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Date: 7/31/2002 8:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 58443
Maybe if I though I had any true friends I could answer that. |
Date: 7/31/2002 8:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 27270
Well, you have to determine whether it all balances out before you decide if it is a true friend or not. We all get upset and sometimes say things we don't mean, but a true friend will understand and forgive you. At the same time, a true friend would not take advantage of that either. Can't go around acting ugly just because you know you'll be forgiven, you know? So if your friend gives as good as she gets, that's one thing. But if you are doing all the giving and she is treating you badly, then that is no friend at all. Good luck!  |
Date: 7/31/2002 8:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 53339
I have gone through my share of best friends through the years. I have two best friends right now. One is my boyfriend and the other issomeone I have known for 10 years. She and I have had our share of arguments and fights. Never have they turned physical or verbally out of line. They key to any relationship is communication. The last time we had a fight was over three years ago!! I am so proud of that because it isn't often that you can say that. We tell each other everything and we know we can count on each other for whatever we need. We never critize each other and have never competed for a guy. We have always looked out for each other and stood up for one another. And every relationship is a two way street. Because if it is one sided that isn't really a relationship. I have been in one sided friendships and it sucks big time.  |
Date: 7/31/2002 11:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 53558
Give her time and she will come back to you. Aromatics  |
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Date: 8/1/2002 1:56:00 AM
From Authorid: 58081
Its a hard one.......some friends are forever and some are only for a time. After being hurt in friendships several times over the years, I decided that since I am a very good faithful and honest friend to people, I shouldn't accept anything less in return. I have sadly had to let friendships go because they were one-sided, or I wasnt being treated how I know I deserve. It sounds harsh, but I believe I am worthy of being treated at least as well as I treat others. I miss one friend terribly. |
Date: 8/2/2002 11:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 46486
Give her some time and she may come around and you two could be friends again.  |
