Date: 4/30/2002 10:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
Make sure you guys keep in contact. Get calling cards and write each other. It's hard when a friend moves away but it doesn't have to end the friendship. *hugs*  |
Date: 4/30/2002 10:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
I dont thinks its so much that you have to let go, but more the fact that you have to learn to have a different kind of friendship. Your lives dont have to go on without each other ~~ try email, telephone and even the accient form of letter writing, LOL!! Seriously though, it will be a different kind of friendship but it'll still be a friendship >>>> Oh and dont forget just cause he has moved away doesnt mean you cant go visit him and him visit you ... hes moved to Alaska not Mars! LOL!!! Good luck to both of you *hugs* ....  |
Date: 4/30/2002 10:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 16131
find a hobby you enjoy and get to know other people into it and let your social life grow from there .... It is not a replacement but , it is a healthy way to spend your time ....  |
Date: 4/30/2002 10:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28336
thank you for your help....we have been inseperable (spelled way wrong) for the last 18 years.....this is hard.....  |
Date: 4/30/2002 10:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 35178
aww i know your pain. and i am very sorry. if there is a way for you two to keep contact with each other then make the effort. if not then the hardest part will probably be not thinking about them. i would agree with scarecrow and tell you to keep yourself busy. but dont let yourself forget the wonderful friend you had.  |
Date: 4/30/2002 10:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 43274
i would definately keep in touch with him. tell him how you feel if it makes you feel better. above all do what comes natural. your subcontious will heal you if you listen to it. good luck and i hope you feel better soon. *hugs*  |
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Date: 4/30/2002 10:42:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28336
i do plan on staying in contact with him.....i could not imagine my life without him in it......thank you all for helping me.....i guess distance should not be something that keeps us apart..... |
Date: 5/1/2002 6:27:00 AM
From Authorid: 48993
when i was 13 my mother moved me my sis and her from NY to Florida..... everything i had ever known was there my friends my father , my family , and many may be able to relate to this but there is a HUGE culture shock moving from the north to the south , everything i was custom to was gone ... i had to get rid of my cat i had since the age of 4 and the dog i had since the age of 9 ... it was the hardest thing i ever went through in my life ..... the first 4 months in florida i would cry uncontrolably ... i was in such a deep depression .... it was terrible!! but as time passed and i made new friends , got new pets , started to get used to this new life without my friends and family .... although i missed them dearly life started happening ... i made new friends , i started living , and i didnt even know it was happening!! now here it is 15 years later! i just celebrated my 15 th anniversary here in florida on April 27th...... i was crushed when we moved but over the years i have realized it was the best thing that my mom ever did for me! she got us out of a life of poverty , and helped to let the sunshine into our lives , not that everything is always oranges ... but i have to say , i would probablly be dead , or in jail if we stayed in NY i am soo glad my mom had the courage to move 1600 miles away to start a new life for us!! ..... my point is ...... time is the only thing that will heal you , keep in touch with your friend if you truely care for him , things will work out in the end!! and you will always remain friends! trust me i do know!!! (hugs)  |
Date: 5/1/2002 5:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 6317
Oh, you poor thing. You have to take comfort in your other friends, and make sure you never lose touch with him. Just because the two of you are no longer together geographically doesn't mean you are no longer connected. I'm sure his new life will be filled with thoughts of you.  |
Date: 5/1/2002 5:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 46486
Aww, I am sorry that he moved away. You'll get over it when time passes, but you won't ever forget him though. Make sure you can keep in contact with him.  |
