Date: 8/16/2002 11:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
As soon as they tell me they dont want to remain friends I walk away..I figure that if they change their mind then they will know where to find me.  |
Date: 8/16/2002 11:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 53806
when they said They don't to be friends after the break up.  |
Date: 8/16/2002 11:28:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 5252
okay, well they never said 'i don't want to be friends' ...i'm just confused, we don't talk at all now...but they still wanted to be friends, and still wanted to talk, but now, there's no connection.  |
Date: 8/16/2002 11:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 49091
after they ignor you for over a week..lol i dunno wild guess srry  |
Date: 8/17/2002 1:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 28944
there's no hard & fast rule to this.... you should never give up if the person is important to you, like this person sounds like he(?) is... but oddly enough, the best way to for you to re-establish communictaion with this person might be for you to give him some space. he's probably finding it hard to talk to you right now(part of the grieving process)..... he probably needs to let go of 'it'(the old girlfriend/boyfriend setup) before a friendship could work. all you can do is let whoever it is know how you feel about them, and that you are there for them. just some thoughts... astral pixilator  |
Date: 8/17/2002 3:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 23886
I'm sorry, I cant help ... But i hope everything turnes out well!   |
Date: 8/17/2002 5:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 56057
When you've had enough of trying. There is no sin in trying to be friends, but sometimes it is easier for one half than the other. You have already said that you can't force anyone to talk to you and you can't force them to be your friend. You never know they might just need some time to get over it. I know how you feel though, hyperchick, I was the same....Good luck...Bear hugs Boomie  |
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Date: 8/17/2002 7:20:00 AM ( Admin-DNL )
I agree with Boomie ^^ |
Date: 8/17/2002 10:15:00 AM
From Authorid: 54987
You just know.. by their actions. It's an inner knowing. It's the unspoken language - body language. When you get the message... just let go. Coolade  |
Date: 8/17/2002 1:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 56489
As soon as that happens, it's a reverse psycology thing push them away, they'll come back to talk sooner than you think. Aimless  |
