Date: 5/22/2002 10:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
wow love triangle! LOL! I do hope that wasn't his real last name you just handed out to usm though...  |
Date: 5/22/2002 10:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 31255
well, I guess we can always wish, but I am pretty sure he is seriously involved with his girlfriend. And I am sure there are many peeps who feel very similar to the way you do because Cain is just an awesome guy all around and he treats people well. He has been a great friend to me and a fun person to know   |
Date: 5/22/2002 10:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
OMG!!  |
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Date: 5/22/2002 10:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
wowser! he is a good guy & has been a great friend to me!! I can see why you love him! but what of Cheer Chick? where is she in all of this? |
Date: 5/22/2002 10:52:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36965
Becky..oops..Toodles you're wrong I refuse to believe this   |
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Date: 5/22/2002 10:53:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36965
no one feels similar to this Toodles..you don't understand |
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Date: 5/22/2002 10:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 31255
um ok but I don't think I am wrong... sorry it would be nice for you if I was but they've been together for several months now... |
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Date: 5/22/2002 10:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
Hon where is Cheer Chick in this? |
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Date: 5/22/2002 10:55:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36965
Yes and I've felt this way the whole time about him Toodles..you have no idea, ok? There is no one that feels this way..its horrible that no one takes me seriously.. |
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Date: 5/22/2002 10:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36965
I dont know where she is..Im sorry Cheer Chic..it doesnt mean he wants me, who wants me? But I had to tell everyone..I can't stand it anymore.. |
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Date: 5/22/2002 10:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
ok!! I understamd that! you have a right to feel the way you do & no one can take that from you! |
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Date: 5/22/2002 10:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 31255
oh I am not saying you don't feel a certain way about him... I am just saying he is involved with someone else here... |
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Date: 5/22/2002 11:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
Uisce you know I have always respected you! But hon what is to become of this & your feelings? Does Cain know this also? |
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Date: 5/22/2002 11:01:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36965
Im not a selfish person..Im not! Im not trying to hurt people here..but if you only knew the WHOLE story..you'd understand..I've been through months of hell with this..crying every day isn't healthy for a person! Im sorry to CheerChic, Im sorry to everyone..but Im in love with him..and I can't help it.. |
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Date: 5/22/2002 11:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
you must not hurt Cheer Chick!! weather you like it or not she is real & loves him to! Now what? what is the next step you want to see happen? |
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Date: 5/22/2002 11:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
How can we help you Uisce? I am here for you! |
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Date: 5/22/2002 11:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
We don't know the whole story hun!! you are right there! Take it slow & take it easy!! Breathe!! Now let's talk! |
Date: 5/22/2002 11:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 5252
I agree with Toodles and Moon. CheerChick and Axl, have been going out for a while, and they do seem in love with each other. maybe you need to talk to both of them at the same time, you need to think of EVERYONE'S feelings here.  |
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Date: 5/22/2002 11:06:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36965
MoonGirl..my mission is not to confuse or hurt Jessica..I care for her and I feel horrible for doing this..but I have to follow my heart here.. |
Date: 5/22/2002 11:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 16916
Ohhh Geez Uisce Mommie, you decided to go public....good luck girl *HUUGE HUGS*  |
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Date: 5/22/2002 11:08:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36965
Im sorry if you all feel the need to hate me...like Ive told everyone I know, I dont try to cause the pain I cause..it just happens.. |
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Date: 5/22/2002 11:10:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36965
**USM I TOLD YOU THIS BECAUSE YOU'RE MY FAMILY..PLEASE UNDERSTAND..** |
Date: 5/22/2002 11:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 5252
Uisce, hun...we arn't saying we hate you, by any means. don't think that!!  we are just trying to help you here!! |
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Date: 5/22/2002 11:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
You can not help the way you feel!! I so understand that! but what you do need to look at is all of it!! |
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Date: 5/22/2002 11:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
I don't hate you! I never could!! no way! |
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Date: 5/22/2002 11:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
love is like this Uisce! You can not help the way you feel! I do understand! |
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Date: 5/22/2002 11:12:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36965
Thank you hyperchick |
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Date: 5/22/2002 11:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 5252
we do understand, we are just trying to help you, so that this doesn't cause any problems with the three of you...calm down hun! |
Date: 5/22/2002 11:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 277
Isn't there some rule about using peoples names in posts if it will do harm to their feelings??? Wonder what Cheer Chic would think of this...Wonders if Uisce thinks we are gullible enough to believe this while she plans on updating a just kidding later!  |
Date: 5/22/2002 11:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 35160
omg ,wowo!!!!! i understand that u needed 2 get this off ur chest, and i hope everything works out 4 the best , huggs shay  |
Date: 5/22/2002 11:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
Uh oh ....  |
Date: 5/22/2002 11:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 48129
yowsers...well, love is untamed. Its not good to hold in your feelings but its not good either when it might possibly hurt someone in the process.
