Date: 5/1/2002 8:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 24003
Oh! honey...I am so sorry to hear this!! I dont know any advice to give you, because Ive never been in that situation..but i will pray for you!!! Love,  |
Date: 5/1/2002 8:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 34775
Just remember LOA...you have the power to allow him to make you feel guilty or not...if he wants to fight..that doesn't mean you have to! You can sit there like a brick wall if you want...and maybe you should, if he tries to argue with you...you just need to say your feelings and that is IT.. If you feel you need to talk to him more...wait until he calms down...there is no hurry, I mean, he is already out of the house. I think you should consult with a lawyer to make you feel more secure and better, actually.  |
Date: 5/1/2002 8:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 12806
My wife and I were seperated for about a month once...After 10 years of marriage... At first I thought that it was rather nice, you know, being free... We didn't fight, even when we talked about divorce.... I don't know if you have children, but we do... and that's the reason that we worked out our differences... It wasn't easy, but we trusted in the Lord Jesus to intervene in our lives, and He did.... That was three years ago and we are still together.... I guess what I am saying is that anything worth having is worth working for.....  |
Date: 5/1/2002 8:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 49543
it's always sad when a relationship ends but when it's finally over it can be quite liberating too. i agree with anabel. i think if you go see a lawyer, you will learn more what to expect and then be able to put a plan of action together from that. you can try to make it an amiable split, but just keep in mind that you can't control his actions, only yours. when you are true to yourself, you can never go wrong. i wish you the best. luv and hugs -MaceyHope  |
Date: 5/1/2002 8:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
iam sorry to hear this LOA ~ its always sad when a relationship ends, specially a long one. I've never been in a situation like this so iam not too sure what to say other i hope it all works out for the both of you. Take care ......  |
Date: 5/1/2002 9:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 15033
I will pray for the two of you. You may be surprised one day soon to find it was an influence that was making you both distant from each other. It could likely go away and you'll love each other as strongly as the first day you met. Love to you,  |
Date: 5/1/2002 9:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 47699
I wish you all the best that life has to offer, LOA. Just remember, you only live once and you deserve to be happy. Follow your heart!  |
Date: 5/1/2002 9:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
I wish you both all the luck in the world, hope it works out for you both...hugs  |
Date: 5/2/2002 4:16:00 AM
From Authorid: 33925
LOA..You have made the best decision for YOU! Its not going to be easy and I wont tell you that it is, but in time it does get easier and you will be happy..Its liberating to finally beable to let go of something that has made you unhappy..I would suggest that you just tell him that its over..point blank..explain to him that you are not happy in the relationship anymore and that its time for you to look after you and your daughter..contacting a lawyer would be a good idea as well..Good luck hon, and you know Im here whenever you need me! xoxo  |
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