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IS it okay NOT to LIKE someone here at USM??????????????*DizzyME*

  Author:  9130  Category:(Debate) Created:(3/22/2002 9:03:00 PM)
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Debate: Is it okay not to like someone here at USM?

Should we all automatically pretend to like everyone just so no ones feelings will get hurt?

IS it POSSIBLE to express a difference of opinion without someone thinking you are attacking them?



Is it OKAY for me to ADMIT that I DON'T LIKE YOU?

LOL Just so you know this is just a general statement/question...not about ME or ANYONE in particular...

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Date: 3/22/2002 9:05:00 PM  From Authorid: 14182    i say yeah...cause i dont like a lot of people here  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:05:00 PM  From Authorid: 19482    It's ok with me :) But I hope that you don't hate me :)  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 12103    yes its ok for you to admit you dont like someone..but please, dont act upon it..i mean, no harassing posts or comments...no bad messages or dont say bad things in chat about them..its always ok to NOT like someone, you cant like EVERYONE..sometimes people just dont get along..but its NOT ok to spread rumors about them or write bad posts or comments in chat about them  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 25481    I think that it is... There are a few people hhere I dont like. Some jsut complain too much and all. I dont care....Im honest..I act myself whereever I go..except here I have to be a little more g -rated..I dont think everyone should ahve to be nice so you dont hurt someones feelings..because then you're not being yourself...  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 42515    i think its ok....i dont like everyone here....  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 45948    Yes, I think it's ok to admit to someone you don't like them, as long as it is done in a tasteful way. Not everyone in the world can get along and I think if you just told them that you have differences and can't seem to get along and that it would be best if you just didn't speak to them!  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 45684    You shouldn't have to like anyone that you don't want to, even if you're trying to keep peace. But just because you don't like them doesn't mean you have to be overly rude. If that makes any sense :p ~technicolor  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 21499    I love you Dizzy! you are so cool! i really love your out look on things! But no i don't really "like" anybody on USM, but i don't care, and i'm sure nobody else does! And no pretending like you like everyone makes me mad, one of my really good friends does that, and I wonder if she would ever do that to me, it's kinda cheesy and i really hate it. And on the 3rd question, nope porbably not! Great post! *hugs to ya*  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 29534    Dizzy it's o.k. with me. But I hope you like me. *hugs and love*  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:08:00 PM  From Authorid: 15157    What Leana said YOU NUT!!!!lol  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:08:00 PM  From Authorid: 50791    I think it'd be better to admit that so whoever knows the truth.  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:08:00 PM  From Authorid: 42515    p.s.>>>i hope ya like me! :p  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:08:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    Princess Jen-- i totally agree.  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:09:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    Please do not think this is a post thats gonna have me listing all the people here that I don't like! LOL its not that kinda post! hehehe  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:09:00 PM  From Authorid: 600    can we say heck in here?  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:09:00 PM  From Authorid: 600    lol! OMG. I'm NEVER on at this time of night, but am SOOO glad I made it for this! lmao! Ok, now my opinion.........(still laughing, you're too much Dizzy!) hehe......ummmm I think that it's human nature to "meet" people that you just don't care for. As for the possibility of expressing differing opinions without the authors feeling like they are being attacked?? I think it depends soley upon how the comments are stated, and how much the author wears their emotions on their sleeve. Is it okay to admit you don't like me??? Heck no! lol.  