Date: 9/23/2002 9:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
Beth I still have a low self esteem. I hide it with jokes and my cocky arrogance so that people don't really know it. I don't think you can get over a low self esteem until you can love yourself and be truly comfortable with who you are. Until then we are all just kidding ourselves, trying to say we are comfortable many times to ourselves so we start believing a false love because inside we still have our own insecurities.  |
Date: 9/23/2002 9:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 53836
two simple words...to acknowledge the truth from the source...never forget...*Heart Hug* <3 <3 Just ask ~SpaceCase  |
Date: 9/23/2002 9:20:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 42568
I'm actually totally fine with who I am, it's just the others I'm worried about. lol. I just see people wrong and pick up on their actions a little too much. I guess I just have to relax. I don't know why I always jump to thinking that everyone will just not like me.  |
Date: 9/23/2002 9:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 48941
Kurtvedder I agree with you on what you just wrote..A person has to love theirselves before healing or loveing another person..  |
Date: 9/23/2002 9:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 48941
Bethanne I do understand what you are saying, I always think people don't like me and it used to bother me alot, but after going to counceling I learned that if a person don't like me, well that is not my problem..It is theirs..  |
Date: 9/23/2002 9:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 15033
Start taking a good strong multi-vitamin. Take them for one month. Come back and tell me how you felt as you took them. You must remember to take them everyday. It's magic....:-)  |
Date: 9/23/2002 9:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 42568
Yeah I think that way too. I'll just have to "train" my brain to think differently I guess.  |
Date: 9/23/2002 9:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 42568
I'm going to start taking Vitamins Thunderhead, thanks for the advice!  |
Date: 9/23/2002 9:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 48941
I never would of thought about vitamins, maybe I will try that one myself..  |
Date: 9/23/2002 9:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 47699
I wish there was because I know someone who could use it. No, it isn't me but I think you know that.  |
Date: 9/23/2002 10:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 15033
(((Hugs))) to you too!!  |
Date: 9/23/2002 11:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 47699
Thunderhead, I wasn't talking about you or anyone else on USM. I don't know if you might have thought so but according to your reply, I wasn't sure that you knew that. Sometimes words can be so ambiguous.  |
Date: 9/25/2002 8:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 21435
"Cut it out, Bethann. You come off as being super confident to me. That's what it takes in this old world, I think. "Confidence...but with a heart to." Have you noticed how philosophical I've been in this batch of comments???...lol...Listen closely now..."You made my day."... Write on....  |
Date: 2/16/2004 5:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 51292
I think stuff like that sometimes to. For me it just took some time i had to grow into it in a sense lol..but im sure people dont think those things about you 8o)  |