Date: 8/23/2002 5:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 24003
First off...being together for 3 years and having a baby with him doesnt excuse what hes doing. Dont put up with that crap. You deserve better Im sure.  |
Date: 8/23/2002 5:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 61860
If it's a friend, then why the sudden bout of jealousy? If otherwise, I see your problem... I can't really give you that much advice here, as I've never had that problem...  |
Date: 8/23/2002 5:54:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59960
Well thats not really the entire story I've flirted with someone online once as well but only once and he did it once to get back at me or so he said but he continues to do it and he keeps throwing it back in my face that I did it that one time. Like I'm the bad one here. And I don't want to just give up on mine and his relationship because I love him to death and when hes not on the computer we're a great family. I'm just confused.  |
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Date: 8/23/2002 5:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59960
I'm not really jealous. But I am a bit upset that he is flirting with my friends. |
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Date: 8/23/2002 5:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 61860
Oops! Sorry, I only read half the post before commenting... Now I see the problem more clearly... Confront him, and give him an ultimatum... |
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Date: 8/23/2002 5:58:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59960
See I've done that though. I've even threathen to take our baby and leave over this but its just not getting through to him. He quit for a while but he started up again. So I really don't know. |
Date: 8/23/2002 5:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
my ex flirted and chatted and talked sex with a girl online!! even gave her his addy... lets just say that relationship didn't last very long  |
Date: 8/23/2002 6:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 15394
without trust what do you have? A baby and a big constant worry!... time to get to communicating just the TWO of you and get straight what you expect from each other, where you are going together and wether you are each other's TRUE loves....jmo  |
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Date: 8/23/2002 6:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 61834
tell him he has one chance, if he does it again drop him like a bad habit, and don't talk to him anymore, he'll learn real quick..RacerX |
Date: 8/23/2002 6:03:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59960
Thanks for the advice everyone. I'll talk to him again but what do you think I should do about the friend she is just as guilty as him. I haven't talked to her since I found out....I really don't think I'll even bother with her anymore.
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Date: 8/23/2002 9:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 57830
Well i think you should tell the other friend to knock it off. Your friend (that changed the subject) tho seems pretty cool. Good luck with that one! :o) Sweet Cheekies (o:  |
Date: 8/24/2002 4:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 61782
Boys will be boys...I agree that you deserve much better. Good luck!!!---Evilgeminitwin23  |
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Date: 8/24/2002 4:59:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59960
Breezy made a good point. He is a little flirty but he hasn't really been flirting with me just with every chick online...well not every but you know what I mean. I just wish he gave me the attention he is giving to then. |
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Date: 8/24/2002 5:00:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59960
Thanks for all the advice everyone I really apreciate it. |
Date: 8/24/2002 5:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 45551
the same stuff happened to me, my wife was doing it. i overlooked things thinking it was best for my son to have 2 parents at home, boy was i dumb. now after almost 7 years of marrige she moved in with her boss(lol) and our divorce is just about to get really nasty. when it comes to relationships time served does not mean a thing. if he does it now he always will.would you like to be hurt a little now, or crushed a few years from now. your still young so you can recover from this quite easy.....i'm 28 and have a 5year old son that lives with me.....do what you think you need to do. i'm just saying what i've experienced.  |
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Date: 8/24/2002 5:57:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59960
Thanks Master of Fate. I'll think about what you said. I really do love him and I want it to work out but I honestly don't think it will. And I'm sure I could always find someone else. |
Date: 8/24/2002 7:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 53054
lolz evy1 flirts...if he flirts with real people like face to face then maybe u should really think about it...but it is only on the net...dont do anything too sudden *hugs*  |
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Date: 8/26/2002 11:11:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59960
Thats a good point to teen life. Thanks. |