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:09:00 PM  From Authorid: 28190    Yes, I think it is ok not to like someone. I think it is ok to not like someone, but I think I would still be nice to them, and not belittle them. And yes it is possible to express a difference of opinion as long as it isnt insulting the person, ya know? :)And I am who I am, I wont change if anyone doesnt like me, because the way I see it, if they dont like me, then they are the ones missing out! :) *huge huggles* Love, Amanda  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:10:00 PM  From Authorid: 28848    LoL..Dizzy. You don't like me? Yeah I'm usually opinionated about how I feel whether its good or bad. I believe that you can express yourself in a mature and G-rated way. LoL...  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:10:00 PM  From Authorid: 18376    I say yes it's ok. There is always someone,in any group of people, that you just aren't going to like.  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 30621    I would like to know why you did not like me but I agree it's your choice. I do not like some people on USM. I do not think it makes me a bad person.  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:11:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    i think we can say heck... LOL i said it too... if not we'll both get in trouble :P  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 21867    Sure its okay not to like someone...but being civil about it is a different issue altogether...  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:13:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    Lievout-- NOT MY HOT TAMALES!!!! LOL  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:13:00 PM  From Authorid: 48858    No, no it is WRONG, WRONG, WRONG if you do not like everyone here at USM. And for that matter, you must like everyone in the world (no...LOVE!) and give them all your hot tamales and ju ju bees just to get them to like you back! ~*~Lievout~*~  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 36704    no it's not ok, you must be a good little drone and do the politically correct thing, lie...  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:14:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    i hate it when that happens!!!! My comment should go AFTER Lievouts....  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 31255    It seems your posts always have the greatest timing around here... And Yes I do think we are allowed to dislike someone without thinking we are attacking them and I have had my probs with a few usmers and they were quite aware of it, but generally they get worked out because its a waste of time walking around being angry at someone you'll see almost every time you log on. Too much energy spent on anger that's not the way I like to live my life...  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 35160    yes it is ok, i dont like some ppl here, but I DONT GO AROUND LEAVING SNOTTY COMMENTS, AND BEING BLATENTLY RUDE, as some ppl do ,  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 21867    ..LMAO...  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:16:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    spookygal-- then its a good thing I don't do that, isn't it...  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:16:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    Base-- thats what keeps getting drilled into me...but i just can't seem to get the hang of it...  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 16950    I feel it's all right to not be particularly crazy about someone not only here but anywhere. Well just so long as no one dislikes me. LOL J/K ;o) But seriously I feel it is inevitable to have certain people that we just don't care for all that much. Although I am one of those people who seems to like everyone. LOL I can always see the good in anyone. Actually it really gets on one of my friend's nerves. LOL It's her B-day today too! Weird. LOL Anyway, ummm yeah it's all right. I feel it's human nature. :o) Take good care everyone & Bless you all! Love & hugs,  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:18:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    korngurl-- one persons opinion is another persons insult... you never know what people are gonna take as an insult, so I've learned to just say what I feel and ~roll with it~  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 15157    Yer suppose to like yer master lol...well yer paid to do it!lol...LIKE ME!lol:p...I gotta go to bed I am pooped! gnight!  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 28190    I agree with that too Dizzy... I guess being yourself and doing what you think in your heart is best. I try my best to not insult anyone, whether they are my best friend or my worst enemy.. but thats me.. lol :) I dont know if you per se like me, but if you didnt, that would be ok because I know, just as everyone knows, that we are not liked by everyone.. lol :) *huge huggles* Love, Amanda  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:21:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    Kiki-- i like you only because I have to...just kiddin :P  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:23:00 PM  From Authorid: 48858    Actually, I think you should dislike everyone first and then let em grow on you...~*~Lievout~*~
