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Date: 8/13/2002 8:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 52866
It shouldn't matter  |
Date: 8/13/2002 8:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 46486
I don't think it should matter  |
Date: 8/13/2002 8:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
My opinion is love knows no age, RACE, or gender. and I'll tell ya something if your in LOVE....then it doesn't matter because LOVE is blind....would you NOT marry someone even though your MADLY in love with them JUST because they were of a different race!?!?!?  |
Date: 8/13/2002 8:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 50864
Jessica I am colored by expierence.I dated an Asian man and when we split he freaked.Left me messages and stuff that if I ever married a fellow German, or someone Danish or Swedish I would hae defective aies. ha the races had to mix I know logically it was only him and people from all races have told me he is nuts. ut I would not want totake that chanceagain ever.He would not date an Asain woman for the same reason.  |
| Date: 8/13/2002 8:29:00 PM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 48771 I agree w/ u too becky *~Jessica*~* |
Date: 8/13/2002 8:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 46515
Not only should it not matter, but there are so many bi racial people today, it is really getting to matter less and less as time passes. Of course there are some people out there who like using children as an excuse to keep people segregated, makes me I wonder what they'll use as an excuse when it becomes even more widely accepted.  |
Date: 8/13/2002 8:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 48129
Nope, i dont think it should matter. *peace and hairgrease*  |
Date: 8/13/2002 8:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 17014
You fall in love with whoever you fall in love with. You fall in love with personality- not skin type.  |
Date: 8/13/2002 8:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 34487
I have no problem with interracial marriages. If we were all blind then how would be know who was appropriate to marry if juding by color? Race is just an external element, it's where the real love lies that matters.  |
Date: 8/13/2002 8:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 48526
dont think it should matter and very true becky.  |
Date: 8/13/2002 8:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 3321
Well, you see, here's the problem. If we follow that philosophy, how will people ever learn to not be like you? You obviously are one of the people looking down on interracial marriages and children. The more people learn to accept and tolerate, the better. For the good of the kids, ha....that's the worst excuse I've ever heard.  |
Date: 8/13/2002 8:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 38474
Nope race shouldn't matter, all that should matter is how the other person treats you......  |
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Date: 8/13/2002 8:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
You don't agree with me....you clearly stated your opinion in your post...." personally think if ur white marry a white person and it ur black marry a black person." |
| Date: 8/13/2002 8:59:00 PM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 48771 I don't look down on people no matter what they look like or who they are its just people like u who are trying to make it sound like i am when im not *~Jessica*~* |
Date: 8/13/2002 9:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 19382
Oh? Have the Elvans and Ishanti arrived on Earth have they?  |
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Date: 8/13/2002 9:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 50864
I want to clairfy what I said it should not matter either way period.My X is just as wrong in his reverse prejudice.There could be a lovley Asian woman who is perfect for him or she could e black, or white or mixed but to exclude all Asains because he thinks the child would be defectiven that is wrong.As for me I should also be able to chose. He has no right to say I can not marry a German, Dane, or Swede It should all be personal choice And pushing pro or con on another person is wrong each person can chose who to be with and the rest of us should accept it no matter what |
Date: 8/13/2002 9:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 52419
Men are men, and women are women. Regardless of skin color. My grandmother is extremly racist, and now she wont talk to me anymore, cuz I am dating a "black" girl. I say marry who you love. Mickle  |
Date: 8/13/2002 9:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 54987
My race is the human race. 2 blacks make a black. 2 whites make a white, but a black and a white make a beautiful rich coffee color. I love coffee. - Coolade  |
| Date: 8/13/2002 9:34:00 PM From Authorid: 51941 My mom is white and my dad is hispanic. I don't think it should matter as long as the two people love each other. Princess Daveena |
Date: 8/13/2002 9:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 53900
I dated a black guy and some hispanic guys before I met my husband and I see nothing wrong with it...had I fallen in love with them I would have married them in a heartbeat. You cannot choose who you love anymore then you can choose when you will die. Love just happens when you leaast expect it and to say that because the person you love happens to be of a different race is not right is just....well just plain wrong. Children today have a difficult life no matter what you do so you mayas well have children with someone whom you love and who loves you and will be a good partner for you and your children sakes.  |
Date: 8/13/2002 9:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 277
I agree with the author. Marry in your own race if you plan on having children. If you don't want kids or can't have kids then by all means marry whatever race you want. Bi racial kids (black and white) have a hard time fitting into either race. I have known many biracial adults who as kids were never fully accepted in the white or black race. They were still at a toss up as adults. Do they blame their parents? No. Do they wish sometimes they were one full race instead of half? Yes. Tell me it's a poor excuse. Tell me I'm a racist, but this is the truth. I know I wouldn't set my kids up for ridicule or indifference.  |
Date: 8/13/2002 10:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 3263
*screams*  |
| Date: 8/13/2002 10:01:00 PM From Authorid: 55376 What Hawk refers to does seem to happen among black/white kids. Does not seem to be a problem with asian/white kids. Og |
Date: 8/13/2002 10:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 56369
