Date: 4/9/2002 6:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 14412
They love you, I know how you feel as I have gone through that with my family and still am. They may not show it, but they do. All I can say i they will know how much when you move out. You see families sometimes do not realize what they say can have a drastic affect on how a person feels about them, or even how they start to feel about themselves. Do not let it get to you or you are just letting yourself down.  |
Date: 4/9/2002 6:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 52733
oh gosh i know how u feel! my family members in the philippines would say my sister is prettier than me and blah blah blah...and i always feel left out and stuff...message me if u want. i'd like to get to know u *Sassay*  |
Date: 4/9/2002 6:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 11749
I know EXACTLY how you feel! My family does that to me, too! I spent almost 3 hours in my room crying the other night cuz my Mom would not stop (intentionally, might I add) making fun of me. I am so sorry! I know exactly what you're going through. If you want to talk, msg me, k? I'm always here! I don't have any advice for you, though. I'm sorry! *hugs*  |
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Date: 4/9/2002 6:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 51960
my family is the same... i think a lot of families are. I just ignore them. its hard but try it if u can. |
Date: 4/9/2002 7:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 46800
THEY REALLY DO LOVE YOU!! Trust me. I have gone with the same deal with this yr after yr eventually I moved away from them all a while back.I do know how you feel and coming from your own family is horrible. Hang in theRE , your friendly&nice and I am sure you look like a 100%. lET IT GO AND MOVE ON..Dont let it get to you. CARDS  |
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Date: 4/9/2002 7:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 46800
Don't forget to strut yourself!!LOL CARDS |
Date: 4/9/2002 7:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 51393
Dearest I went through the same exact lifestyle with my mom,but you know it seem so hard to show you that you are her favorite she just wont admit it my mom cried when i left home because she realize i am the best of them all.you are the greatest and you know that so dont despair GOD IS ALWAYS WITHIN YOU  |
Date: 4/9/2002 7:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 51586
Chins up Jeset....u aren't the only one my family is real bad....I tell them all the time that if they have nothing nice to say to me then don't say nothing to me at all...My g-ma is real bad at it...she used always critisizes me about my weight but now that i am losing weight she says nothing at all!!!!!!Who knows why any family member would do that to us.....all we need to do though is learn by it and not pass it on to the next generation.....Tell your family how it makes you feel maybe they will stop..but if they are anything like mine they won't, Good Luck and i hope things get better!!!  |
Date: 4/9/2002 8:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 19460
just pay them all no mind! I have always been the one that was bragged on... they say Im a good mom, i act like im the oldest sibbling and that the rest of my sibblings are cluelss, they btrag that i have the best husband of my sisters and cousins... that gets real annoying too! I wish they would just see me as a person with problems and trials like everyone else!  |
Date: 4/9/2002 8:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 30996
Trust me, they love you, not to worry, I think you are just going through that teen thing, these feelings are quite normal.  |
Date: 4/9/2002 9:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 48279
They do love you. Trust me. I'm the youngest of four kids. This is how they go:
Sister-Cheerleader (Captain), when she was in high school
Brother-Wants to be a Cop
Brother-Going to Arizona for college
Me-me ... nothing really special .. I havent made up my mind yet ... But I am ALWAYS being compared to them. "Your sister was so involved in school." "Your brother is going away to college. Why don't you want to?" ... things like that. I want to move out with friends, and go to college later after I'm settled out of my house. But they don't understand it. They are always putting me down ... you just have to play it back. Put them down anyway you can ... not like its the best way, but they'll get it. You should try telling them how you feel first ... but that doesnt always work cause they dont notice it so they deny it. So just tell them, and if that doesnt work, play it against them. Good luck in how you choose to do it.
~Heres a name for you  |
47983 Category:(General Advice) Created:(4/9/2002 6:32:00 PM)