  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:24:00 PM  From Authorid: 48858    Or not...but sounds interesting. ~*~Lievout~*~  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:24:00 PM  From Authorid: 16950    I am pretty honest about how I feel about just about anything or anyone. My Mom says I can sometimes be brutally honest. Oops! But I always try to be brutally honest in a polite way. LOL :o) If that made any sense... LOL Love & hugs,  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:25:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    Frisky kitty-- if yuo're gonna be brutally honest, why do it in a nice way...go all the way and say it like you mean it! LOL  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:26:00 PM  From Authorid: 16950    LMBO! Oh man! I shoulda reviewed that last comment before I posted it! LOL Jeez! There sure was a lot of about going on there! Ha ha ;o) Luv,  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:26:00 PM  From Authorid: 16950    *Gulp* I admit, Dizzy, I have. Just ask a few of my ex's. LMBO! ;o) Luv,  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:28:00 PM  From Authorid: 16916    Of course it is, nobody is perfect, it just doesnt happen that often because people try and work things out instead of automatically being like uhh because of your beleifs and what you say, I dont like you!!! See what I mean?  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 16989    stuff happens, it's alright to not like someone  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:31:00 PM  From Authorid: 24003    I think its okay because..there is one person here that I really cant stand. Her stupid posts make me wanna jump through the screen and slap her! lol  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:31:00 PM  From Authorid: 30621    Let's face the fact that everyone dose not like us. Everyone is not goin to agree with us. I use to shut off my computer and cry almost everyday when I first started coming to USM because someone did not think what I said was what they thought was right. I'm not saying I'm a new stronge person now, but I do realize it's nothing personal `SOMETIMES'  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 16950    OUCH! That hurt Green Eyes! Why did you slap me? LOL JUST KIDDING HON! Hehehe ;o) *hugs* Love,  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 16671    I agree with agent smith.  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 5252    like the saying goes ' you can choose your friends, not your family' this point, i'd be choosing my friends! if you don't like someone, then you just don't like them, no harm done.  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 16950    Which comment of his do you agree with, Firstborn? Hee hee ;o) Luv,  
Date: 3/22/2002 9:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 51707    yes i think that it is ok not to like someone i think that you shouldnt have to pretend in order to make other people happy,,but just be kind to those people when they are on,,kill them with kindness*lil_princess*
Date: 3/22/2002 10:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 43339    Well, i admitted i didnt like someone on USM in USM chat, and got a 3 minute time out.. so it isnt..lol.  
Date: 3/22/2002 10:05:00 PM  From Authorid: 30229    Of course it is ok to not like people... LIFE is such that nobody likes everyone, and no one person IS liked by everyone.. But conscience and character is what makes the difference in being rude or just honest. Rudeness isnt necessary to drive a point home... in face, most people either get ANGRY at rude people, or they just shut down and stop listening... It is always best to try to make a point without hurting anyone, whether they are liked or not... I sincerely do TRY to do this, but of course, being human, I am not always successful...  
Date: 3/22/2002 10:08:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    *bad girl* LOL @ sunshine Nights... I have been punished before too...  
Date: 3/22/2002 10:10:00 PM  From Authorid: 25046    I totally agree with your point. But I'm curious...what did I do to you? What ever it was, I'm sorry....LOL...All kidding aside, I think it is perfectly alright not to like someone.  
