Date: 4/29/2002 8:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 24003
There isnt much you can do. No matter what anyone says..the bottom line is..shes going to do what she wants to do:( Sad but true.  |
Date: 4/29/2002 8:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 35178
talk to your friend. tell her that you are worried and how much you care. she may listen or she might not but the important thing is to let her know that you care.  |
Date: 4/29/2002 9:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
You can't do anything coz if you approach her about it your friend will be busted for telling your other friends secrets. If she feels that she is ready to do it then she will but remember teenage romances are short lived and she probably won't be seeing him by then.  |
Date: 4/29/2002 9:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 14182
i cant understand a word your saying...you lost me with...i have a freind who i lost touch but i have a freind...and then this friend....and it just keeps going on like this...  |
Date: 4/29/2002 9:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 39370
Well, in all honesty there isnt much you can do except try to talk to her. But if you two arent really close friends anymore, then chances are your message wont get through to her very well. Why dont you have a talk with maybe one of her really close friends, then have them talk to her?  |
Date: 4/29/2002 9:04:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 48128
Sorry Out-law! Well my friend will not be busted cuz she told the girl she told me. :) Sorry its so confusing I wrote it in a hurry!  |
Date: 4/29/2002 9:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 51052
I think that all you can do is tell her that it could mess things up for her in the future and ask her if he is really worth it. He might just want that and flee. I think that you should just be a friend and try to talk to her like one. If you try to be a mom it might urge her to do it earlier and she might never change her mind. Miss Molly  |
Date: 4/29/2002 9:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 34476
IMO, 2nd base is "too far" for a 15 yr old ..... but you cannot make someone else's choices for them. They will decide for themselves. Unfortunately, this thinking is normally done when in the back seat of a car instead of thought out before-hand and pre-determined by the individual .....  |
Date: 4/29/2002 9:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 48129
Well, theres not much you can do if you guys are really close anymore...just hope if she does "do it" she is smart and safe.
*~ChicaBella~*  |
Date: 4/30/2002 4:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 46486
All you can do is talk to her about whats going on, but in the end, she'll do what she wants too no matter what.  |
Date: 4/30/2002 5:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 46527
You can't do anything, she is going to do it whatever you say. All you CAN do is encourage her to be SAFE about it! Who knows, in 4 to 5 months she may not even be with the same guy and may well have decided not to 'do it' after all.  |
Date: 4/30/2002 2:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 42464
Well this one girl I know is 15 and it is pretty much the same thing she did it and now she is pregnant. You can tell that she is afraid like when she talks to a person. Tell your friend that there are consequenses to going too far with a guy if she does not listen get someone who knows what can happen and I mean really knows.  |
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Date: 4/30/2002 3:04:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 48128
You are all totally correct! If I strongly disagree with my friend. I will start to sound like her mother! My friend has what she wants to do in her mind and I cannot not change that! :( Its so sad. To see a straight A student about to make a bad choice. Thank you for all your advice. |