*~ChicaBella~*  |
Date: 5/22/2002 11:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 19435
Sorry, but I personally do not believe that this is appropriate to post something of this nature, with total disregard to the parties involved..jmo...  |
Date: 5/23/2002 12:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 45684
hmmm..I don't really have a comment about this other than I hope you know what you're doing!  |
Date: 5/23/2002 1:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 16442
Uh oh, well, I won't tell Jessica about this when she gets up and hopefully she won't see it until MUCH later. LOL....  |
Date: 5/23/2002 1:34:00 AM
From Authorid: 21266
Ok...couldn't you send him a PM or something? Instead of exposing this to the whole of cybernet?
-AHD  |
Date: 5/23/2002 1:49:00 AM
From Authorid: 30229
Wow, Uisce, I DO understand where you are in your life right now and I DO understand your feelings sweety, but my heart is hurting for Jessica right now because when she does find out about this I know she will be hurt. I am like the others, I do wish that you had done this in PM to spare her feelings... To you, I would like to say that there are a LOT of unavailable guys on here and some very very nice ones too, ... You are a wonderful young lady and I am sure any one of them would love to talk to you... Hang in there, and please believe that it will get better.. Huggggggs...  |
Date: 5/23/2002 3:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 33925
Uhoh...Hmmmm....Well obviously this has been up for a while..I hope Cheer Chic does not see this..I can totally understand that you have feelings, but I REALLY think that this is something that should have been done in private..Cheer Chic does not need to see this..She is going to be VERY hurt..*sigh*...  |
Date: 5/23/2002 4:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 19382
Hey, you aren't the only person ever to be in love, what is it with you people thinking "You don't know". Trust us, WE DO. We've all felt this way at sometime. Or do right now. But you have to get over the fact that He and Jess are together, and that's how it is. I've been cheated on as well, and trust me. It hurts. It hurts to hear or see someone else say "I love you" in the manner you are, to the person that you're in love with. Trust me. I still have the marks on my arm when I hurt myself. So hope Jess takes it better than I (I'm talking about your 'confession of love and adoration') Something this big and potentially hamrful should have been kept private. Perhaps you should have just PM'd Axl, maybe that would have been a smarter move.  |
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Date: 5/23/2002 4:07:00 AM
From Authorid: 19382
Just re-read my comment. Whoops. Sorry, didn't mean to accuse you have cheating or anything, that was not my intention, I was trying to use that as... something, i dunno. Ignore the cheating part, and focus on the love confession part. Again, apologies about the un-intended and not-meant cheating comment. |
Date: 5/23/2002 4:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 1631
Ahhhhh, Thursday drama. Hehe...  |
Date: 5/23/2002 6:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 25481
Much later my butt my mom. Okay you love Cain. Thats fine and dandy. But he loves me and I love him. So thats the end of it. Im sorry to be the one to tell you this, but you need to find someone else to love.  |
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Date: 5/23/2002 6:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 19382
It's TRUE love when both parties feel it by the way. |
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Date: 5/23/2002 12:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 16442
You know, the more I read this, the more I see what an INSULT it is to Jessica. "and no one will ever love him more than me." <---- your comment, that I am sure Jessica very much disagrees with. I just don't understand why you had to write this post. It seems obviously intended to cause friction between those who support you and those who support Jessica. Oh well, at least USM has not disappointed me, because it seems that everyone else here doesn't agree with the way this was done either. |
Date: 5/23/2002 2:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 3321
Can you all just STOP for a second and see what you're saying? Maybe this post was not the best idea but it is here. This is how SHE FEELS, and you cannot JUDGE her feelings. Have YOU ever cared so much about someone that your heart has ached and you didn't know what you would do if you were never able to speak or even look at them again? Everyone feels it at some point and she feels it now. It is distasteful to judge her as you have for the way she feels.  |
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Date: 5/23/2002 3:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 16442
