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Date: 3/22/2002 6:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
I think that if you dont want something to get out you need to keep it to yourself..for sure...its human nature to gossip I think..but when it leads to people getting really hurt, its not good..I have been guilty of this myself, and have also had the same thing done to me...Just keep your relationship private, and chalk it up as a lesson learned I guess...xoxo  |
Date: 3/22/2002 6:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 35160
both, tell her u r not happy she betrayed ur trust, and tell her u wont ever tell her anything private again, thats what i would do in ur situation, i hope everything works out 4 u hun, huggs shay  |
Date: 3/22/2002 6:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 49789
No, confront her, even if she is her friend. you don`t have to be harsh about it, just tell her that you were upset that she told everyone something you didn`t want them to know. i know what it`s like to have my secrets blabbed, and it sure ain`t fun.  |
Date: 3/22/2002 7:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 6050
I don't think you should confront her..because, if this really bothers you a great deal..it will just make you say mean hurtful things..it will get out of hand because, you want to be defensive no matter how calmly u approach it...I think that maybe u should say that ur trust was violated and that is the reasoning behind you not wanting to share...I hope she atleast feels a little bit bad about it..You intrusted her with an opportunity that you refused to give anyone..she got that honor or priviledge of getting to hear your feelings outloud..and she failed..simple as that..u shouldn't have to explain anything in great detail..just let it be known that ur sorry she broke ur trust. And i'm sorry she did too  |
Date: 3/22/2002 7:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 12103
I think you should ask her why she told, and that you trusted her NOT to tell....Then if i were you i wouldnt tell her things that you dont want people knowing anymore...After all, if you dont confrount her, and say SOMETHING (even something little) You will be keeping all this emotion inside..which is hard on yourself..good luck *huggles*  |
Date: 3/22/2002 7:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
I'd confront her..you told her something personal..something not to be told to anyone else..you confided in her and she let you down..after this I wouldn't tell her anything personal.  |
Date: 3/22/2002 7:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 47699
I've learned from experience, it's best to just keep it all to yourself. My dear Dad has a saying and I live by it. "I don't tell everything that I know." Wise words indeed....  |
Date: 3/22/2002 7:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 5252
no, i think you should confront her about this, you confided in her, and trusted her, and what did she do, BLABBED!! that's mainly the reason i keep everything to myself, unless i feel i need to talk to someone about it!!  |
Date: 3/22/2002 7:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 49719
If your friend wants anymore inside info, just tell her that you can't trust her anymore until she proves that she's trustworthy and not to bug you about it anymore..  |
Date: 3/22/2002 7:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 1443
I would tell her, Hey you cant be trusted. Tell her how she hurt you. She should know. It really isn't anyone's business what goes on between you and your man... tell them to mind their own business. If they feel free to tell the world what goes on in their relationship, let them....  |
Date: 3/22/2002 8:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
Tell her how it made you feel then let it go. But I wouldn't spill my guts to her any more either. Best Wishes..  |
| Date: 3/22/2002 8:40:00 PM From Authorid: 51707 confront her and i think that i would not tell her anything that you do not want others to now anymore*lil_princess* |
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Date: 3/22/2002 9:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 6050
Actualy as far as confrantation goes..i mean..don't seek her out and throw it in her face...Do tell her precisely what u think of it and how it made u feel! |
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Date: 3/22/2002 9:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 6050
I've tried the confrontation thing..it didn't really do any good..i guess if the person hasn't a clue..then the person hasn't a clue..sometimes ppl don't understand that need for privacy..they don't get why you don't want to share..they feel there is no harm...she should've respected that or atleast thought before blurting..i guess she felt hey..we're all friends..why not! LOL no offense mom..because, i know u'll read this...But, my mom sometimes shares things that i have confided to her...I had said something about one of my friends to her..not really thinking that person would ever be around my mom...well... i guess i was wrong..and mom had blurted a secret out and well..from then on i try not to remember what ppl say to me..just so i can't have it held against me later on..seems to work wonders |
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Date: 3/23/2002 11:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 51225
Confront her - some people dont see the harm in what they do or say. They want to know about your relationship for it is a part of your life, but explain that it is private to you. Just tell them what you told us. Lots of luck! *hugs* Dreaming of Life |
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Date: 3/23/2002 6:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 51393
Dearest, I believe sometimes speaking to someone does not really hurt.The individual or any one for that matter .You have to understand we cannot help ourselves to speak our mind most espescially when jealousy occur. I know you are hurt,but I need to ask you this do you're friend ever was there for you when you need someone to talk to or someone to care? Ask ,you're self this does this anger satisfy you're curiosity againts her loyalty to you. Again ,analyze this does this individual maybe have at any respect towards you or you're friendship alone,if the answer is no then distance is needed to a relationship which include keeping to you're self from the individual who maybe risking you're safety. If,the answer is yes,then mistakes maybe arising from you're side expressing a little more than she can handle.I want you to remember this an old saying never bite more than you can chew( meaning) Do not exploit personality or grievance to others that may reflect you're ability to performed you're personality and be characterized.Sometimes ignoring the negatives and continue as gifts handed to you from above is you're best allie. have problems friends and jealousy arises for some reason .Sometimes when you don't see you're mistakes it will destroy trust and respect on both sides.There are tactful ways to impress a friend or impose problems from friends view point.You need to feel the right moment to say what is bothering you.You need to speak heart to heart talk like this person is one of you're family.If,you showed courtesy of others the return are abundant.Respect is quite an issue,be sure to open you're mind without spilling guidance of you're actions can only benefit you,if you think before speaking. GOD BLESS YOU MAY YOU LIVE HAPPILY  |
Date: 3/23/2002 10:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 49269
confront *SilverSparkles*  |
Date: 3/24/2002 3:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 49742
I would tell her how it hurt your feelings to find out that she had told your other friends, and don't tell her things you don't want anyone else to know. Angelfollower  |
Date: 3/26/2002 6:18:00 AM
From Authorid: 7333
If you confront her, she'll only play innocent, then go out and spread that story, making herself the good guy. People want to know your business in order to keep the rumor mill going. They really don't care about you or your feelings -- all they want is GOSSIP. Perrianne  |
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