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Date: 11/10/2001 9:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 46458
I feel for you. I have a friend like this. All you can do now is to giver your opinion and if he really is a good friend he will take your opinion into consideration. I hope your friend makes the right decision and you have the courage to help him in any way. As a friend you must always support him. I hope you find the right way to deal with this. -Mysterious Giver |
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Date: 11/10/2001 9:24:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 46466
thanks, i try to talk to him about this and bring up something 'bad' that happened, but he just get p!ssed, but im only doing this to make him see its wrong! and if something happened to him, id be the one to feel guilty for it. im trying my hardest to deal with it, but its hard being friends with him still... and when he told me he asked for my opinion and when i gave it to him he got really mad. but what was i suppose to say that im happy hes doing something so STUPID?.... :'( |
Date: 11/11/2001 5:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 10245
First off...don't you EVER feel guilty for something that someone else has done. You can't control or change another person, only yourself... YOU are not to blame for the choices that HE makes. Period. Now, I think you have already answered your own question... you can't go on being his friend knowing what he's doing... maybe it's time for some distance, but you have to be the one to decide that. You've tried talking to him about this and his mind seems to be made up... maybe once he finds some REAL trouble in this situation he might wise up... until then, you have to decide whether you want to stand by and wait or move on... Good Luck, it's a tough situation...  |
Date: 11/11/2001 8:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 16061
Dont ever feel responsible for others people actions, you control you and no one else. You have to tell this friend that they have to make a choice, it going to be tough but if he is doing something you dont like then you have t otell them this. I am afraid this is the only way.  |
Date: 11/11/2001 10:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 34758
he's going to do what he wants to do regardless of what you say to him. if you nag him about it, he'll probably just hide it from you. if you can't handle being is friend, tell him you don't want to talk to him as long as he's into this. but tell him you'll be there for him whenever he decides to stop. just explain to him that it's too stressful on you and you care about him too much. that's what i'd do anyways! i know it won't be easy, but if he loses all of his real friends he might begin to see quicker what he's doing to his life by doing this "bad" thing.  |
Date: 11/12/2001 8:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 46479
he has to make his own mistakes.........Sir Christopher  |
Date: 12/2/2001 6:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 36537
God is Forgiving if you do not do stuff that is wrong, tell him that.
sandy8  |
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Date: 12/2/2001 6:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 36537
if you dont do it on purpose. sandy8 |
