, everytime they walk out the door to go ANYwhere. It's sad that wew have to learn our lessons the hard way, isn't it. Please don't let this eat you up inside. One person can't take on the responsibility of another persons life. That's in the hands of a much greater power. Stonedhinge  |
Date: 6/24/2001 1:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 30229
I have always heart it said by experts, that if someone really WANTS to commit suicide, then they will... nothing will change that... so dont feel guilty, he would have done it anyway... it is NOT your fault... and you could NOT control his actions... God Bless you...  |
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Date: 6/24/2001 1:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 30229
heart was meant to be HEARD above.. dontcha just LOVE those typos???? lol |
Date: 6/24/2001 4:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 24924
It's like the story of the little boy who cried "Wolf!" so many times when there wasn't a wolf, that when one really did come, no one believed him. Sometimes I think it is a form of emotional blackmail when people say things like that in order to see what your reaction will be and or whether you care or not. They don't seem to take into consideration that their talk of suicide may hurt YOU, and or whether YOU will even know what to do or say to them. I always take it serious anyway, and try to offer some kind of encouragement, but if a person is hell-bent on doing themselves harm, there isn't an awful lot a body can do. IF you do or say all that you are capable of, then you should not feel guilty about anything when they DO decide to end their life. You can't save people from themselves.
The Thinker  |
Date: 6/24/2001 6:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 18551
hmmm...no i would not rush over, i would call and get them help or committed...people who say they are going to commit suicide often do...it is not your fault, you didnt do it...  |
