Date: 9/8/2002 7:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 52679
1) its ok, 2) definatly ok, 3)depends, 4)definatly ok 5)not really  |
Date: 9/8/2002 7:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 10534
1...It depends on the person. If you're in love, then it's not wrong.... 2. I think it's okay to have friends of the opposite sex. I'd get suspicious if he always spent time with her and didn't invite me along though...lol 3. It's okay to meet some one after talking to them online for a long time and a phone conversation would be a good idea to have before you meet some one in person. Or wait, are you even talking about meeting in person? I don't think you are...I think it's cool to talk to people online, and meet people online. It's fine.. 4. I think once some one goes into highschool (like 14) it'd be okay to date. Maybe 8th grade in middle school..It depends on the kid really. If they're good or bad or what. 5. 20 years older? eh...I dunno..That'd feel really weird for me, but I guess if other people don't have a problem with dating some one that much older, than it's okay...  |
Date: 9/8/2002 7:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
Good answer everyone! And everyone answered so differently!  |
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Date: 9/8/2002 7:57:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
I think that age doesn't matter. It's all about how they treat you. |
Date: 9/8/2002 7:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 54570
#1 I agree with. #2 Disagree. You need to interact with members of the opposite sex as well. #3 Just be careful on this one ok. #4 I would say 14 years old is an appropriate age to date. #5 It is ok only if the age diffrence does not exceed 7 years. 21 years is way too much of a diffrence. Kind of like robbing the cradle and besides by that time they know exactly what to say when to say it to be able to get you into bed witrh ease. Just be careful ok.  |
Date: 9/8/2002 7:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 53961
. Sex before marriage.. is it right or wrong? Wrong
2. If your married and you or your spouse has friends of the opposite sex, is that ok or wrong? If they can keep it platonic it's fine. But they should try to make sure they are not alone.
3. Meeting and dating people off the internet. Wrong question to ask me today. I got a Dear Jane E-mail...
4. Is it ok to let your kids date before they're 16? No. They'll have plenty of time after 16 to do that and then it should be in a double date or group date situation.
5. Is it ok to date someone MUCH older than you? Like say... 20 years older? Only if you are say, 30+ yourself. Definately not when you are underage!  |
Date: 9/8/2002 8:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 52866
1. As long as you know, love, and trust the person I don't see anything wrong with it...why is it wrong? 2. It's a great thing! 3. YEAH IT'S GOOD lol 4. YEAH lol 5. There's no numbers in LOVE  |
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Date: 9/8/2002 8:02:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
Hmmmmm, Joe, that does make sense about them knowing what to say to get what they want. But don't worry because I never go anywhere alone with them. Not that I'm uncomfortable with them, I just don't like dates alone.. I like double dates. Also I think 21 years difference is ok depending on the situation. See....... I am 23 and this guy is 44 so its ok I think. BUT if I was 18 and the guy was 21 yrs older that'd make him 39 right?.. And thats wrong. Ya know its like as you get older it evens out a little. Like a 70 yr old guy and 50 yr old lady sounds ok right? But if they're younger its weird sounding! :) |
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Date: 9/8/2002 8:04:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
Interesting answers Paula. Thnaks for answering! |
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Date: 9/8/2002 8:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
There's no numbers in LOVE!.. Thats RIGHT Love Bug! So right! Thanks!!!!!! :) |
Date: 9/8/2002 8:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 58953
1. Its ok to me. 2. Its ok unless they spend more time with thier friends then me. 3.I think its ok in a large group. 4.I wouldnt know I dont have kids to worry about yet...hehe 5. its ok  |
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Date: 9/8/2002 8:07:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
Thanks for replying, 58953! |
Date: 9/8/2002 8:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 17014
1. You think it's wrong until you do it. Why get married, find out what you didn't know, then go back and get a divorce?. 2.I have no problem with this. And neither do most married couples i know. Isn't marriage about trust to begin with? Of course now-a-days the piece of paper called amarriage license has no value, so why bother with that expensive piece of paper? LOL 3.Meeting people is okay but I doubt the whole dating thing. I'm in a LTR anyways so I'm not interested. 4.When they are 16 and drive themselves. Sure. If they make stupid mistakes...well that's how they learn. 5.I think dating that much older is disgusting. My cousin does it all the time and they've all been posessive jerks. (insert much stronger word in jerks position). These are just my opinions.  |
Date: 9/8/2002 8:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 14464
1) Yes, 2) yes, but I'm very jelious, 3) I think it's ok, 4) nope, 5) And I wouldn't date anyone that much older.  |
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Date: 9/8/2002 8:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
Whoa Kelsey! Those are good, direct answers. They are very good too. We disagree in most of em tho! LOL! But your opinion is good! :) |
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Date: 9/8/2002 8:15:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
Thanks Ghost Lover! |
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Date: 9/8/2002 8:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 54570
Well Ok your 23.... He is 44. I did not know the approximate ages but in this sense I guess it is ok. You are an adult and can make your own choices. If you was under 21 then it would definately be a no-no. Good luck with this relationship. This guy sounds like he is the lucky one!!!! |
Date: 9/8/2002 8:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
1. Right (or okay if you choose to do it) 2. Right ~ you shouldnt be married to a person if you dont even trust them enough to have friends of the opposite sex 3.If thats what you want to do, personally i wouldnt though 4.Yes, but with certain rule (get to meet their date first, find out where they are going, curfew, etc) 5.Yes, age is just a number. Do whatever makes you happy ~ love is difficult to find so age shouldnt prevent it :)  |
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Date: 9/8/2002 8:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 14464
ok i just realized I put yes as the answer for the 1st Question. I meant yes I think it's ok. |
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Date: 9/8/2002 8:30:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
I understand Kelsey. |
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Date: 9/8/2002 8:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
THANKS, Sun Angel! And I LOVE your tag! |
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Date: 9/8/2002 8:34:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
Awwwwwww, Joe.. Your so sweet! And yes, if I was younger it'd not only sound worse but it'd be worse. |
Date: 9/8/2002 8:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 22433
1) I'm neither for or against it. As long as the two people are mature and in a committed, loving relationship. 2) Yes I think it's totally OK. 3) ummm..I don't know. 4) Yeah, as long as they're group dates, I think it's OK. 5) Yup, I think it's ok. I don't think age matters.  |
Date: 9/8/2002 8:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 40881
1) yes.. 2) Okay... 3)Yes ..4) okay.. 5) yepp... .. people should do what makes them happy. So it doesn't really matter what we think.. lol  |
Date: 9/8/2002 8:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 53900
1.Mostly wrong but sex is not a bad thing between two people who love on another.
