Date: 4/1/2002 7:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 16916
I have been fortuante to trust the people that I feel are my confidents, I know some poeple havnt been so lucky, But I definatly have people I can vent to about USM!! Hehe :) good post LL  |
Date: 4/1/2002 7:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 10534
I don't have any one..I just keep it all inside or write it into a poem. There's no one that I really trust...So yeah, I don't have many true friends! A best friend? Hah who needs one....(I do)  |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 10534
Oh, when I said "theres no one that i really trust" i dont mean like "all You USMERs cant be trusted" i just mean that if i have a problem, there's no one that I'm close enough to that I can go to. I trust most of you, I'm just not that close to any one..ya know? |
Date: 4/1/2002 7:35:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
Im so glad that you have not come across anyone who has betrayed you Jellie..that makes it good..We DO need to vent sometimes, and its nice when you know that your words will not be repeated..xoxo  |
Date: 4/1/2002 7:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
yes yes yes yes yes. LOL I generally head over to you, pl, gail or danny if I need advice that no one else should know. uhhh as for trusting someone that we shouldn't yeah unfortunately I think we all fell for the same person at one time *Shrugs*  |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
Awww Icyfire I can understand that hon..You just havent found the right person yet, but its good that you are still able to vent, even if it is through poetry...xoxo |
Date: 4/1/2002 7:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 35178
i dont..not really..there isnt anyone that i would message to about a problem, i would just post it for all..i dont have a family here, like many people mention in their profiles..but i love usm all the same!  |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:38:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
LOLOL..Yep Becky, we have talked lots havent we? I am honored that you trust me enough to tell me things and you know that it will go no further. xoxo |
Date: 4/1/2002 7:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 28946
Sis, I think I am one of the most gullible people on USM. I trust everyone untill I get burnt. I confide to many here but certain really private things, I tell only a select few on USM. I don't think I have been betrayed. I know people have hurt others on this site and I know you have been hurt bad! But yet, you are still generous and loving and ready to be a friend to all.  |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:39:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
Short Angel..Its good that you can post, but sometimes when posting you cant really say how you are truly feeling about some things...If I did, LOL...I would be deleted..heehee...xoxo |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:40:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
Penny Sis..I TRY not to let what one person may have done to me affect how I deal with others..that would not be fair to them. Yes I have been hurt, but I will not let that stop me from being there for others...xoxo |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
LOL LL you remember that one time I er well it was a few weeks ago Yeah only you and two other people really know about that! LOL |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:41:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
LOL..yea Becky, I remember hon..bless your heart...xoxo |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 28946
and see Sis, that is what makes you in my book, my confidant. Because you do possess compassion and sensitivity. Even after you have been hurt so bad by people, you still talk to then to try to give another chance. |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:45:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
I do try Penny Sis, but I will admit that there are a couple that I cannot give second chances to..Im human afterall, and sometimes I get burned bad enough that I cannot trust that person again. xoxo |
Date: 4/1/2002 7:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 30747
Hi LL sis. This is a good question. I've gotten away from some close ties here at USM lately but not out of mistrust at all. I trust everyone until proven otherwise and so far that has not happened to me personally to my knowledge. I do see what goes on with others and it bothers me a great deal and when that happens I do have one person I turn to..Shadow Walker. He has the ability to ground me and remind me that I'm here for the fun of it and to express myself. As you know, there are others that I talk to once in a while outside of USM, yourself included, but for the most part I stay to myself unless I'm needed. *hugs* love...  |
Date: 4/1/2002 7:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 24924
I've talked to several from USM offsite; on the telephone, and these people I trust very much. I have not experienced (as of Yet) anyone that I shouldn't have trusted. There are many that I WISH I could have a very private personal conversation with; but it is not possible to talk to everyone, else I would have to knock off a bank or two to pay for the phone charges. *Winks at Firstborn*  |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:48:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
