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LOVING AND LETTING GO ...OF OUR KIDS!!!! By Zeplin

  Author:  42945  Category:(Discussion) Created:(4/10/2002 8:30:00 PM)
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I was reading this story in a magazine and I wanted to share it with you all!!



Because there is a time to let go. You may not be ready but your child will be. You will go through hell while they are having an absolute ball. Does this sound familiar???

We are so busy moulding our childrent to what we want them to be and steering them into the direction we think is right for them, that we sometimes forget that they need to find their own identity, their own space and their own place on this planet. We all must have our own space to grow independently and mature into rounded human beings with personalities of our own.

I mean that when my kids decided to leave home I was devastated and in reading this story felt that I was maybe acting selfishly (not intentional)and maybe I can help in the process of my grandkids leaving home in the way of showing their parents (my kids) the way. Maybe some of you out there can relate to this story because I know I can.



Luv and Peace...Zema

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Date: 4/10/2002 8:58:00 PM  From Authorid: 32659    Very interesting. Sometimes parents just don't get that their children grow up over time.  
Date: 4/10/2002 9:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 16916    Well, I am one of those teenagers maturing into my own self, my own life. Trying to make my future a sucessful one. I know when my mom gets upset about me making my own life and leaving home that it is only because she loves me, and I try to reasure her that I am not going far and that I love her more than she will ever know. Sometimes parents need that UMPH of reassurance when they are going through the "empty nest syndrom" and the more understanding I am, the more understanding she will be, because she will know that no matter what I will always be close :)  
Date: 4/10/2002 9:03:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 42945    yeah Scrabble Kid we only think we are doing the best for our kids..thanx for your comment..cheers Zema  
Date: 4/10/2002 9:05:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 42945    well JellieBeanS you sound so well adjusted and mature and that will go a long way to helping your parents come to terms with you leaving the nest..thanx for your comment...cheers Zema  
Date: 4/10/2002 10:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 8820    Hi Mom! Great post! I did that unintentionally as well. It's just that from experience we know that the world is a great big scary place but, Love and concern can sometimes smother our kids. xoxoxoxoPeace and Love,  
Date: 4/10/2002 11:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 16069    Im sure I will be broken hearted when my little girl leaves the "nest" It wont be easy but its all a part of life. As long as she doesnt more far away from me!  
Date: 4/10/2002 11:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 12341    Many mixed emotions, our greatest job as a parent is helping our children become ready for this big step, and it is heartbreaking but hopefully we have succeeded in helping them move on into the future with confidence.  
Date: 4/11/2002 3:04:00 AM  From Authorid: 28946    Oh yes, I can relate. I felt and still do at times, that my babies need me even though they are in their 20's. But they are teaching me that letting them go on to becomes true adults doesn't mean the love we have will ever stop. I feel pride in them that they have turned out to be great adults that are independant but still occaisonally need me still, if only to make me feel that they do. LOL!  
Date: 4/11/2002 5:16:00 AM  From Authorid: 22852    I can relate but to be honest I was happy when my son left.. not happy for me but for him. All his life whatever his interest I would encourage him to pursue it, even when he wanted to be a mortition I brought him to the funeral home so he could learn more. Then he decided he wanted to be a builder and be in the service, this to I encouraged and today he is a Builder for the US Navy so yes I cried when he left and today I cry for the fact that he is happy. I miss him bad but I too am happy, happy for him.  
Date: 4/12/2002 5:28:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 42945    thanx to Becky, LoveOneAnother, ShadowGhost, Penny and Stormchaser for your lovely comments..hugs to you all...Zema xoxox  
Date: 7/11/2002 4:08:00 PM  ( Admin-DNL )   I bet my parents will be devastated when I leave in less then two years lol...but I will still keep in touch with them. it won't be the same though
Date: 7/11/2002 4:49:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 42945    thanks Danielle, it is hard letting go believe me for us parents!!!hugs Zema  

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