What should I do?   Author: 52698  Category:(General Advice) Created:(4/1/2002 11:20:00 PM) This post has been Viewed (321 times) Ihave a problem I have tried to forget about. But it just keeps popping back up. In January I recieved a inappropriate message from the same user name my debate coach has. It was about child birth defects and pregnancies. THe questions I was asked were not right. When I asked why would I be thinking about child birth defects and pregnancies, I was sent a website. I believed the messages were coming from someone else and not my coach. I decided to tell my coach when I saw him that someone was sending me weird messages using his user name. Later in January at a tournament my coach all the sudden out yelled out the first line of the message I had recieved. I was surprised and said that was you! He yelled at me a lot and a lot of I did not get. But he said you will regret it in ten years. He left and after about 20 minutes, I saw him and confronted him about the messages. He started asking me 20 questions in one minute. Saying what was offensive about the message. WAs it sexual harrasment, assualt? My coach didi not stop shouting. When he said that I felt really scared but he did not. Then he started talking about health centers say this and that. He told me to press charges against him and tell my school's superintendent. LAter in February after talking to someone, my counselor and debate teacher were informed. My counselor said she wouyld have a meeting with ny coach along with me and my debate tacher. At the end of February she called me and said I forget to tell you about the meeting and your coach is sitting here with me right now. My counselor said my coach sent me that message for community service. It's point was to inform girls 14 and up about child birth defects. She let it go after that. Tha is not what my coach was doing. He was bothering me and what was the point of yelling at me at the debate tournament. My coach got away with it and I don't know what to do. Plus my counselor on the phone for no reson said no it was not a sexual advancemenbt toward you. When did IS ay anything about that. My coach was the one who started to shout at me about sexual harrasssment. I know what he did was not for his community service. HOw do all the things he shouted at me about tie in with his community service. He did not say anything about his community service in the message ans when he was shouting at me. My counselor now for some reason avoids me and my teacher did not tell me I had two more tournaments. I ended up missing those tournaments. This won't stop bothering me, what do I do? my school is not listening to me. My coach uses his community service as an exuse to bother girls. Something needs to be done about my coach. Justice needs to be served. What do I do? I have a feeling my school won't do a thing about this. I need your advice. You can join Unsolved Mysteries and post your own mysteries or interesting stories for the world to read and respond to Click here Scroll all the way down to read replies. Show all stories by   Author: 52698 ( Click here ) Spring is coming