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A broken Heart

  Author: 61834  Category:(General Advice) Created:(8/15/2002 11:34:00 PM)
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I dated a girl for 2 years and loved her more than anything. I cought her sleeping with my best friend in my APT and hate her so much now. but the thing is after all thats happened, (and there is a lot of bad stuff) i still love her. why can't i get rid of this. I am in love with my current girlfriend and when she askes if i still love my X i tell her yes. I don't love her in the same way but i miss her a lot. its been almost 3 years since we have parted and every day I still think about her. Am I going to be like this forever and what about my girl now. What do i tell her because I don't want to lie to her.

RacerX

this was brought up by a lovely poem i think everyone should read, it hit me real hard and i know how she feels.

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Date: 8/15/2002 11:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 20559    There are some people where no matter what they do to you a part of you will alwyas love them - epsecially if they are your first love. My first love cheated on me and a part of me will always love him because of the times we had together.  
Date: 8/15/2002 11:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 57075    when you love someone...you never stop loving them...you may not still be IN love with her...and even though she did some bad stuff...there had to have been good times...so...it's okay to still love her...just as long as you know nothing will happen...and you don't really want anything to happen.
-ArtemisOrthia-
  
Date: 8/15/2002 11:39:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 61834    I don't want to love her anymore, and it was my first love also..

RacerX
Date: 8/15/2002 11:42:00 PM  From Authorid: 20559    Trust me i don't want to love my first love anymoire but a little part of me always will unfortunately.... With time it will lessen but that is what you need just time. As long as you love your current more you should be right  
Date: 8/15/2002 11:46:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 61834    Breezy/ Talking this out is way out of the question, within the 3 years i have fought him 2-3 times she has keyed my car and he had slapped my current girlfriend(thats the main reason i fought him) my girl and my x had fought once at a party i wasnt at. I want to hate her with everything i got but i can't no matter how hard i try.
Racerx
Date: 8/16/2002 12:02:00 AM  From Authorid: 42945    you say you have a new girl???? well hun, time will help you get over the X but you will have to put all your time and effort into your new love to enable you to move on and come to terms about your X, you will probably never really get over X, but you will learn to come to terms with it...good luck hun....Zema  
Date: 8/16/2002 12:20:00 AM  From Authorid: 5940    I'm with Zema on this, for though there are feelings in the past try to concentrate on the present. Just my two cents worth.  
Date: 8/16/2002 1:45:00 AM  From Authorid: 37872    I have no idea what you should tell her because, bro, you have a way more forgiving heart than I do.  
Date: 8/16/2002 4:39:00 AM  From Authorid: 49639    Ahhhh, young love, broken hearts...the memories. LOL...actually I know very well how u feel and it hurts right? It hurts BAD! Doesnt it! First loves are always the hardest to get over. Im sure the feelings were very intense and u want those "good parts" back. as cliqued as this sounds, I promise u, "Time heals all wounds." Youll look back one day and think. "Whyd I spend all my energy with her in my thoughts etc." I thought id Never get over this one fellow. After time, i wouldnt take him back for a million bux! U will learn valuable lessons from the hurt and longing. And u will find someone who outshines her too. Hang in there.  
Date: 8/16/2002 8:33:00 AM  From Authorid: 6208    You are not still in love with her...you are stuck on her. You gave her 2 years of your life, and you can't let it go! What you are is upset , but you have to realize that you two do not belong together. You have to tell your new g/f that it's not that you love your ex still, but that you can't let go yet. You can't be like this forever...trust me. Maybe you're not statisfied with your new girlfriend (I don't know...it's just a thought...you are most likely just completely hung-up over your ex because of all the emotional hurt over her). I had a boyfriend, and we broke up. I was hurt, and thought I'd never get over him. Then I met someone else, and even though we're only friends I feel that one day we'll be more, and I have for the first time COMPLETELY forgotten my ex. Maybe what you need to do is a little soul searching.  
Date: 8/16/2002 3:45:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 61834    thanks for all the support from everybody.

RacerX
Date: 8/16/2002 6:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 60863    Wow, your still not over her. I would be over my b/f just like that if i cought him sleeping with my best friend in my apt. You will get over her sooner or later. It just takes time-nikkiey
Date: 8/16/2002 6:59:00 PM  From Authorid: 59960    I can understand what you are going through. I have been with my boyfriend for three years now but I still think about my ex everyday and a part of me still loves him. The ex cheated on me as well but thank goodness I didn't catch him in the act. I honestly don't know what to tell ya cuz I'm in the same boat as you. So I guess you could say I feel your pain. Hope things get better. *~*SinistarEdge*~*  

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