I can understand that Soul Sis...I tend to keep things to myself for the most part..but when I do need to talk, its Gail I turn to first..I have also talked to you on several occasions, and you have never once betrayed my confidence and I love you for that. xoxo |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:49:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
LOL..Thinker I hear ya..when I really need to talk, I will call Gail..but man when I get the phonebill I cringe...LOL..xoxo |
Date: 4/1/2002 7:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 48941
I agree with you. I think everyone has thought they could trust someone and then found out they couldn't. I know I have a few times in my life, and it makes me not be as open with people to a point. That is why though I like USM cause I don't feel that way on here. laddybug44  |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:51:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
Im glad you feel comfortable here Laddybug..USM is very unique isnt it? xoxo |
Date: 4/1/2002 7:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
Well theres only been one person on usm who didn't just betray me but alot of us!!! About a fake car accident! Other than that things just seem to always work out with the help of God's grace!  |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:54:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
Oh yes Moonie...that was the ultimate betrayal wasnt it for many? *hugs* to you...xoxo |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
don't ya just hate them dang snakes? *Sigh* |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
lmao @ Becky!! |
Date: 4/1/2002 7:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 46800
For me personally I dont get on USM to vent or to get to know people to well....I dont think its a great idea to spill your life out to some one you dont know ..it's the way to get burned or to get in trouble. I think this is for fun. I Do love usm but I'd never go as for as this has gone, all these arguments etc...CARDS  |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:58:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
LMAO!! Becky its a DANG shame that some people have to be so dishonest eh? heehee..xoxo |
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Date: 4/1/2002 7:59:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
CARDS..I think that for some that is the best way to go..but I dont consider the people I have met here to be people I dont know..just because we dont talk face to face, it does not mean I consider them less a friend..in fact they are MORE a friend than some of my friends IRL..xoxo |
Date: 4/1/2002 7:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 44960
Well Sis, I trust the ones i'm close to and I sure hope you are one of those, cause i feel i can trust you. I try my best to get along with all i meet here and I refuse to argue with anyone on this site. I am the same person online as i am in real life. When i do have to vent, which is very rare, i go to my roommate, WarriorSpirit. Warrior always listens to me and if i need a shoulder to lean on, then he's there for me :) Good Post Sis :) (((HUGS)))  |
Date: 4/1/2002 7:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 13546
The one I goto to vent, and to just talk.. and.. all of that stuff, is Keepsake. I am thankful for her friendship. There are others I do talk to, but not as much as I do with her. I have in the past placed my trust into someones hand, when they have brought it back to me.. broken.. unable to fix.. but I am glad that this site has found me. :) *big hugglies* and much love,  |
Date: 4/1/2002 8:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 31255
I THINK I have learned who I can and cannot trust and who I need to go to when probs get big :o) So yes, I do have people I feel I can trust with whatever I need to say :p  |
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Date: 4/1/2002 8:00:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
RA..I think that Keepsake is a confidant for many..I have had MANY long talks with her myself..She is one of my best friends online and she knows me completely...xoxo |
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Date: 4/1/2002 8:01:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
Miss Priss sis, you CAN trust me hon..no worries there and I will always be here if you need me, I hope you know that! *hugs*...xoxo |
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Date: 4/1/2002 8:02:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
LOL..Toodles hon...I THINK you are on the right track with who you can trust..*hugs* to you hon..xoxo |
Date: 4/1/2002 8:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 36487
I do have someone that I can go to. She is someone I trust whole heartedly, and I know she will always be there for me no matter what whenever I need it, like i hope i could be there for her. And yea, unfortunatly I have put trust in the wrong people at times. But getting through those bad people, helps you sort out and get to the truely special ones :)  |
Date: 4/1/2002 8:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 45948
