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If I left would you miss me or would you even notice?? ~~JellieBean~~

  Author:  16916  Category:(Discussion) Created:(12/9/2001 9:11:00 PM)
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Ive been wondering that for a while, why is it there is only a select few people here that are recognized for there accomplishments? If I was just given a chance to show my abilities I would, I feel like I am totally ignored. Sure I get replies on my posts and people arent mean to me, but its like i feel like if I were to leave people would just be like JellieBean? Whos that? Everything here seems like a popularity contest and I have contemplated leaving many times because of it. It seems like people are so busy they dont have time to recognize us "lower class" people here at USM I just want to be recognized for once, it would be nice to be one of the crowd! thanks for listen (even though it doesnt matter because when you read this post you'll reply and forget about it again like everyone always does nothiny I say is ever taken seriously) have a great day :) One more thing everyone complains about people making posts for attention, maybe it seems that way because whoever says that has a guilty concionse because they know its true. And when someone does make a post just to get attention its because they feel they cant get it any other way, Wait that cant be true because everyone loves everyone at USM YEAH RIGHT!

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Date: 12/9/2001 9:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 35720    No way!! This isn't a popularity contest.. I notice you all the time and take you seriously and I'd miss you if you left!! *hugs*  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 38751    u seem so popular here how could n e one NOT notice????

*blonde-surfin-chica*
  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 7952    Jellie!!! there is no "lower class" at USM!! :( we are all equals! please please please dont leave! i would HONESTLY miss you..im not just saying that!! i am serious!!! please dont..:( *hugs* dont dont dont dont!! *ties you to the chair* you are not leaving us missy! poke :D  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 25046    Of course you would be missed. Everytime you reply you leave a sweet treat behind.  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:18:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16916    Well im not only speaking for myself, and I just feel pushed out  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:18:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16916    Kinda like a dog in a room full of cats  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 43498    true...  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:24:00 PM  From Authorid: 35720    Sorry you feel that way Jellie Bean.. but we are trying to be nice. You really are not ignored here. Really.  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:24:00 PM  From Authorid: 18516    I share ur pain JB!  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:25:00 PM  From Authorid: 7952    people dont ignore you guys...*sigh* we all get ignored at some stage or another, and we dealed with it..jump in conversation! reply to more posts! i dont know..you're not being ignored.  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:26:00 PM  From Authorid: 27558    Guys I am sorry but i have to go with Jellie on this one. If you get mad at anyone make it me.
  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:28:00 PM  From Authorid: 7952    I agree with Rika. Sorry Jelli that you feel like people have hurt you, it was never anyones intentions to do so...people make mistakes...wouldnt you agree?  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:28:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16916    Im not the only person that feels that way, I have spent the last month here trying desperately to get recognized nice to everyone, helped out people in need and I never even got a thank you  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:29:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16916    Aww US I made the post no one should be getting mad at you! Hugggz  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 40881    Awww I have seen so many posts like this one...I would miss you:) You have helped me a few times! I know I lean in twards the people I know..because it feels safe. But I felt this way too before. I understand where your comming from..love&hugz  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:31:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16916    People do make mistakes i have to agree with that, but im pointing out those mistakes and standing up for how I feel  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 7952    its better to give than recieve..feel good that you HELPED someone instead of feeling bad because you didnt get a thankyou..*shakes head*  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:35:00 PM  From Authorid: 277    Your id number is "16916"...Do you know that means you were the 16916TH person to become a member at USM? Plus, all the people who joined after you, probably makes the membership almost 50000 total. Imagine how many posts are submitted in a day, before you throw the pity party for yourself. Also, maybe the people who write for attention are the ones who want to cast the guilt trips? You won't find one on me, because I feel nothing for anyone who whines about being unseen or unpopular. You can make your mark, but whining is not the way to do it.  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 7952    Hawk...i agree with you 100%..:D *hugs*  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 18516    I've had an idea for awhile now (after talking to other usmers that feel the same way u do JB) why don't we ask Radman & Ginger or other Usmers about adding a new group called 'The Outsiders' and that way anyone could join and we could get to know each other better and if anyone felt outta place here they could go to the group. I thought this was a good idea. What do ya'll think?  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 27558    I am with Jellie on this one guys we are just standing up for what we feel this is not a pity party this is a discussion  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:41:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16916    Hawk im sorry i didnt relize I was ruining USM by speaking up amd "Whining" some people arent perfect like you, i needed to get my feelings off my chest, and this post might be a lot of things but its not a pity party and if thats the way you feel then why did you finish reading it  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 277    Oh nice idea, Lemonade *sarcasm* excluding people who feel out of place in their own club. Yeah, that will really boost their self esteem. USM is "one" a "whole". Everyone is a member here.  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:43:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16916    Lemonade me that is a great idea, ill suggest it to them  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    oh JellieBean I understand!!! somedays its like hello is anyone out there?? & I do a where is everybody post!!!! I use to feel lkie you!!! You can go back to my early posts & read them!!!!! I felt just as you do!!! But then I started posting like mad & no ones told me to shut up yet!!!! so don't give up!!!! We really do care!!! Some of us are just louder than others!!!  