Date: 9/7/2002 6:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 61811
dont tell her your going into an apartment together and if u must, go far, far away! lol You guys can do ANYTHING you want. He is 19 and so he can do ANYTHING he wants, well, anything legal but u know what i mean. jackie  |
Date: 9/7/2002 6:48:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 19927
i'm just scared she will go to the extreme and try and find us  |
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Date: 9/7/2002 6:48:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 19927
thanks jackie....no she doesn't know about the apartment that we are getting, eventually he will have to tell her, but once he tells her, he wants nothing to do with her anymore |
Date: 9/7/2002 6:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 56287
It must be hard for her to accept her child has grown up. However that is what she is going to have to do. Make an effort to be nice to her, but if she still wont budge put your foot down and tell her she is NOT under any circumstances moving in with you. He is old enough to make his own decisions and she will just have to deal with it.  |
Date: 9/7/2002 6:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 29112
56287, i wish it was that easy with her but it isnt. trust me, she is a physco  |
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Date: 9/7/2002 6:51:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 19927
no thats not it.....she even stole $4,000 from him last month when she found out that money was being used to buy the apartment with...so now me and mike are trying to keep this new apartment as confidential as we can. |
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Date: 9/7/2002 6:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 29112
yeah and more, i had to take her to court and i lost my money, anyways, we are keeping this all quiet |
Date: 9/7/2002 6:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 49091
My dad doesn't hate my bf he just doesn't like him. He never wants us to go out again...he broke my heart 13 times and my dad thinks his baby gurl is gonna get hurt again. I'd call the cops too!!!! Shes sounds kinda unstable. She needs to go on with her life...i know parents worry and all but at some point theres is a fine line they can't cross! After they cross that fine line, its all heck!!!!! Good Luck!!! *bigg huggs and kisses of luck*  |
Date: 9/7/2002 6:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
never had that problem. My mother LOVES my BF*L* and his mom and i have alot in common(we're both movie addicts*LOL*) we also dated over a year before we moved in together. If BOTH you agree that his mother is a problem once you move you can try and keep her out(or to a a minimal in) your lives  |
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Date: 9/7/2002 6:59:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 19927
thanks for the support enchanted princess...ya know i've seen alot of movies where mothers go mad and murder their sons' girlfriend to get their son back..lol *shivers* i'm scared of her...lol |
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Date: 9/7/2002 7:00:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 19927
we want her out COMPLETELY lol |
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Date: 9/7/2002 7:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 56287
Oh i'm sorry it must be very difficult for both of you. I really don't know what to say to help. never had BF parents hate me but my dad does hate my ex Bf he has good reason too though, i can't see her reason for disliking you so much. |
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Date: 9/7/2002 7:03:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 19927
i can't see why either....thanks |
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Date: 9/7/2002 7:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 29112
whats most important is that amy and i love each other :) we arent letting my mom stop us. so we will not have anything to dow ith my mom. |
Date: 9/7/2002 7:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 15997
Sorry she is like that with you. My ex's parents hated me for unknown reasons...I didnt care...lil did his parents know just what I did for him all those years we were together....I helped him through so much but they were jerks and refused to see what a good gf I was...glad to say I'm rid of him and his parents...hehehe...but it could be that she doesnt want to let her son go...still she shouldnt be that way towards you and you shouldnt have to put up with it. parents can ruin a relationship. has your bf tried talking to her and asking her to show you some respect?  |
Date: 9/7/2002 7:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 50864
My X Mother in law felt that way almost did not attended our wedding. But she is an alkie and oddly when we divorced we became friends  |
Date: 9/7/2002 7:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
no don't have that problem my folks like danny and as far as I can tell his folks like me....when I go down to his house we're always trying to find a way to 'lose' my plane ticket so they can keep me...LOL Good luck guys....hope it works out for ya :)  |
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Date: 9/7/2002 7:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
Danny told me a while back also that his mom didn't care if the wedding fell through *heaven forbid* or something as she'd just adopt me. LOL |
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Date: 9/7/2002 7:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 29112
i wish my mom would like amy, cuz amy is an awsome gal |
Date: 9/7/2002 9:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 38474
lol, sounds like my life in a way. Actually I can get along with my mother in law however there is no real relationship there. She can be a very sweet person just not to me, lol. I have a great relationship with my father in law though, I LOVE that man. My mom doesn't get along with my hubby, they are both so stubborn and attention seeking that I am always stuck in the middle of their little dramas. Although you and her may not get along it is possible to have a lasting loving relationship with Mike. Me and my husband, as of 4 minutes ago, have now been married for 6 years and things just keep getting better. I wish you and Mike good luck.........  |
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Date: 9/7/2002 9:52:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 19927
congrats on the 6th year anniversary racquie and thank you :) |
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Date: 9/7/2002 10:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 38474
Thank you Amy and you are very welcome. Things will work out for you and Mike, I am sure of it :) |
Date: 9/8/2002 5:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 46800
move far away, Thats what we did. We all had to go through hell for alot of yrs but moving far away from both of the states you live in would be the best/ This woman sounds like she will be a pain in the rear. Trust me::move  |