Okay, I have been away from here and thought about things. Thank you Perse, good point, my only problem being in the fact that this was posted. But now I am looking at this through Uisce's eyes and I know she must be feeling a lot of pain and for that I am sorry. Please know Uisce, that I don't hold this against you, you cannot help how you feel, feelings are like that sometimes whether we like it or not. You know, you can love Cain and still be just a close friend to him, heck sometimes thats the best way to love someone anyway. Okay, well I just had to come back by here and speak one more time. Please forgive me for my comment above. |
Date: 5/23/2002 3:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 49885
WHAT?!HONEY....JESSICA AND CAIN ARE IN LOVE AND I MEAN IT...LIKE IN DEEP DEEP LOVE.. I KNOW U LOVE HIM BUT HE LOVES JESSICA I KNOW THIS AS A FACT..I AM A WITNESS...but dont worry i still love you!LOl  |
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Date: 5/23/2002 4:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 25481
Oh yea..Uisce..You told moon girl you care for me but earlier in a PM you sent me you said "I dont care about your feelings...Im sorry." yea..I can see you care..I am not trying to be rude. But Cain is my lover. He is my other half. Without him I would be empty. Im sorry to tell you that he is not yours. And wont be yours. You may love him..But i seriously suggest you find someone else to love. Because he isnt going to love you back as anything more than a friend. I have spoken my peace...Farewell.... |
Date: 5/23/2002 5:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 50864
Jess and Cain are a couple by their choice. There is never a real future in taking anothers love only pain and sadness for all involved. I know it hurts to accept this but it is for the best Mrs. Strider  |
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Date: 5/23/2002 5:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36965
CheerChic, I said "Its not as if I dont care"..meaning I DO care..you misread it.. |
Date: 5/23/2002 7:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 43991
Sis.. I know the whole story. I dont think Ive ever hated anyone as much as I hate Cain for deep down I know this is his fault.. you know Im here for you. *hugs*  |
Date: 5/23/2002 11:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 15070
excuse me guys, we are dealing with FEELINGS here? Whether or not you agree with the forum, it HAPPENED.....it took courage on her part & this is very honest. CheerChic, I am sorry your feelings are hurt, I really am, and where is this Cain? He should be here too! Two girls cat-fighting over him & he cannot even be here? ~JMO~  |
Date: 5/23/2002 11:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 43177
u guys are freakin blind!!!!!!!! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU GUYS!!!! CAN U NOT SEE IT?? do u not need glasses! u guys are soo clueless!!!!!!  |
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Date: 5/24/2002 4:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 25481
whatever...I do not feel that this is Cain's fault at all. I feel it is hers for falling in love with him knowing he has a girlfriend. But like I said before it doesnt make a difference. God I am so mad about this I could scream!!! Im going now... |
Date: 5/24/2002 4:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 46486
Wow, um, wow.. I don't know what to say at all... Hopefully this all will work out for all three of you.  |
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Date: 5/24/2002 11:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 25481
And what!!! and I also want to say people dont need to message me being rude saying im being rude. Cause its not my fault. Not in any way. so please quit! |
Date: 5/24/2002 12:09:00 PM ( Admin )
If she loves him then everyone can understand that, especially CheerChic after all she loves him too and probably for the same reasons. As a matter of fact as many people that want to love him for what ever reasons should be able to and probably will. It's really up to him where he shows his attentions and intentions. There should be no harm felt or done by this action of love. It's an expression of good heart felt emotions. Some will have to live without the return of affections but that is the way of life. No need to take sides.  |
Date: 5/25/2002 11:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 276
Help me get caught up. You are in love with someone you met online. But, you know the real him. Please, tell me you have met him, talked to him, and shared moments with him. For you clearly stated you love him. Well here is my cut. I think you are in love with the fact that for the first time people care who you talk to. You are taking or trying to take someone elses man, just so you can say you did. Most people would just take and live on if that is what they really wanted to do. They would not take for show but necessity. If people steal food to eat, most understand. If people kill a deer for sport, far few support. If you're driving force was really love, you would not take the chance to lose your love by telling others your plans, for love knows no scorn. However, the only thing I think you love is attention. That you have, but as people will tell you be careful for what you wish. I just wish you were happy with yourself.  |