Date: 3/22/2002 10:10:00 PM  From Authorid: 18460    when i don't like someone here... i usually ignore them, like not talking to them or something... though i must admit it rarely happens, lol.. i think it is ok to say that... but in a nicer way...oh well...  
Date: 3/22/2002 10:35:00 PM  From Authorid: 45681    Well, I personally think you can't like everyone, and some will not like you. That's life! not everyone clicks. There are some here that I don't like very much. Perhaps they feel the same about me. I won't knock myself out worrying about it though. I say, BE HAPPY! :) :) :).....  
Date: 3/22/2002 10:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 34476    NO! YOU HAVE TO LIKE ME! EVERYONE ELSE IS AFTER ME! AAAAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHAA!!!!!  
Date: 3/22/2002 10:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 34476    Sorry... that comment got away from me there :P Why would it NOT be ok to not like somebody here at USM??? And why would you bother telling them or anyone else that you didn't like them anyway? WHO CARES?  
Date: 3/22/2002 10:55:00 PM  From Authorid: 30229    Great point Paranoid.. :)  
Date: 3/22/2002 10:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 13886    Yeah, of course it is. Sad as it may be, I'm sure there are some people who come here JUST TO ATTACK others. They know the rules I'm sure. Many of them attack simply because they LIKE TO ATTACK. Others just do it because they LIKE TO BREAK THE RULES and want to STIR THINGS UP. Most people I think would want to know it straight up, whether they are liked or not. I know if there was someone I didn't like here I would let them know one way or another, but I'd try not to be so rude about it. :)  
Date: 3/22/2002 10:58:00 PM  From Authorid: 51163    If someones comments don't agree with yours there isn't any grounds for not liking them. If their post goes vulgar, crude and insulting, and is a general tendancy of the poster to do this, then I can agree with you why you may not like them.
Date: 3/22/2002 11:02:00 PM  From Authorid: 35629    I would think so.But then it might be a good thing not to comment on thier posts because there is when the turmoil starts.:)  
Date: 3/22/2002 11:13:00 PM  From Authorid: 42945    of course we cant like everyone and everyone cant like us LOL!!! but we can use some tact when talking or commenting to their posts, never try to deliberately hurt someone's feelings, just remember none of us are PERFECT people as much as we would like to think that we are...good post hun....cheers  
Date: 3/22/2002 11:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 277    People tell me they don't like me here all the time and that's okay with me. But, I'm sure if the shoe was on the other foot people would be telling me if I had nothing nice to say don't say anything at all...LMAO! (They say that already too!) Double standards here...big time! I think it's funny. There's nothing wrong with not liking someone. There are people in real life that we don't like. I don't see why we should pretend just because we are on usm.  
Date: 3/22/2002 11:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 16950    You know I have been thinking about this & I can honestly say that I like everyone here. I am serious! Maybe because I don't know everyone yet... LOL But that's beside the point. Hee hee :o) Anyway this is a good post Dizzy. It actually has my hamster's wheel turning! LOL ;o) Love & hugs,  
Date: 3/22/2002 11:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 16950    LOL I think the only person I don't like on here at times is myself & that's because I always send things before I re-read them & they always turn out sounding lame! LMBO! :o) Okay, just had to be honest. Hee hee Luv,  
Date: 3/22/2002 11:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 16950    Ha ha Nice contradiction there Frisky. LOL Hmmm...  
Date: 3/22/2002 11:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 21435    Hmmmmmm...(Walks confidently up onto the stage..puts the blindfold on and faces the audience) "Friends....I am confident that I am loved by all...Under each of your seats, there is a smoothe stone. Cast it if you will, thou I am confident that you won't"...BONK!....bonk....Bonk....Owwwwwch...."Sure Dizzy, it's cool to "not like" someone...Long as it ain't me"...lol....BONK!...owwwwch..Write on....  
Date: 3/22/2002 11:56:00 PM  From Authorid: 16950    LOL @ Kronk  
Date: 3/23/2002 12:18:00 AM  From Authorid: 30229    LOL Kronk!!!! GREAT answer :):)  
Date: 3/23/2002 12:34:00 AM  From Authorid: 1631    Some people like me, some people don't. I like some people and can't stand others. It's called being HUMAN and being REAL...  
Date: 3/23/2002 3:00:00 AM  From Authorid: 21266    yeah, why would it be NOT okay?? you can't please everyone and you shouldnt try either.
-AHD
  
