Date: 8/24/2002 8:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 56293
If she love's him! Then in my opinion yes! BUT! She needs to tell her parents if it's been going on for awhile. Either they will accept it or not. They will get over it! - SocialSlacker0 - SS  |
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Date: 8/24/2002 9:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 42310
I would have to see the realtionship she has w/ her parents and also with thy guy which she likes. There are to many varrying factors for one to make a determination. |
Date: 8/24/2002 9:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 45551
hiding things and lieing is never good, it may seem to be at the time,but its not.  |
Date: 8/24/2002 9:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 15394
There is this thing called RESPECT. You don't have to like your parents wishes, but to go behind their backs is sneaky and immature. If someone feels strongly enough about someone, be upfront about it! It shows maturity to speak to your parents about your wishes, rather than sneak around, not to mention the sneaky part might be more of a thrill or dis-obeying the parents might be more of a thrill, than actually likeing the person.... RULES don't have to like them, just gotta follow them.  |
Date: 8/24/2002 9:23:00 AM
From Authorid: 30747
Is it really the racial issue or the fact that he has a "shaky" back ground? My opiinion is that at 16 she is way too young to be making decisions about committed love to be doing anything behind her parents back...Why are young people these days sooo bent on being "in love" when they should be enjoying freedoms and friendships. I'm just curious...as far as the interracial issue goes...I have no problem what so ever with it. I do have a problem with young people going behind parents backs to date thouge. *hugs*  |
Date: 8/24/2002 10:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 8184
I agree with Jungabel.  |
Date: 8/24/2002 2:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
she needs to tell her parents... she needs her parents to meet this young man for him to tell them that his ideals for her are only honorable and would never hurt thier daughter.. if she respects her parents and tells them they may not be happy but maybe they will give it a chance  |
Date: 8/25/2002 8:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 46515
First of all, the fact that he's of another race (you did say interracial right?) isn't as alarming as the fact that shes sneaking and lying to her parents and also that his past has been shady. Lying isn't good and if her parents don't approve of him, they might have legitamate reasons.  |