2.I think it is OK my best friend is a guy...I met him online.
3.I do not really have an opinion.
4.It would have to be a decision made for each child based on maturity levels.
5.My husband is 34 and I am 26...my sister is 27 and her boyfriend is 42. I think it is just a number no big deal.  |
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Date: 9/8/2002 8:46:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
Thanks for your opinions *^H^* & Diajha & Jessica! :) :) :) |
Date: 9/8/2002 9:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
1) It's up to the individual, 2) it's kool to have friends of the opposite sex if your married. 3) don't know, 4) Don't know I'll see when I'm there, 5) My missus is 10 years older than me so I can't see the prob.  |
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Date: 9/8/2002 9:44:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
Thanks Kurt! :) |
Date: 9/8/2002 9:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 57452
1. I do not think sex before marriage is 'wrong.'
2. It is not wrong, to have couples or friends of the opposite sex when one is married.
3. Hmm...not to keen on the Internet dating scene.
4. I do not have children. I know my Mother did not let me date until I was much older.
5. Hmmm...older may be ok. Say a 25 year old guy going out with a 31 year old girl or a 42 year old guy going out with a 29 year old girl...Hmm..but maybe not if the girl is 20 and the guy is 40. To each one's own.
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Date: 9/8/2002 10:40:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
57452, thank you for replying! |
Date: 9/8/2002 10:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 48941
Well for number 1, YES, as long as you are two consenting adults.. 2, I think it is ok as long as it is just friendships, I have three guys who are my best friends.. 3, NO, I don't think you should date over the internet, it is to dangerous.. 4, I think thirteen is old enough to start dateing.. 5, Age is nothing but a number, I agree with you on this one, my boyfriend I have been with now on and off for five years is 14 years older than me..  |
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Date: 9/8/2002 11:11:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
Thanks for agreeing Lady bug.. Age doesn't matter! |
Date: 9/8/2002 11:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 26452
1) I have mixed feelings about that. I don't think that you should have sex with someone you first met, but if you've like known him a LONG time, you've been going out for a long time, and you've seriously talked about getting married (just no actual plans yet etc) then I think its ok. 2) Yes, of course, trust is everything in a marrage, I'm not married yet, but I have a boyfriend and ALOT of guy friends, and my boyfriend has female friends, nothing wrong with that at all. 3) I think its ok, but you just need to be very careful. 4) It all depends on the maturity of the kid. 5) Love knows no age. As long as its true love, then yes.  |
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Date: 9/8/2002 11:46:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
Once again someone agrees with me on the age question! Thanks for replying, Moon angel! |
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Date: 9/9/2002 4:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 53961
When you are older and have a daughter who is 16 and she brings home a guy who is 32, you will change your mind. Trust me. |
Date: 9/9/2002 5:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 53500
TO skip ahead to number 5. That guy is out for one thing and it ain't conversation. Speaking of which, what do you all talk about? The ONLY reason a much older guy dates a much younger girl is to get them into bed. Oh people will tell you otherwise, like love and all that, but trust me, from a guy, he's not going to be around forever. Especially after he gets his one thing. Sorry, blunt but honest. Oh and try asking him. He'll be like, "Why no, that guy SUEDE doesn't know me or you, I REALLY do care for you baby. Don't I treat you nice, sheezz, who is SUEDE, I'd like to meet him someday and beat him up..." Way to old sweetie. Besides, think of your future together, why when he's ___ you'll be ___. SUEDE  |
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Date: 9/9/2002 11:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
Paula I said its ok when your older because it evens out a little, but when your young, its not right! |
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Date: 9/9/2002 11:12:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 50791
Ok, 53500, He ISN'T out for just that! I KNOW this for sure. And even if he was he aint getting it anyway, LOL! I'm not stupid like you are making me out to be, I know what to look out for. And not ALL guys are that way. He is very mature and yes I know it sounds typical for a young girl to say that about her older b/f, but it's true. And if he doesn't like me for me then he can take his sorry behind out of my life! So it's all good. We get along and we are good friends and thats that. And I DO KNOW WHAT I'M DOING!... I'm not stupid! :) And what do we talk about? Well we like the same stuff... Like the same food the same sports, stuff like that. The subject of sex has never came up at all! But thanks for your opinion! I understand what you mean. |
Date: 9/11/2002 4:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 50758
1. Wrong.....2. It's ok to have friends of the opposite sex but I don't think it would be appropriate to go out to the clubs or to hang out with them without your spouse. Just having them as "aquaitences" is fine.....3. I don't think it's ok. It's actually quite dangerous unless you use a dateing service that does background checks. So, I guess I'm split on this one.......4. I think 15 is ok. That is when I started dateing.......5. I would draw the line at 25 years age difference. I mean,even by then they are old enough to be your parent, but seriously, what would a 20 or 25 year old possibly find in common with a 50 or 55 year old person except maybe money?  |