I have met some reallllly GREAT people on here, but there's not just one person that I turn to for my problems. I tend to keep it all inside which I know is not good but sometimes it's hard for me to trust people since I've been burned so many other times before ( and not just one the internet, in real life too)! Not that I don't think any of you all are wonderful people because I know for a fact that LL and Gail helped me out when I needed someone but as far as ever talking to anyone on the phone or anything like that, I have never done that before. Love,  |
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Date: 4/1/2002 8:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 13546
**smiles** Keeps is truly part of my soul! And I trust her with my life!!! I think she has touched many on this site, more then she would ever dream of!!! :) She is such a great person to talk to!!! :) *big hugs* Love, |
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Date: 4/1/2002 8:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 28946
What car accident Sis? And what about Snakes? I am so nosy... |
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Date: 4/1/2002 8:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 51960
I did that once, and i learned from it. I am lucky enough to have a few people (real life) to vent and are very trustworthy |
Date: 4/1/2002 8:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 4548
lol yes there are those that i go to when i'm in trouble or confused and they always give me the straight dope. they are honest and even though they try to spare my feelings, the tell me exactly what's going on, and then try to console or help me as much as they can. there are some really great people on USM, unfortunately, they're also the ones who get torn apart all the time, too. it almost doesn't pay to be kind sometimes. once bitten, twice shy...  |
Date: 4/1/2002 8:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 30421
I talk to a bunch of people from here but I am not really close to anyone except for 2, and I already knew them before I came here. I have known both of them FOREVER, so I can trust them. Well I can trust them with anything but SECTETS!! LMAO *ahem* CaptivatingBoi!! :o)  |
Date: 4/1/2002 8:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 21435
Inquiring Minds eh?...Lady Luck...lol..Ok, I'll play:)...I try to be strong all the time..However, that's hard to do. I have to say that most everyone here has treated me well. I don't know, I just seem to trust a few people enough to let go, vent, complain, whine..lol..(Sorry you guys). You all know who you are..lol..Thanks for being there and letting me bend your ear:):)...Good post Lady Luck..Write on....  |
Date: 4/1/2002 8:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 10915
I can attest to that for I have placed my trust and friendship in some very wrong people here, only to be stabbed in the back due to a disagreement. Yet, I do have some wonderful confidants here that I can vent my frustrations to and the beautiful thing about them is this: they are very neutral, which I admire them more for. I would hate to vent to someone and they agreed with me only to use it against me. I feel that if you can vent some of your concerns to your most sacred of friends here and know that you can trust them with your feelings and they can talk you through them, you can come out a better person.  |
Date: 4/1/2002 8:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 11341
I told someone a VERY big secret here, and I am just kicking myself now. Althought they havent said anything at least to my knowledge, lets just say that I am scared lol. KEEP the big things to yourself!  |
Date: 4/1/2002 8:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 15033
My confidants change. I have had the privilege of getting to know many here, including you LL, and Gail too. The ones I converse with change from one person to the next, and it's all been good so far. But there are ones that I have consistently remained in touch with over 1 1/2 years here. I talk with Egan (Agent Smith) almost everyday. He is the one I can talk about anything or anyone with and I know it won't go anywhere else. I adore him. I also talk with Tweeti. She is someone I have learned I can trust without a doubt. LadyNyx is an awesome friend and I know she is full of wise council and has helped me a time or two. Annabella is a wonderful caring lady that I trust very much. I used to talk with Antona (I don't know how she afforded to call so often), but I think she is very busy with her life right now, cause I haven't seen her in awhile. I have met and sometimes confide in King Caspian who always has some wise words. Princess Amy is such a sweet lady in real life, great to talk about problems, and while I was going to school we would sometimes discuss USM, mainly praising it's existence. I have another very dear friend I can confide in anytime. It's OrionSky. He is one of the most amazing Christians I have ever met in my life. I miss Pam; she has been a fantastic friend. I just spoke with her the other day. Mustn’t leave out Firstborn who I trust explicitly!  |
Date: 4/1/2002 8:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 28190