Date: 3/23/2002 4:27:00 AM  From Authorid: 30747    Okay what did I do now???? *smiles* It is sooooo impossible to like everyone you meet no matter where you go. There are over 5,000 people here. (not sure how many are active but it's alot) What are the odds that you are going to like ALL of the next 5,000 people you meet? Let's be realistic. Maybe you could tolerate half of them. Maybe you'll like a couple hundred and maybe you'll actually want to speak to about 50 of them again sometime but maybe you're only going to keep about a dozen close to you. Personality clashes are inevidible when you cram 5,000 people into a tight little space like a web site where everyone is giving opinions and vying for attention. It is more then okay not to like ALOT of people. You wouldn't be human if you didn't. Is it okay to tell them so? If someone persist in harrassing me and being immature and nasty...yes. We all have an obligation to stick up for ourselves. If I don't like someone and it gets out of hand, they are only going to hear it from me once because that is all it's going to take to solve the problem. A simple "don't mess with me" is all it's going to take. Ohhh That sounded so tough. lol *hugs and smiles*  
Date: 3/23/2002 5:13:00 AM  From Authorid: 18527    USM is like real life... some people click, others clash... and like real life we have to learn how to deal with it!  
Date: 3/23/2002 5:44:00 AM  From Authorid: 44960    Ok,,, I get the HINT,,,Go on and say it, Go on!!, I DARE YOU!!..."YOU DONT LIKE ME"...GOOD!!!!!!! I still LOVE YA!!!, Now whatcha gonna do about that :) Heh??, Heh??...LOL....(((HUGS)))  
Date: 3/23/2002 5:53:00 AM  From Authorid: 28946    It's okay to not like someone as long as a person can be tactful and not rude. Sometimes just ignoring someone does the trick too. I know there are many that cringe when they see my name tag. I try to like everyone though as it's my nature to do so. But when someone really hurts me and wants to to disappear from their posts, then I oblige them in a hurry! As far as disagreeing with someone on a post, well, I hope I'm mature enough to handle that. LOL! People disagree all the time and that makes life interesting! Geez Dizzy, most of your debates get pretty heated but it doesn't mean people hate each other(I hope). It would be a dull world if their were no "spice" to liven up things!  
Date: 3/23/2002 6:28:00 AM  From Authorid: 5061    Dizzy,its fine not to like someone,rather it be here at usm,work,lordy mercy,a lot of people ruffle my feathers.a lot of things they do and say i don't agree with.thats my god given right.and when i get tired of something OR somebody,i get away from it.let it be,one of my sister's, who s can whine with the best of them.or usm,i have a life.and its not setting in front of a computer screen wondering what complete strangers feel,or think of me.or argueing that they don't have the same idea;s as me.great post,love jeanie/  
Date: 3/23/2002 7:08:00 AM  From Authorid: 16671    Sure its okay not to like someone...but being civil about it is a different issue altogether... THAT ONE.  
Date: 3/23/2002 7:10:00 AM  From Authorid: 33817    I like everyone here. I like the ones I hate more than the ones I like! They can be WAY MORE FUN sometimes! I like everyone.  
Date: 3/23/2002 7:27:00 AM  From Authorid: 32070    I think it's only normal your NOT going to like some people you meet. But I do think that you or anybody else should at least be civil about it and not rude. Personally, If I don't like somebody, I just stay away from them. *HUGS*  
Date: 3/23/2002 7:35:00 AM  From Authorid: 16845    I just avoid people I don't like, theres no reason to 'lie' and pretend we do...that just causes more problems....so I just ignore them. lol  
Date: 3/23/2002 8:12:00 AM  From Authorid: 23796    I agree with becky as well as the age ol'saying: If you don't have nothing good to say about someone, then don't say it at all. I think you can disagree without personalizing the disagreement to the person you don't like. I don't think that it should be made known to the entire site that you dislike this person due to negativity attracting negativity and setting that as the tone for new members joining the site.  
Date: 3/23/2002 8:51:00 AM  From Authorid: 45906    i dont see why not i mean if you dont like someone and you have justifycation you can just tell them please dont talk to me i dont like you or just tell them hey you know what you get onb my nerves bye i mean you dont have to be nice if you dont like someone yet agian you kinda do confuseing huh? anyways just tell them hey man i dont like you go away < para  
Date: 3/23/2002 9:26:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    Paranoid-- so you would rather NOT know that someone doesn't like you? I personally would WANT to know. I care.  
Date: 3/23/2002 9:29:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    Nightmare gal-- but it is SOOOO much more fun to reply to thier posts LOL :P  
Date: 3/23/2002 9:31:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    Hawk-- yup, I see the double standard to... Some people can get away with things much easier than others. I have had people tell me that they don't like me, but if I come out and said "I don't like You" then I would be given hail about it...hehehe  
Date: 3/23/2002 9:31:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    ALI-- exactly-- it is only human to like some people and dislike others...  
Date: 3/23/2002 9:33:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    Penny 4-- there is NO ONE here that I HATE... and the very FEW people that I dislike are not people that I end up in heated debates with, really... some people just get on my nerves... but I really don't hate anyone  
Date: 3/23/2002 9:35:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    the bad thing about me is I have a lot of trouble hiding the fact that I don't like someone... I am like this at work, at school, and yet USM is the only place we are forced to like one another...LOL  
