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my heart is breaking

  Author:  35933  Category:(General Advice) Created:(8/1/2001 10:56:00 PM)
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My boyfriend and I have been together a year, and we've had our share of ups and downs. Some things happened (no! I did not cheat) and I lost his trust. But we worked through these things, or so I thought and everything was good. Well I could tell that something was wrong with him because its like we weren't even together anymore. We never spent time together and things just didn't feel the same. I asked him on more than one occasion if he still felt the same for me and he always said yes! Tonight he explained to me that his feelings have changed because I hurt him, and he sometimes thought we would be better friends. He said he needed time to think about things, and we'd work through everything...if we were meant to be then everything would work out. Well we have a baby due in December so my emotions are already out of wack. Now I am just going crazy. I don't want to lose him because he is my companion, boyfriend, best friend, and father to my baby. I guess i'm just upset because I had a picture in my head of us all being a happy, loving family together forever, and now that dream is in jeopardy and it is my fault but I am sorry! My question is what can I do to be happier in these days of him thinking through things? Its breaking my heart, but I have faith in our relationship. Until then I need suggestions of how to not just sit here and cry all the time. Thanks!

-Disconnected

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Date: 8/1/2001 11:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 20956    awwwww.....iam sorry to hear about this ~ i know what it can feel like to have a broken heart and nothing anyone can say or do can fix it (except ofcourse the person who broke it). All i can suggest is for you to talk to your boyfriend and try and work through what has happened between you two. I hope everything works out, not just for your sake but for the sake of your baby. Goodluck  
Date: 8/1/2001 11:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 19382    What on earth did you do to lose his trust? Cheating. lying and talking behind my back, they are the only things that would cause me to lose trust in my Girlfriend. All I can say is goodluck, i have little advice to help with the feeling happy the next few days, but I hope things do work out between you two.  
Date: 8/2/2001  From Authorid: 37872    God, I'm so sorry for you. Sounds to me like he's getting cold feet. He should have decided long before you were pregnant to have second thoughts, otherwise it should be a mute point. It saddens my heart to think that a man would abandon his family before it even comes to be. You have every right to feel as you do, I only hope that he comes to his senses before it's to late. Don't stress and be strong, that's all I can give you for now. Ra  
Date: 8/2/2001 12:03:00 AM  From Authorid: 34855    im sooooo sorry!!...that really SUCKS....the most you can
do is give him time and talk to him...dont beg for
him but show him how much you love him...sometimes
ppl just dont relize how much you love them unless
you tell them...or really show it...dont worry hun
things can only get better;)
lots of luv
  
Date: 8/2/2001 1:33:00 AM  From Authorid: 40768    Well Im sorry for that:(.... Well My advice is basically the same tell him how much you want him to be a to father to your baby. and if things dont work out you would like to at least be friends for the sake of you precious baby.
Date: 8/2/2001 5:45:00 AM  From Authorid: 15823    I really don't know what advice to give you except to say that you two really need a good
heart-to-heart talk to sort out things properly.
You don't seem like a bad person to me so I accept your word when you say you didn't cheat on him. Perhaps the thought of early fatherhood has given him a hard shock ... but he should have thought of that earlier.
My best wishes to you. Take care. XXXX
  
Date: 8/2/2001 8:21:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 35933    thanks alot for your comments and suggestions! I hope and pray that me and him can work through all this and come out being like we were. I guess time can only tell. I'm just going to give him his space and when he decides what he wants to do then he'll call!

-Disconnected
  
Date: 8/2/2001 9:24:00 AM  From Authorid: 38989    Oh man that has to suck. im really sorry about that. I dont know what to tell you. Maybe you could have a very seriouse talk with him ~Forgotten one~  
Date: 8/3/2001 8:56:00 PM  From Authorid: 37041    im unexperienced in this stuff but i think u should turn to somebody u trust and discuss this with them
Date: 8/3/2001 8:56:00 PM  From Authorid: 37041    im unexperienced in this stuff but i think u should turn to somebody u trust and discuss this with them

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