Date: 3/22/2002 8:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 5252
hmmm, well first off i think these 'friends' need to grow up, no offense! and i think that if they are going to be immature like that, then i say away with them! maybe you should confront britt, or both of them, and ask them what's up. if it were me, i wouldn't be taken that crap, but that's just me. i have a very low tolerance level, so my patience, isn't so great!  |
Date: 3/22/2002 8:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
Find new friends hon. If they act friendly with you when they msg again then be nice but If they start to get rude, just politely excuse yourself from the convo, make up an excuse to leave or something. Best Wishes...  |
Date: 3/22/2002 8:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 50791
I would take it as they are directing it towards me but I take things too seriously most of the time. Maybe they are just joking with you. Maybe they are jealous because USM gets more of your time than they do! Anyway I think it was kinda rude to message you and say what they said. So next time they message you be honest and tell them that you didn't feel comfortable with what they said and ask them if they dont wanna be your friend anymore or if they were joking. If they wanna be your friend they should apologize and not joke with you that way anymore dontcha think?  |
Date: 3/22/2002 8:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 6050
It's just what it is...Immature clean fun..to them anyway...don't take it personal..i know how it may feel like a jab at you..but, you'll just have to let it roll off of you...you seem to already know what their trying to do...It's funny i seem to feel a personal attack at some posts even when it has nothing to do with me...probably the same thing that's going on in this case...maybe u should find different friends..whatever makes you feel better hun...who needs the head games  |
Date: 3/22/2002 8:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 18516
Thank you Hyperchick..I've tried talking to britt only but she gets off and I don't wanna deal with her. My parents keep telling me she's not a good friend.  |
Date: 3/22/2002 8:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 19482
Say to them "you just reminded me why I depsise people." heehee, saw it on a t-shirt :) sowwy they being mean to you!!! :'( *hugs* Forever Xenia,  |
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Date: 3/22/2002 8:34:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 18516
ReleaseMe..Yes I will do so. They msg me and invite me into private chatrooms and then they make plans for the weekends and I'm excluded or invisible when they make the plans..it's like 'why didja invite me on here?' ya know? |
Date: 3/22/2002 8:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
I would suggest that you NOT let them know that this is hurting you..for some reason when people know you are upset they pounce even more..I guess they get some sort of sick pleasure from it..Keep your head held high Lemon and know that you are a wonderful person and it is THEIR loss! Get out there and make some NEW and better friends! xoxo  |
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Date: 3/22/2002 8:38:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 18516
Author 50791..Yeah I'm a bit sensitive myself..I think their playing around but still it hurts and it's immature. I moved and now I don't see them..I'm like an hour and a half away now but I can still visit them but only if I'm invited. They could careless if I'm on USM tho..I tried to get Britt to join and she said it looked like a boring site..'little brat' lol My dad told me to just forget about her..I think I'll take his advice. I'm just lonely that's all..I miss having friends. |
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Date: 3/22/2002 8:40:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 18516
Tina..I've decided not to take it personal..their just acting like idiots. |
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Date: 3/22/2002 8:41:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 18516
LMAO @ Chilli..I'ma put that one in my away msg LOL |
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Date: 3/22/2002 8:42:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 18516
That's very true LL..I'm going to do that..find better friends..altho I'll have to find them when I move again. Dahlonega Ga isn't a very good place to meet people. |
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Date: 3/22/2002 8:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 6050
Well..you always have us..we care!!!!! |
Date: 3/22/2002 8:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 47699
I think you're just being too sensitive here. It seems to be as though they were only joking around. Don't take it so seriously! :)  |
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Date: 3/22/2002 9:45:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 18516
**UPDATE** We just got into a huge fight..she started it..I just finished crying..she said it's hard to have a friendship with someone who isn't there and I'm like have you ever heard of long distance friendships? UGH! |
Date: 3/23/2002 11:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 12216
i'd say just ignore her or him. If they get under your skin that much then they aren't much of a friend are they. I have someone like that. I'm constantly telling him to go away but he doesn't listen to me, keeps coming back for more put downs. He is more or less my friend. I mean i do tell him thing that I've never told anyone before, same vice versa, but it's along the lines of we both want to out with each other but we both want to remain just friends. So we're constatnly fighting about the situation and we're both frequently mad at each other. We just made up over a fight we had last week, that he started by yelling at me. I hate when people yell at me. Makes me feel inferior. Anyways...yeah. Just ignore them, is my advice., but then again, i'm not that much good at advice. Good luck with everything :)
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