I look past races... unless of course they are strongly tied up in culture watever.. then ild kinda back away, cos I come from a very Strong cultured background, Even though me as a person has basically nothing much to do with my roots, my family are strong in culture, and I feel they would clash with another Stronger culture.. it would be wierd and I would be in the middle of it  |
Date: 8/13/2002 10:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 42676
All of my grand children are mixed (black and white) and they seems to get along with both races. I dont see anything wrong here except people who are living under the old way of thinking, or should I say the "Jim Crowe" way of thinking. Whether we like it or not, the world is changing too fast for that kind of thinking and we all better get use to it...  |
Date: 8/13/2002 10:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 51070
I know you don't mean to come off as prejudice, but my aunt married a black guy, so I don't see anything wrong with it. I don't think it matter who you marry as long as he/she treats you well, is honest, and hardworking.  |
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Date: 8/13/2002 11:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 60517
well... i used to think abot things tah way.. i've changed it somewut... well..... for me the skin color doesnt' seem to be teh proublem.... still....wujt's inside is the morst important////// missdaredevil@hotmail.com write to me? |
Date: 8/13/2002 11:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 55970
Personally, I have no problem with inter-racial dating/marriage/children. As long as you love each other, go for it. Why should anyone else's opinion of you keep you from being happy? *Jewel Fernandez*  |
Date: 8/14/2002 12:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 22080
love knows no race gender or age  |
Date: 8/14/2002 6:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 2030
The "party line" of course is that it doesn't matter. Yet it does matter, ever ask an average black woman about black men dating white women or on the same note ask your average white guy about the same thing? And when it comes to kids there IS an issue for them growing up. In the final analysis is it WRONG, no I don't think it is. But to pretend we are not different or to pretend it's not an issue is just being blind.  |
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Date: 8/14/2002 8:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 53900
This is not directed at anyone in particular...just those who think interracial dating/marriage/parenting is wrong....Blacks and whites are as different as I am from any of you...they may have different values and different heritages but essentially what really matters is the same...we all have the same needs and that is what should be looked at not what color we are. Would you marry someone who you could have a child that could be born with a congenital defect? Would you marry someone of a different religion? If you were from Texas (country)would you marry someone from the Bronx(city)? I do not think that these would factor into whom you choose to marry and if they did then it is really sad that you cannot get stereotypes out of your mind long enough to allow yourself to get to know and possibly love what could be the one person who you were meant to be with. Well I hope that when you meet the person that you are meant to marry then you can get beyond outer appearences, beliefs, cultures etc and get to know the person inside and love him/her for just that a person....a fellow human being. |
| Date: 8/14/2002 12:34:00 PM From Authorid: 54196 I think we should try our best to mix races based on stereotypes. Asians, on average, seem smarter. Whites are the cream, the attractive features. Blacks will contribute the speed and agility. The end result would be intelligent, attractive and physically adept. Plus, the skin would be a light chocolate, which just about everyone I know loves. Oh yeah. |
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Date: 8/14/2002 3:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 55970
One of my best friends is of mixed cultures. Her mom is white, and her dad is Pakistani. She has absolutely NO problem with being biracial. She grew up without her biological father. Then her mom (who is like a second mother to me) married the man that she now calls Dad, when she was around 3, I think. They got divorced. Now she is with a wonderful man named Jim. So my friend is one of the most lucky people I know. She doesn't have one father like many kids, she has three, even if she's never met her biological father. She is one of the happiest people I know. ~Tara~ aka *Jewel Fernandez* |
Date: 8/14/2002 3:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 61104
I think that a person should marry anyone they fall in love with and you can't help who you fall in love with.*Gothgirl*  |
Date: 8/15/2002 6:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 12600
I think a person should marry whomever they wish...unless, of course, it's Harry the pet gerbil or spot the dog or their daughter or son or 1st cousin, Al...You get the picture:) In addition to BCARs comment, I feel the only reason it IS an issue is because there are STILL (gasp) racist (white and black) people in this world, who won't feel AT ALL guilty about treating a biracial child like dirt. That is not the fault of the parents NOR does it make interracial marriages wrong. It simply means there are STILL a lot of narrow-minded idiots running around in the world and until they are no more (or at the very least, scarce) it is definitely something that people should take into serious consideration before having biracial children.  |
| Date: 8/16/2002 1:19:00 AM From Authorid: 21948 hey! as long as their in love you can't stop love...princess diva... |
Date: 8/17/2002 12:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 50435
I guess I don't really care, but I don't want to be called a racist because I wish to have all-white children. I'm white(well, peachy/pink too)and I want my kids to be the same. There's nothing wrong with that. But for some reason people don't like to hear white people talking about WANTING all-white children. Why is that?...  |
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Date: 8/17/2002 12:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 50435
And I agree with BCAR... |
Date: 8/17/2002 12:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 59960
It shouldn't matter what the persons age, race, or anything else. All that should matter is that you care about that person. *~*SinistarEdge*~*  |
| Date: 8/17/2002 1:27:00 PM From Authorid: 55538 I think people should marry whoever they feel like marrying. But Im gonna marry someone of my own race, because I have a lot of Native Pride, but because of my dad I have pale skin, and I dont look Indain. So the only hope for my kids is to have an Indain dad....But if I do fall in love with someone who wasnt from my race, I might marry them. ~*Lil Poot*~ |
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