I have a few people here that I can trust with my whole life, one being you Aunty LL.. These people are my best friends on USM. :) People that I can trust and know that it will stay with them. But as you know the answer to ME going to the wrong person to "vent and talk" to. That person that talked to others about what was going on with me, and even worse, didnt elaborate the CORRECT story to them, all the while they were told not to and that person had my full trust. I have learned since then, but my heart is still open for new friends and I will admit, there are sometimes that I have no one to go to in order to vent, here lately being one of those times, But I vent to mom.. and I pray, so, My joy is still intacked although my heart still hurts over the things of recent events.. Sad, but I do let those I trust into my heart, and I am always a good friend even when they are not. I need to learn to do better on standing my ground. :) Aunty LL, when the older I get, the more I want to be like you, mom, Aunty Ginger Aunty G, And Aunty K :) I hope that is One thing, if I dont accomplish anything, that I do in fact accomplish. Because a warm heart and a generous hand of friendship is the best of all riches in the world.. Love you! Wonderful post! *huge huggles* Love, Amanda  |
Date: 4/1/2002 8:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 9130
Here at USM if I have a problem with something I will usually tell Love One Another, I consider her to be my best friend on here. Sometimes I will talk to Hawk or Heather about things. It just depends...As for friends stabbing me in the back, yeah thats happened ONCE or twice...  |
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Date: 4/1/2002 9:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 28457
I know exactly what you mean. I don't have anyone to talk to about anything. I can't trust my family because they always critisize instead of listening. I have so many problems and no one to talk too. I wish I could find someone to trust my deepest thoughts too...............Wallflower |
Date: 4/1/2002 9:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 12341
I have trusted only three with very personal information, Gail, Firstborn, and Sur5r, they have all proven to be exactly the kind of people I knew they were, kind, trustworthy, and always supportive.  |
Date: 4/1/2002 9:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 17204
yes, I too have put my faith and trust in the wrong people. Thats in the past and it will stay in the past, and i wont make that kind of mistake again. The people that I do infact put ALL my trust in can be counted on one hand, and they are my best friend Whitney, my good friend Richard, my mom, my dad, and my Grandma.  |
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Date: 4/1/2002 9:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 48941
Yes I would have to agree with you that USM is very unique. Laddybug44 |
Date: 4/1/2002 10:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 49742
Yes I think we all have.... that's human nature. It would be a perfect world if we didn't have to worry about that. My husband is the one I trust over anyone. I don't really confide in anyone else that much. I've had experiences that I've confided and trusted people and they have used or turned it against me causing me to loose trust in people. Angelfollower  |
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Date: 4/1/2002 10:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 49742
I'm talking about life in general. I havn't had that happen on here. I'm still getting to know people here. I have found all of them on here to be really great ppl. There are a few that I favor already. Lady Luck you are at the top of my list. You are one of the best and sweetest people here. Big Hugs from Angelfollower |
Date: 4/1/2002 11:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 38849
The persons I think help me and I trust the most around here are Becky, Moongirl, you LL, and Gail. Becky because she is my girlfriend, and the rest because you often times help me answer questions of lifes little mysteries. This maybe one of my few replies for a while... but I thought it an important one to answer! :) --  |
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Date: 4/2/2002 3:05:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33925
Thank you all for taking the time to reply...Its so good to know that we all have someone for the most part that we can trust. *hugs* to you all! xoxo |
Date: 4/2/2002 3:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 35160
oh i sure do, i have a few who i would trust with my most secret of secrets. who i can go 2 whenever i need them. 8^) huggs shay  |
Date: 4/2/2002 6:49:00 AM
From Authorid: 33517
Your it LadyLuck!!! I have not had to many problems here at USM...But in real life, well you know what is going on there. heehee!!! You are a great friend and I wouldn't know what I would do without you.......*Big Canadian Hugs* Luv Ya!!!  |
Date: 4/2/2002 8:26:00 AM
From Authorid: 30229
yes yes yes... you KNOW I do Sis!! YOU are my rock.. and I vent to YOU... *poor ladyluck!!* lol.. But on the other hand, .. YES, I have trusted people who dumped on me, and have learned from it.. :) I love ya! hugggggs.....  |
Date: 4/2/2002 8:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 1631
I trust no one for GOOD reason, and then I get slammed for my "cold" attitude because I don't accept everyone at face value. There are a chosen few that I vent to here and that I deem CLOSE to trustworthy, but that is a very, VERY small number. Bottom line, this is the INTERNET! Watch your backs...  |
Date: 10/4/2005 11:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 7574
Yup, I do. Base listens to me rant about school, my parents and guy among other stuff for some odd reason. He must live a very boring life, plus he's always online..lmao  |
