Date: 8/11/2002 9:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 46005
Oh WOW...... look you didn't know he was going to kill himself. You shouldn't feel bad for what you said, or did. You didn't force anyone to kill themselves. Look, I know you are upset, and anyone would be, in that circumstance. I am sorry that this is taking place in your life, but things happen that we can not control --- and for some reason he didn't think he could handle his life. I don't beleive in God, or spirits, but i think this may help, write a letter and write how you feel, then maybe read it out loud...... it will help you get what you feel off your chest!  |
Date: 8/11/2002 10:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
Honey we are all responsible for what we do in life. Your ex boy friend is responsible for taking his life. Its hard when a person has been less than nice to someone and this happens but you have to know that STILL he was the one that made the choice to do this. I'm sorry this happened but when someone has a problem that they do something like this, it only makes me wonder if the problem could HAVE been turned the other way, and he may have killed someone else instead. WE never know how life is going to go. DONT blame yourself.  |
Date: 8/11/2002 10:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52956
Thanks Alexander's Momma...I really appreciate that.  |
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Date: 8/11/2002 10:15:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52956
Thanks Firstborn |
Date: 8/11/2002 10:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 52679
i agree with everyone who replied......might want to look into therapy or a support group or something along those lines--Dark Fire  |
Date: 8/12/2002 12:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 29705
someone very dear to me did the same thing several years ago- i couldn't be there for him- but i have finally come to accept the fact that it was his own fault- not hers- it is not your fault either- people need to realize that ALL pains of the heart- while not dissappearing with time - they do diminish in intinsity- as yours will. people can help you with this- catz_tat
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