Date: 3/23/2002 9:35:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    Power One-- good for you :P  
Date: 3/23/2002 10:18:00 AM  From Authorid: 34476    *shrugs* It doesn't matter to me either way. As long as they are NOT lieing about me (as if people here would know) I could care less. Are you saying you don't like me??? :P  
Date: 3/23/2002 10:21:00 AM  From Authorid: 34476    I see USM as a place where we are encouraged to get along... not necessarily LIKE everyone... they just want us to be considerate. They want us to hold back that "rude" comment every once in a while, and remember that there are real people reading our replies/posts. There are MANY ways to anger/irritate others without being rude.  
Date: 3/23/2002 10:31:00 AM  From Authorid: 39524    I don`t really know anyone enough for me to dislike them, if i did know people here better, i`d think it acceptable......KUD
Date: 3/23/2002 10:49:00 AM  From Authorid: 16442    There are a few here that I just don't like and thus I generally just avoid them, you know? Every once in a while they might post something that I will reply to but I will not 'debate' with them about it because I know that I will say things that I later regret. As for admitting it, no, I don't message them and say 'hey, I don't like you', but at the same time I pretty much think they know. : )  
Date: 3/23/2002 11:00:00 AM  From Authorid: 26733    You dam skippy its ok. Though most of disslike can come from a lack of just not knowing that person well enough. I haven’t found anyone on here that I dislike, at least not a long-term dislike. I don’t like people for a day then I get over it the next day, replying to their stories. I express myself whichever way I think is best. People that don’t like one another shouldn’t post it, they should have enough maturity and respect to realize that, that person doesn’t agree with your way of thinking and let it go.  
Date: 3/23/2002 11:09:00 AM  From Authorid: 1631    I think one thing of the things that has happened since USM has turned so "fluffy" is that many of us have lost our objectivity. People are a lot more touchy and sensitive now. I guess I am the type to reply to the CONTENT of a post vs. WHO posted it. I might completely disagree with a particular author on one of their posts (that doesn't mean I don't LIKE them) and completely agree with them on another of their posts. Maybe I'm one of those rare specimens on USM who still prefers to keep her distance and simply respond to the electronic words on a screen that are presented to me rather than try to reach out to the person behind the words and understand every single nuance of their personality. What can I say? I'm a FREAK! :)...  
Date: 3/23/2002 11:12:00 AM  From Authorid: 33817    Me and Ali are freaks. :)  
Date: 3/23/2002 11:35:00 AM  From Authorid: 21435    AliCat. What style you have my dear. Your statement about "just reading and replying" to what's on the screen was dynamite. I loved it. Er, eh, that's just me...being spontaneous...lol..  
Date: 3/23/2002 12:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 16069    I know you probably wont believe me, but I do like everybody here. I just cant hate any person. The only way I can hate a person is if they are REALLY bad. Of course there are people here I dont always agree with. And people that I like better. But, if a person doesnt like me. I dont care. Thats their choice. And if a person comes right out and tells me that, Id think that was cool. I love people like that. So even if a person here tells me they hate me, I'd love them all the more.  
Date: 3/23/2002 12:19:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    No, i'm not saying that i don't like you Paranoid... we may not agree on everything but that doesn't mean that I don't like you, not at all :)  
Date: 3/23/2002 12:27:00 PM  From Authorid: 16069    Ali, I agree with that. A debate is a debate, and some people take them way too seriously. I have a few people here telling me that I need to live up to my name. Just because I have this name, doesnt mean that I cant have a different opinion as another person. What fun is that? I can still fight with a person and love them.  
Date: 3/23/2002 12:43:00 PM  From Authorid: 33817    I've yet to see you not live up to your name, LOA!!  
Date: 3/23/2002 8:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 19460    i think its ok if you dont like someone on here. just dont make a huge point of it lol just avoid them i suppose. i havent met anyone on here i didnt like. everyone is pretty cool. I havent met many but i have a few faves already FroggyBaby  
Date: 3/24/2002 4:09:00 PM  From Authorid: 16671    dizzy we hardly EVER agree, but that doesnt mean I dont like you, heck your like me, MOUTHY!!!  
Date: 3/24/2002 6:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 34476    LOL Dizzy! I can't think of anyone I agree with 100% of the time! Ask my wife :)  
Date: 3/24/2002 7:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 10146    The World of USM all know you do not like me. So don't feel bad about it. You are just following all the others. So you can Admit it. It aint nothing we dont all, already know.:)  
Date: 3/25/2002 5:33:00 AM  From Authorid: 27414    Personally, I don't see how you could dislike someone here. To actually DISLIKE someone wouldn't you want to meet them first? I would. The only thing to judge a person on here is their word and there is so much more to a person than that. I used to dislike some people here but found later that there are valid reasons for their "words". You shouldn't dislike someone merely because of their thoughts.  
Date: 3/25/2002 11:02:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    hadaam-- i never said I didn't like you, I just do not understand you. I have nothing against you  
Date: 3/25/2002 11:03:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 9130    Pianoman-- you do not have to MEET someone to dislike them, not at all... And anyone who says that is lying  
Date: 3/25/2002 10:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 10146    ARE YOU WAITING TO BE CALLED?