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 18516    Dang Hawk u didn't have to bite my head off..I was just trying to help. I'll just shut up now. Forget the group..it may have been a bad idea. It was only a suggestion and only that. Nothing else.  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 1631    I also agree with Hawk. Besides, I don't think neither she nor I have been around as long as we have because of our whining abilities. Jump in and play the game. Don't stand on the sidelines and complain about it...  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 277    You're not ruining USm, Jellie. If you want to express feelings that's fine, but face it...it is whiny. If you need attention, then write a really great post. Don't sit here saying oh no one knows me...boo hoo....Be known stand up! Belt out those feelings in a story about a girl.....If you want recognition, then earn it like respect.  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:46:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16916    Or you could its your idea...Hawk it is a great idea its where other people can feel important, kinda like how you are taking advantage of your popularity right now and making lemonade me feel like dirt  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:47:00 PM  From Authorid: 27558    Hawk not to be rude but you are being rude  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:49:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16916    Hawk, this isnt a boo hoo post im sorry that i inconvenienced you, But i needed to get my feelings accross i was sick of bottling them up  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:49:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    this is really ugly now!!!! shakes head!!!!  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:51:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    JellieBean why don't you show Hawk the door!!!  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    Hawk you came & said what you needed to!! overkill is not cool!!!! everyone has an opinion & you gave yours!!!enough said!!  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:58:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16916    Thanks moongirl, Hawk at the point of emotional exaustion im at, i dont need your rude comments and people like you are half the reason im starting to not like USM anymore thats the reason i dont want to be here anymore cuz of the rude nasty comments me and some other people get when they voice an opinion  
Date: 12/9/2001 9:58:00 PM  From Authorid: 29928    Jelliebean, you are welcome here and you are an important part of this family...and as in all families, sometimes poeple feel left out, but it is no reason to run. Stay and just participate. I, for one, have enjoyed seeing your posts and your comments..you add a lot to USM. Much Love,  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:00:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16916    Thanks a lot Pammie Rose I think i might just need a break  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:00:00 PM  From Authorid: 277    I'm not trying to make anyone feel like dirt here. I understand, you need a reason again, because I gave you ways to be known. Now you need a scapegoat. Someone to represent the bad things of USM. Looky here....it's the rude Hawk! LOL! Give everyone a break and use your imagination on a story. You guys seem to have a lot of anger, how about some poetry? Let the feelings flow.  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 7952    LOL......*rolls eyes*  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 7952    I'm sorry but i dont go for sympathy posts anymore. Sorry for being blunt.  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 29928    And for the others..common guys, lighten up some...if you cant come on USM and feel safe in expressing your feelings..then where? We are family!!!  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:02:00 PM  From Authorid: 7952    Pammie, you are right..but people complaining when they are completly wrong?? its just ridiculous :)  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:03:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16916    Look im so sick of this I need a break if anyone still wants to talk, E-mail me BabJellieBellieGrl@aol.com otherwise ill will see you all in a month or so  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:03:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    say lemonaide & jelli want to do a post together some time???  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:05:00 PM  From Authorid: 18516    I know plenty of people here who've tried to 'jump in' with everyone and they are ignorned. So they then repeat themselves and still it seems they are looked over. So how can one get 'involved' when people don't acknowledge them?  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    lmao!!! @ Hawk!!!! you ain't running me off!!!!  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    yahoooooooooooooooooo!!!  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    227 don't mean nothing to me!!!  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:18:00 PM  From Authorid: 27558    Well all now that this is settled I am gone for good.
Now my problems are no longer in your ways of life
~Vanishes~
  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 1631    Is martyrdom suddenly cool or something, cuz I've been seeing A LOT of it on USM lately. I'm so confused...  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:23:00 PM  From Authorid: 7952    LOL Ali!  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:27:00 PM  From Authorid: 36704    lmao GET A GRIP PEOPLE, man talk about being ultra sensitive, Hawk you rock and I get a kick outta your comments. If people can't handle them sucks for them...base  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 39258    im with base.. hawk tells it like it is.. no sugar coating.. that is reality after all.. and there is nothing wrong with that  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    I guess I suck!!!  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:42:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    I'm glad I do!!  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:44:00 PM  From Authorid: 29928    If being mean and insensitve rocks...I guess I dont rock..oh well..never claimed to be cool...just caring and this post makes me sick to see how Jellie is being treated in here! Where is the compassion?  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:48:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    I suck cuz I'm friendly & have compassion!!  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:50:00 PM  From Authorid: 18516    I suck cuz I was just trying to help..  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:51:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    lemon high 5 !!!! we suck!!!  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:52:00 PM  From Authorid: 44850    word. i suck too. he, he, he, he it kinda rocks to suck. :p sexxxxxxxxxy penguin.  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 29928    ^5ers Moonie, Penguin, and Lemon..we all suck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  
Date: 12/9/2001 10:59:00 PM  From Authorid: 40881    Everone SUCKS! j/k lmao..I have no clue what I'm talking about! Jellie I hope you feel better!  
