Date: 6/27/2002 9:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 52866
Your sister's on USM too, huh? - Luv Bug  |
Date: 6/27/2002 9:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 31707
just sit with her and let her know, she may not listen, but as long as she knows you care and that you will be there for her hats all that matters  |
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Date: 6/27/2002 9:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 56676
listen alot of the time you will be brushed.you kinda have to let her expierance this for her self all u can do is just be a big sis.if she has a open mind she well see him his true form. |
Date: 6/27/2002 9:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 55692
She's gotta lern from her own mistakes!...
^.^ Gracefully Clumsy ^.^  |
Date: 6/27/2002 9:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 51671
my younger sis was obsessed with her first boyfriend, who was really a jerk who had no idea of how to treat a girl right. She's stubborn so I knew it was no use telling her about how i felt about him. The boy eventually did break her heart and she came to me crying her heart out. I was there to comfort her and all.. and she was thankful i didn't judge her choice of boys and Very thankful that i was there when she needed me the most. What I'm saying is, i suppose the best way is to let her go thru it her way. But, when she gets hurt, be there for her and love her unconditionally. :) ...hope everything will be okay with your sis :)  |
Date: 6/27/2002 9:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 56057
Cinnamon Rain, I have to say how sweet it is you care so much for your sister. She is very lucky to have you. But you need to let her learn from her own mistakes. As you did. Just be there to pick up the pieces, honey. Wishing you love growth and harmony....Boomie  |
Date: 6/27/2002 11:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
if she doesn't listen she will have to find out for herself... as long as she doens't put herself in danger or does something extreme to get his attention...you can't always expect her to listen to you because you do know more... i wish it was that easy for someone to listen.... don't push her... don't be nagging on her... if she seems to be doing somethign extreme do give her a note saying are you sure that's a good thing or "he's only going to break your heart"  |
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Date: 6/27/2002 11:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 56710
well if she doesn't listen then just back off a little cuz she'll feel that your trying 2 get in her buissnes.But you also got to let her know that if ~N~E~thing happens your her sister and you'll be there......-*poor jaded little girl* |
Date: 6/28/2002 7:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 56813
i think, you should let her exoperience or like or go with the flow with this guy cause experience is a great teacher and only she can learn from it in the situation or the liking of this guy just as you did. let her come to you if she is curious about this guy. but, just let her know you care by like asking bout' how things are going or whatever. hopefully she'll get the message. good luck!
-EnviousIvy |
Date: 6/28/2002 9:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 56780
Well , I guess you have to sit down with her and explain to her and tell her that you really care about her and love her, she may not listen at first so dont give up ! and dont think that she didnt listen to u ! no , she is thinking about what u said in her mind but still didnt make her decision :) give her some time  |
49789 Category:(General Advice) Created:(6/27/2002 9:25:00 PM)