Back when the telegraph was the fastest method of
long-distance communication, a young man applied for a job as a
Morse Code operator. Answering an ad in the newspaper, he went to the
office address that was listed.



When he arrived, he entered a large, busy office filled with noise and
clatter, including the sound of the telegraph in the background. A sign on
the receptionist's counter instructed job applicants to fill out a form and
wait until they were summoned to enter the inner office.



The young man filled out his form and sat down with the seven other
applicants in the waiting area. After a few minutes, the young man stood
up, crossed the room to the door of the inner office, and walked right in.



Naturally the other applicants perked up, wondering what was going on.
They muttered among themselves that they hadn't heard any summons yet.
They assumed that the young man who went into the office made a mistake and
would be disqualified.



Within a few minutes, however, the employer escorted the young man out of
the office and said to the other applicants, "Gentlemen, thank you very much
for coming, but the job has just been filled."



The other applicants began grumbling to each other, and one spoke up
saying, "Wait a minute, I don't understand. He was the last to come in, and we
never even got a chance to be interviewed. Yet he got the job. That's not fair!"



The employer said, "I'm sorry, but the last several minutes while you've
been sitting here, the telegraph has been ticking out the following message
in Morse Code: 'If you understand this message, then come right in. The
job is yours.' None of you heard it or understood it. This young man did.
The job is his."



We are so busy living in a world that is full of noise and clatter, like
that office. People are distracted and unable to hear the still, small
voice of God as He speaks in creation, in the Scriptures, and in the life
and work of Jesus Christ.



So I ask you, as I ask myself, "Are you listening, or are you waiting to
be called? Do you hear the Lord when he speaks to you?




author unknown

I love you Dizzy in the Lord, In spite of what you may think. I'm sorry If I have used words that Offended and hurt you. But to tell you any better, than what I have already done to convince you that God is in Fact Real as His Holy Bible, also is and of His Voice in my Head. I can do no more, or No better. All I can say, is I do not Lie about these things. I Pray that you may someday know first Hand, that what you have heard becomes truth to you. Freinds.
  
Date: 3/25/2002 10:59:00 PM  From Authorid: 10146    It should read.., Friends?  
Date: 3/26/2002 5:54:00 AM  From Authorid: 27414    Perhaps you're right. I've not met you. LOL!  
Date: 3/26/2002 10:05:00 AM  From Authorid: 51979    I don't like some people here. Some are ignornant and I don't like there comments, but then again I don;t know them and they are only expressing there opinion...  
Date: 3/26/2002 1:42:00 PM  From Authorid: 10915    LOL! It is never too general of a statement from you Dizzy. Just kidding. LOL! I think you can express your differences with someone without an assumption of a personal attack against them.  

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