Ok , i know this is long but please dont let it put you off.
Today i probably had one of the most amazing dayz ever , after a pretty traumtic night i went to school in a pretty sad mood. At the point of bursting into tears , my friends asked what was up , i told them everything and we talked and cryed for about 4 hours altogether and after everything i came out with a whole new way of seeing life , so basicly heres what i learnt..................
Most Gurls love having girly sleepovers , nights out and talking about anything and everything but most of all , u can talk girl to girl about break-ups make up and guys........but what happens if your best friend is a guy??? Well , thats my case , people think all sorts of weird things about it and ask how i could put up with a guy was a best friend , well , most people dont see the good things.
Ok so u cant have girly sleepovers and paint nails and yabber on for hours about that hot babe in science but u can do a lot more , thats a lot better. I'm not saying ditch all ur gurlz and hang with guys only , i'm juts flatting out some stuff showing what the reality of a guy best friend really is.
You get a different opinion of things and guys generally tend to say it how they see it , they tell u when that purple top really isnt you not just say it is to make u feel good , u dont have to go out of ur way to impress them like a boyfriend or a guy u like and suprisingly enuf , they listen really well and can make u feel a lot better than some gurl friends do. They Stand up for you no matter what and always hang around , and it makes a great change talking about something other than how "megans top is way too short" and how "ur hair needs some hot oil treatment soon". There is always a shoulder to cry on when u need it and they are outgoing and they ALWAYS act themselves.
Those are just a few reason why guy best friend are much better than people say they are , there are heaps more but i wont go on.
My reason for posting this a)because having a guy best friend is just the best and i'm telling u that u dont have to be b/f and g/f to be really close with them and
b)even if I do fight quite a bit with my best friend and we dont always agree on everything but after all , he's the most amazing person i've ever meet , he has made such an impact on my life that used to be quite hopeless and nothing i ever do could make to what he's done for me. You guys probably know him , his name is corey and on this site he's Tears Of Blood (the new ice mage).
So if u ever see him in chat , talk to him , he's just so sweet and if ur like me and have a best friend whos a guy , ignore the people who tell u that "u have to be b/f and g/f" and continually ask "so r u guys going out yet" because best friends last forever and often g/f's and b/f's dont.
Soooooooooo thankz for reading you guys and i just wanna say this....
Corey , i know we fight a lot and can do some hurtful things but i really do care for you , so i'm saying this here and now , sorry for anything u feel i should appologise for and sorry for doing the stupid things i do (u know what i mean) i luv ya..........
*Ema* aka Devil with a halo How it changed my life:best friends just do
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