Date: 3/22/2002 8:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 5252
yes!! all the time. see i feel that my mom favors my oldest bro and sis, b/c they are her first children. my dad favors me and my bro, b/c we are his only two kids. but okay, i am the more responsible one, and the one who actually has their head on straight. my bro that is 17 wants to drop outta highschool, yet they let him do everything and anything in the world! but me, if i want to go out with my friends, they think i do that so i can go out on a date, they think i shouldnt be able to have guy friends. urg i swear!! maybe it's b/c im their 'lil girl' but they trusted me soooo much, and then out of no where, they don't trust me. i have never done anything to lose their trust, but something has happened!  |
Date: 3/22/2002 8:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 45948
I know exactly how you feel Leana, I too am the oldest child and my younger sister has been called "the princess" since the day she was born. Even MY husband has noticed how my father (who raised us) does things for my sister and not me...just this past month, my car messed up and I needed a ride home from work but my father couldn't do it because "his princess" had to be at work at the same time (she only works part time and has no bills cuz she still lives at home while my husband was in the hospital for two weeks and out of work and I was the only one working in our house) but she was more important I guess....so yes, I can DEFINATELY relate!!!!  |
Date: 3/22/2002 8:48:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 29534
HYperchick Sis, Thanks for responding. It's just upsets me so bad! If I have to kiss up like my Sister does, it's not worth it to me. My Mother treats my brother who is the youngest not as bad as me, but pretty bad. But she also knows he won't let her see her Grandson if she makes him mad. But I can't do that to her. Thanks for taking the time to do reply. *hugs and love*  |
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Date: 3/22/2002 10:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 29534
Angeleyez, that sounds alot like my Mother. You'd think the "Favorites would get bored with it, ya know, but they don't it's like they feed off of it. I feel for ya Hun. *hugs and love* |
Date: 3/23/2002 5:38:00 AM
From Authorid: 18527
I know I was Dad's favorite, probably Mom's as well, but I got stuck with the responsability while my sis would go out and party... I had to be in by 11 pm  |
Date: 3/23/2002 6:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 19345
I'm 42 and have two teens, I have been accused of doing the favorite thing too. I guess what it really is isn't that I love one more than the other, but I have always just seemed to get along better with my son than my daughter. We just don't seem to get along as well so sometimes I just don't go around her becasue I get tired of the arguing, not that i don't love her as much as my son its just easier. I think we as parents are still people and that applies to our kids too, we all have different personalities and some just don't click as others do. I do however treat my kids the same and there isn't one thing I wouldn't do for one and not the other. Hope this helps..................  |
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Date: 3/23/2002 10:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 51893
i know how you feel!! my mother favors my brother over me. :( |
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Date: 3/23/2002 9:34:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 29534
Kethria, You are one of the lucky ones, and at least you were cared enough about to have a curfew. I don't mean that as an attack, or for anyone to feel sorry for me. That isn't why I posted this, I just need to vent. Things have gotten a little worse. Tonite she tells me that she won't be there with me for my Daughters Surgery next Wednesday, because she has someone coming to her house for her mattress, and she has a hair appointment (for my Sister's Wedding) and has to go pick out something's with my Sister for the Wedding to top all the other stuff off. I am so stressed now. When I need her most she can't even be there for me. *hugs and love* |
Date: 3/23/2002 9:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 29534
Sluggo, I see what your saying, but my Mother really makes a difference between the 3 of us. My Brother and I are always put on the back-burned. This is the Pecking order for that part of my Family. First it's my Mother, then my Step-Dad, then my Sister, and it's a toss-up between whoever comes next between my Brother and me.
*hugs and love* |
Date: 3/23/2002 9:40:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 29534
51893 Thank you for responding.
*hugs and love* |
