Date: 7/6/2002 8:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 53806
so what if he is a bad kisser can't you teach him? LOL I would not make the first move but I would tell him that it's ok if he wanted to kiss me and that I wouldn't get mad.  |
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Date: 7/6/2002 8:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 53806
the reason I said not to make the first move is because girls have to very careful with things like this because they can get labeled as fast when they are too agressive and knowledgeable. I know it's wrong but that's just the way it is. |
Date: 7/6/2002 8:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 52956
First thing, you should not make the first move. Make him do it. And if you make the first move he might not be ready for it. So I think you should wait until he makes the first move. You just have to give him time.  |
Date: 7/6/2002 8:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 53339
I was in this situation before. It took about 2 weeks for a kiss and I ended up making the first mood because I got tired of waiting. LOL. I didn't want to push it and I think he wanted to wait until I was ready. I would say to wait until both of you are comfortable around each other if you want to make the first move.BabyCry  |
Date: 7/6/2002 8:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 29109
I got together w/ my bf recently and I had to make the first move on him(which was only hugging him) and then i linked arms w/ him, and eventually he held my hand. U gotta go slow, and if u want it to develop into a real relationship, then take it one step at a time. Just flirt w/ him a lot and act yourself, and once you get to know each other better, he will feel more comfortable doing things around you. At least thats how it is w/ me and my b/f.  |
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Date: 7/6/2002 8:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 29109
P.S...w/ the kissing thing, don't take it too fast cuz it kinda has to be a good time u kno? And if you are really attracted to each other, believe me...somethin will happen. |
Date: 7/6/2002 9:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 11756
I say you should just let things happen...you will know and so will he when the time comes...you will be able to tell if he wants to make a "move" or if he wants you to! ..but..ummm i dont think you should be worried about how far it will go...is this a first date with this guy
??...cuz a kiss sounds like enough for me!!  |
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Date: 7/6/2002 9:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 52956
That's very true 53806...no matter what girls do they always get a bad name. |
Date: 7/6/2002 9:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 21867
Okay...firstly, don't do anything that you don't want to do. If he's as good a guy as you believe, then he will respect your boundaries...so don't be pressured into moving quicker than you are comfortable with. Also, try to be aware of his boundaries and comfort levels too...not all guys want to go straight into anything physical on the first date. Though, ya know the funny thing is, that 'right time' that we all stress about, that 'right time' to kiss someone normally just arrives when both of you are ready. So just let that right time come naturally...focus on just having fun and enjoying yourself first and foremost...the rest will sort itself out And don't worry about him being a 'bad-kisser'...as a lot more goes into a kiss than mere physical lip contact. A real kiss is about connecting mind-to-mind, spirit-to-spirit...not just body to body. The setting, the mood, all that comes into it to make a 'good kiss'...so don't worry, when the times right the kiss will be right too. Peace,  |
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