Date: 12/9/2001 11:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 18516    *High 5's Pammie and MG*  
Date: 12/9/2001 11:23:00 PM  From Authorid: 7952    Jelli! i apologise! you are right and i am wrong :D i suck! LOL *hugs* Aunty Pammie :D  
Date: 12/9/2001 11:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 29928    Aww dolphin I am soooo proud of you huggs hunnie! much love, Aunt Pammie  
Date: 12/10/2001 12:40:00 AM  From Authorid: 4309    Haha.. You guys are the most incensitve jacked up people I have ever known. I swear I do not know USM anymore. Its full of bitter people who only wish for themselves to remain in the lime light at the expence of others. Try to be understanding instead of attacking once in awhile.. Maybe you can learn a thing or two.  
Date: 12/10/2001 12:42:00 AM  From Authorid: 4309    What happened to Friendship and Love before Politics, Favoritism, and Silly Rules... *Sigh*  
Date: 12/10/2001 2:55:00 AM  From Authorid: 27845    Jellie Bean, I'm so sorry you feel this way. I know what you mean about how some people are recognised more then others on this site but that doesn't mean that you are not one of them! I for one have read many of your posts and I know who you are! We have never really talked but given the chance I would love to get to know you better *hugs* Message me if you ever feel you need someone to talk to or you feel left out. *smile*  
Date: 12/10/2001 8:38:00 AM  From Authorid: 30229    MY Goodness People!!!! Lighten up, this is a 16 year old girl reaching out for friendship!!! She is not hurting anyone, she just was telling us how she FEELS!!! Last time I looked that was NOT on the FAQ for being against the rules... I didnt see this as a pity party, rather as someone who WANTS to be noticed.... Hawk, although you make a great point about HOW to post and get attention, you said it wrong, I am sorry to say. If you had said that to me, a 48 y/o mature woman, I would have said... "GOOD POINT THANKS" but not to a 16 yr old!!! Jellie, I do know what you are saying and what you are feeling, honey... and I am just a message away if you need to talk... I will answer you as soon as I can... MUCH love and MANY hugggggggs........  
Date: 12/10/2001 9:02:00 AM  From Authorid: 277    Gail, 16 yer old can't understand what I'm saying, but a grown woman can? Maybe I was just a smart 16 year old, give the girl some credit, she understands. It's there in black and white that I tried to help this girl. She'd rather get replies saying poor baby, I care, don't go. You just said "you make a great point about HOW to post and get attention, you said it wrong, I am sorry to say." So if one person doesn't understand, then I'm the insensitive jerk? Give me a break. You just didn't have the guts to be like the cheese and stand alone and just agree with my comment about writing a post. You have to make a 16 year old sound like an infant, like I hurt her because you think she can't comprehend what my comments meant. If I was the 16 year old, I would be offended by that. People hear what they want to hear. This is a g rated site and I did my part to make my comments on this post g rated. If it was a 9 year olds post then I would have responded differently or maybe not at all. But, this girl is 16 years old. Also, there are many ways to be noticed here. No, there's nothing in the faqs stating that we can't whine, but I believe it's just for attention.......and yes friendship possibly. BUT, if you want a friend people, go into chat. Post in USM events. Join a group.......  
Date: 12/10/2001 9:55:00 AM  From Authorid: 16061    Jelliebean - all the older memeber on this site would be missed. USM can sometimes feel like a popularity contest and if you come here for that then I ma afraid you going to be disappointed. We all want recognistion for what we do in life but we dont always get it do we. Be strong my friend and yourself if you left I would miss you I always have a foundness for people in my number series ther are not many of us on USM now. :(.  
Date: 12/13/2001 9:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 4309    *Shakes Head* Is it me or is care no longer an issue here?  
Date: 12/14/2001 5:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 36965    Sometimes it does feel that way on USM...but I think that life itself is a popularity contest and USM is in fact a miniature world...you must find where you fit in and remember there is at least ONE person that you mean the world to, and whether there are many thinking a little of you doesn't matter...Im glad you're staying at USM daughter, i WOULD miss you! *hugs and love* blessed be~  
Date: 1/29/2002 7:34:00 PM  From Authorid: 28190    Hiya Stina sis, I know what you mean. I think we all feel this way at one point or another. But now that I know you, I have a wonderful friend that I would miss if you ever left.. :D I hope that you do stay around sweety!! Love ya! *huggles* love, Amanda P.S. I dont think of you as a "lower class" USMer :D  
Date: 3/14/2002 7:52:00 PM  From Authorid: 29262    u go sis
Bubbulangel
  

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