Date: 10/18/2002 6:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Why do you need a boyfriend? I don't need a boyfriend.. hell, I don't even WANT a boyfriend. Guys are too much trouble.. I'm waiting till I'm OLDER to have another one. I'm relying on flirting for now. LoL  |
Date: 10/18/2002 6:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 28336
i never had a guy like me in school...not that i knew of anyways...and i was really really thin.....i was way underweight. now that i am older and more mature..i still hate men (having a bad night sorry about that) i know you don't want to hear it..but it does get better. as the boys mature and realize that they were fools when they were teenagers they get better...i know that doesn't help you now, but just think of all the guys who put you down now wanting you in a few years.....than you can be the one who says "no".....i wish you so much luck and i hope you get everything in life that you want....i only wish i could say something to make it better for you......  |
Date: 10/18/2002 6:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 19625
HAHAHA! Teen years, the happiest years of life.. LMAO! Sorry 'bout that. I think I left the Happiest years of my life somewhere back in Kindergarten. Sometimes haveing a boyfriend isn't as happy-go-lucky as it seems, but I know how you feel about wanting one. Make sure you're crushing on the right guys for one thing. Guys that you have connections to, like a friend of a friend of a friend, or somthing, and not some random Johnny in the hallway. Good Luck Hon!! Erin-  |
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Date: 10/18/2002 6:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 19625
***Like a friend OR a friend of a friend. oops, lol. Erin- |
Date: 10/18/2002 7:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
it's common for girls your age not to have dated much or any.. in a way i find it great... teens who don't start dating until they are atleast 16-17 tend not to get into a sexual relationship at a very young age and arn't as wild... learn to love yourself.. if you cannot love yourself how do you expect someone to love you?? and the harder you look the less likely a guy will come into hte open to date... flirting is great but it's just that flirting... be happy with yourself and a guy will just come your way... it did for me when i was least expecting it  |
Date: 10/18/2002 7:38:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15675
thanxs everyone but lol  a lot of that is what I've already heard. The thing is my few friends dont go to my school they go to the royal one where everyone hates me. See thats just the prob 'in a few years...' that kinda makes me feel extra bad. I'm the girl the guys will run to when they mature, when they want to settle down, have a serious possible marriage relationship. Dont get me wrong those things are good but considering that i'm kinda put back that far and then i might not be as attractive in their eyes hurts. I HATE TEEN GUYS!!!  |
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Date: 10/18/2002 7:48:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15675
the reason rika I want one is because I am just so bent on escaping the town i live in now because as I said I havent had to many good school year memories... My sis and my mom (mom is single, sis who is 13 isnt) are much smaller then me (mom is a size 6 and brittni my sis is barely a zero and the pants are to long for her) and anyways they always get flirted with and asked out hundreds of times and moms barely social (she goes out sometimes on her own saturday nights but not every saturday night) so yeah this makes me feel like crap. I just want the experince and such but i guess im to mature... |
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Date: 10/18/2002 7:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i know the feeling, i was always looking for the long term relationship.. never wanted the short little things what highschools are full of.. wasen't my thing... i ended up finding a guy(out of soo many) that wanted what i wanted a long term we lasted a little over 2 years on and off.. we were engaged broke it off... we were fairly young 16 or so when we started dating.. when i was 18 i met another guy(older guy) i was just shy of graduating high school and he had already done a year of college and a year of university(he is about 2 1/2 years older) and i met him while i was working(he came up and asked me out for coffee) he knew my name and very little about me(what some friends,who went to my high school at one point, told him) just wait... your guy will come along |
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Date: 10/18/2002 7:54:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15675
thanxs midnightly I know...I've been waiting 3 years for this summer to come because this next summer is the one where my predictions on lover are supposed to happen (I pray that supposed means will...) Its just u know its a lil offensive when ur the 'long term girl' because i swear guys have to types of girls and the long term girl is second best... |
Date: 10/19/2002 8:44:00 AM
From Authorid: 54987
I'd say put your energies into something more constructive. Something that will pay dividends later on. Having a b/f or a g/f shouldn't be the BE ALL and END ALL of anybody's life. Get involved in activities at school or community. Don't waste those teenage years in angst. Develop yourself in other ways. As for your weight... well a lot of that may be puppy fat which you may lose anyway naturally. But don't wait to see if it will. Join a health club. Learn about nutrition. If you keep it up you'll have those guys around you like moths. Then... you can pick and choose on your terms. So get with the program and devote the next year to being who you want to be, and not who people think you are. In the end the change has to come from within. Good luck.  |
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Date: 10/19/2002 8:51:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15675
Koolade I live in Spencer Iowa theres barely in health programs and the ones that are (like weight watchers) cost about $100 to join if I remember correctly and I'll explain why i dont have that money in a sec. I tried joining stuff at school (the play) but I guess they didnt want a blonde with red streaked hair, nose ringed, girl to play the mother in the 1920s or anything else for that matter! I am putting a lot of time into something else and that makes me wonder what I'm missing. I sing, dad pays $60 a month for my vocal/stage lessons, grandma is arranging the recording studio and photo shoot time this xmas break and mom well...shes supportive . I spend all my time on this and when your waiting for someone to write you music, or tell you get over a cold, or whatever you have to wait for it gets boring! And I'm impatient . So thats why i'd like a bit of a social life. My friends from royal I mentioned, there were 3 of them, 2 of them are no longer my friends and trust me the 3rd ones barely there... But the 3rd one shes doing the singing thing to and shes got a band of guys (dont suggest them lol their all how u say frequenters of cannabis (not my friend though) but half the band is (3 of the 6...)) Anyways so i dont have a social life, ever since I was 10 I've been trying to be a singer (I'm 15 now.) and now that the singing things comin together I'd just like a bf to be there and the experince and all... |
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Date: 10/19/2002 3:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 54987
Well now that you've explained a lot about your situation I can understand your angst LOL. Well maybe its time to be bold and go up to a guy and say, "Hey what you doin Friday night?" Don't wait to be asked. You'd be surprised how many guys would like to be asked cos they're afraid to be turned down. |
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Date: 10/19/2002 5:54:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15675
lol yeah koolade i thought itd take a lot to explain so i hope i got everything down . The problem with that as i mentioned was the way guys have treated me and well the lil self confidence thing, the 'oh i cant like him cuz he probably wont like me' argument that always wins in my head, and so forth. I guess if I could find a guy who i could trust to crush on i would ask him out. |
Date: 10/20/2002 3:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 55533
OMG!!!! You are just like me!!! I am friendless too!! I am in high school and NEVER had a boyfriend, i also NEVER went to ANY dances at all!! If you want to hear of how bad school was for me i could tell you by messaging, sorry i couldn't help, but i too have trouble with boys, so i stay away from them. I also could tell you some REAL oddness with my sister and i, she is beautiful and i am not, (stinks, doesn't it, especially when everyone favors her) I have a story of how i got insacure when i went to Wal*Mart, sorry if i was boring, i was just helping. If you want to hear the stories you can message me. Good luck.  |
