Is this normal?   Author:  48577  Category:(Discussion) Created:(9/8/2002 8:02:00 PM) This post has been Viewed (416 times) O.k. I've been married for 8 and a half years. We live on his mother's property, his mom provided us with a home. So nice of her, but it was becouse she wanted us out of her house. For all these years I've tried to keep working, no matter how piddly the job is, one reason is becouse I never know if my husband is going to keep a job. But is it normal for the husband to have everything and the wife to have nothing. Example he found a Ford explorer he wanted, he went and got a loan to get it, and I paid most of the loan, but the vehicle was his and is in his name. Then becouse the training started to go out, even though I was still paying for the explorer and told him we couldn't afford anything else, he went and got a loan to get a Chevy Blazer. It was like the Explorer wasn't good enough for him anymore and he had to have another vehicle. Then the Explorer training went down, and while it was just sitting there I finished paying it off. Then we where both working and we got the explorer fixed, and I noticed that a rod was starting to knock, so I seen a jeep that I really wanted, and asked him to check it out. He refused and told me that we couldn't afford it. So now I have no vehicle becouse the engine blew up, but he found me a old junker that he is fixing up. But that will go under his name too. But it's like he gets all the good things while I'm left with all the junkers. I don't own a thing on my own, or even between us. When I ask him to put something in my name, he rufuses. It's like I'm not good enough or something. Does any one else have this problem, the husband think he has to have everything better than his wife? I feel sometimes that he thinks he is better than me, and I've tried to talk to him about it, and he just tells me to shut up. And advice or anything would really be helpful. You can join Unsolved Mysteries and post your own mysteries or interesting stories for the world to read and respond to Click here Scroll all the way down to read replies. Show all stories by   Author:  48577 ( Click here ) Spring is coming