Date: 6/22/2002 11:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 53339
Well have someone find out for you. Have a friend you both trust and have her/him ask her if it really bothers her. If the news comes back that she doesn't mind go for it. I think it is wrong to go for your friends ex when there were feelings involved and when you don't ask her. It sounds like you are going about it the right way. Good luck  BabyCry  |
Date: 6/22/2002 11:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 3688
i wouldn't go there, is it really worth the risk of losing your friend?  |
Date: 6/22/2002 11:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 53806
you have two choices...a best friend or a man.  |
Date: 6/22/2002 11:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 7830
just go with what your heart tells you. you'll probablty get over him. i would never date my best friend's ex man.  |
Date: 6/22/2002 11:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 50435
It's against the rules for a reason. If he was your soulmate I think you would've figured that out sooner...unless you've never hung around him which I find highly unlikely. I don't believe in soulmates...actually, I believe that we can have that sort of relationship with someone, but that there is way more than one person that we can have the relationship with. Stick with your friend. She was there before and after. Take care and like DreamerPoet asked, is it really worth losing a friend?...Gallytuck.  |
Date: 6/22/2002 11:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 11756
Im sorry ...i think boys come and go ...but, freinds...they last FOREVER..and im sorry ..i dont think a guy is worth hurting your freinds feelings over...i bet she still has feelings for him ..and just doesn't want to say anything...but , no i wouldn't date him ...i know trust me..it will cause probs., i have been in the same situations..i dated a guy a...and we broke up ...and then one of my best freinds liked him ...and it really really iratated me...but i never told her ..and so i said ..yeah its fine ...really...THAT was a big FAT lie...when they started going out ..i got angry and stuff and resented them both ..and i was jeleous...anywho ...i dont think you should but, hey ....it's up to you ...but the question is ...are you going to feel right about it? ...being around him in-front of her, when you spend the night at her house and you want to talkk to him on the phone....you know all that little stuff..all i am saying is just be sure and thinmk it all out before you make your dicision ...sorry if i might have been a little forward but its just my opinion...i hope everything works out...really i do  |
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Date: 6/23/2002 12:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 55984
WELL IF SHES YOUR FRIEND SHE SHOULD TELL YOU THE TRUTH. SO IF YOU LIKE HIM AND HE LIKES YOU GO FOR IT GIRL!!! AND IF SHE GETS MAD THATS HER PROBLEM SHE SHOULDNT OF PUT YOU OUT THIER. I KNOW THE RULES AND ALL BUT IF HE WASNT RIGHT FOR HER AND YOU KNOW SHES MOVED ON THEN WHY SHOULDNT YOU FIND OUT IF HES RIGHT FOR YOU |
Date: 6/23/2002 8:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 47218
depends-- who's more important to you-- the guy or your best friend? If you go out with this guy when your friend still has feelings for him, then your are jeopardizing your friendship with her. It may be better to wait until your friend starts dating someone else, if you don't want to lose your friendship.  |
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Date: 6/23/2002 9:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 55549
what do u think. u know he was your best friend bf. if that was me i wouldn't go out with him not really knowing what your friend really thinks of him in the inside. |
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Date: 6/23/2002 9:48:00 AM
From Authorid: 47038
it is a good poasty |
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Date: 6/23/2002 9:49:00 AM
From Authorid: 47038
i meant post |
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Date: 6/24/2002 11:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 56247
Well if she is ok with it talk to the guy...I mean she could be lying to make you happy so I dunno...its a weird situation..but at first when you saw him why didnt you tell him how you felt? --ambie- |
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Date: 6/25/2002 5:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 56352
You know you shouldn't go with him. even if your friend SAYS she's okay with it, she might not really mean it. No gurl wants her friend to go with an ex. i wouldn't do it. Sorry. Good Luck. |
Date: 6/11/2003 5:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 22275
honey a majority of the time that a friend says she "doesnt mind" its just her way of saying "I know you know whats right" or at least thats the way it goes in my circle of friends. Yet we have looooots of drama. I say if your gonna go for it, then go for it but ecpect nothing of your best friend..... She sounds like a confusing one to me.  |
