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Do you agree with this?~~~~~~TarheelGirl

  Author:  53689  Category:(Discussion) Created:(6/27/2002 10:46:00 PM)
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When I was very small, maybe 5 for 6 years old, my father let me take a small sip of his beer. I hated it! And to this day, I can not stand the taste of beer. My mom would have a very small glass of wine after dinner sometimes (not very often though). A couple of times, she would let me try it. I didn't really like it either.

Now I am all grown up (or at least I like to think I am...LOL), and I still don't have much of a taste for alcohol. I rarely drink. Every once in a while I will have a glass of wine with my meal, or go have a drink with friends. But I never felt like I needed to get drunk or felt like I needed it to enjoy myself.

I often wonder if my parents' openness about alcohol helped influience my life now. Alot of kids start drinking because they feel like it makes them more grown up or cool. I wonder if that is influienced by watching their parents drink and being told that it is only for adults.

I know alot of you are cringing at the thought of my parents allowing me to have a sip of thier alcohol, but I truely think that if they had told me no when I asked to try it, I would have wanted it even more. Does this make sense to anybody?

Let me make sure I clear a few things up for everyone: No, my parents were not alcoholics, They very rarly drank alcohol. And they only let me try a sip. Not enough to hurt me, but just enough so I knew what it tasted like. (After tasteing the beer I never asked to try it again....LOL) They only did this a few times.

What do you think about this?

TarheelGirl

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Date: 6/27/2002 10:49:00 PM  From Authorid: 46486    I remember around the age 7 or 10.. During them years my dad was drunk and let me take a sip.. It was gross... So even I don't care for wine.. Someone offered it to me, I'm like heck no.  
Date: 6/27/2002 10:52:00 PM  From Authorid: 11341    My mom used to let me have brown cows (rarely) Ive let my kids taste also. I think you are right about not keeping it a big secret.  
Date: 6/27/2002 10:52:00 PM  From Authorid: 18516    It makes perfect sense. I don't think your parents were wrong for letting you have a sip. My mom let me try a cigarette when I was younger..NEVER AGAIN..LOL I don't know what's so pleasurable about them. I've also had a sip of vodka in OJ..I didn't know there was vodka in it and once I took a sip I booked it straight to the bathroom. I highly dought I'll be drinking once I turn 21..LOL  
Date: 6/27/2002 10:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 28190    Actually I do... My mom did the same thing with me. Although she has never been a big drinker, but it taught me early that I DID NOT like the taste of it, and the only thing that I have had since then that I even liked was White Wine, but only a glass at My Brother's Wedding reception.. :) So, yep, I think if it were different than that, I would probably be drinking person.... *huge huggles* Love, Amanda  
Date: 6/27/2002 10:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 47166    Hey, same thing worked with me. I hate alcohol. Way I see it theres only one time to drink- If you're in insufferable physical pain.  
Date: 6/27/2002 10:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 54803    my dad let me try a sip of his beer to (i thought it was root beer, i was kinda young) I HATE the taste of beer now, its so gross! I hardly ever, ever drink it. kurli103  
Date: 6/27/2002 10:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 7830    I agree with you. When I was 4 I remember my parents letting me have some champagne. And growing up I drank O'Douls sometimes (non-alcoholic beer). And now that Im 21 I dont really drink. It defenitly has an effect when parents dont make it seem forbidden.  
Date: 6/27/2002 10:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 53339    When I was younger my Dad smoked and he asked me to light his cigarrette. Well he saw me looking at it funny. I wondered what it was like and he told me to go ahead. Well it was the grossest thing I ever did. He said "remember that"!!! I will never smoke after that. Infact I have never had the desire to even see if I would like it now that I am older. So I think that that is a good way to teach your kids that it is a nasty habit. :)BabyCry  
Date: 6/27/2002 10:54:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53689    LOL@Lemon! TarheelGirl  
Date: 6/27/2002 10:56:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53689    I am glad to hear that ya'll agree with me...I honestly expected someone to tell me how wrong my parents were. Now I am ashamed for thinking that! LOL Tarheelgirl  
Date: 6/27/2002 11:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 52956    I think it was a good idea. It let's you know that it doesn't mean you are all grown up if you drink. And it let's you know that you don't like the taste of it so maybe you won't try it lol. And your parents drank responsibly so that makes you want to be responsible too.  
Date: 6/27/2002 11:03:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    well alotta parents let thier children have sips of alcohol, so they know it's not a "forbiddin" drink and there is a time and place for it... it also makes you realise it's not a great taste*L* and you don't wanna go out and drowned yourself with it... alotta kids do because they can.. and they cut down once the truely grow up... you just always had a mature look towards it.. your not the only one who doesn't drink much if any.. i don't drink either!  
Date: 6/27/2002 11:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 47699    It reminds me of the Dads who force their Sons to smoke a cigar really fast after they catch them with a smoke. The nausea tends to put them in their place pretty darned quick! I think that your parents did a good thing and you benefited from it. Thanks for an enlightening post!  
Date: 6/27/2002 11:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 11756    You have a good point ...i remember once when i was little ..i accidently took a sip of my dads beer...and i hated it also ...so as i grew up ...he was ...well , a DRUNK...so now i dont drink ...i dont really see the point ...i have before..but i dont think there is much of a point ...Its like .."hey lets go get drunk, puke...and then pass out...wake up with a hangover!!"...doesn't sound to appealing LOL...good post  
Date: 6/28/2002 12:13:00 AM  From Authorid: 53360    my dad was an alcoholic, and my mom was a socail drinker. they let us have a try when we were younger, and i did drink with her after i turned 21 a few times, but i dont really see the glory in drinking. you act like a moron and do really stupid things. there is just no point in it.
but, yes i agree with you, it is ok to teach your kids early, and not make it a forbidden thing because that will only make the kids want to do it that much more. kOzzmic_K
  
Date: 6/28/2002 12:50:00 AM  From Authorid: 55689    I guess it might have helped..My father did that to me too and I hated the taste...~bleh

~*SassyNik*~
  

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