Date: 11/2/2002 11:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 55689
aww.. I hope nothing bad happens.. maybe you should try to ask your neighbour to leave...wait that might not be a good idea besides this then.. how was your day?  |
Date: 11/2/2002 11:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 52866
Release Me!! I'm sorry he's being a butt!!  |
Date: 11/2/2002 11:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
just take a breath grab a blanket and a pillow and set yourself up in the spare room or on the couch.. your best bet is just to lay low and quiet and not try to start anything.... i know it's hard and your uncomfy.. i've been there many a time... when he sobers up tomorrow have a talk with him and how you feel when he gets sloshed  |
Date: 11/2/2002 11:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 32763
oh i hate feeling uncomfortable in my own home! can you not ask you husband to come into the room you are in and then ask him to ask this guy to leave?  |
Date: 11/2/2002 11:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
personally? Id' go into your kids room sit on the floor *try not to wake them* and lock the door...incase anything happens yoru their with them and the door is between you guys and your husband and 'friend'  |
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Date: 11/2/2002 11:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 32763
ooooo i agree with becky! |
Date: 11/2/2002 11:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 30229
Awwwww...... honey, that is a bad situation to be in.. if they start fighting kick both of them out, there is nothing worse than a MAD drunk  .. just tune them out and have some fun on here..   |
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Date: 11/2/2002 11:21:00 PM ( Admin-MG )
I agree with Becky! |
Date: 11/2/2002 11:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 26452
I'm so sorry about this I agree with Becky and Midnightly I hope nothing bad happens.  |
Date: 11/2/2002 11:23:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28848
he knows how I feel when he gets like this.  |
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Date: 11/2/2002 11:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
it's not good to go in and yell and scream because that will cause problems it will wake the kids no one wants to fight...i find what works is when it gets bad just close your eyes and take a deep breath... maybe sleep in your childs room with one of them... but don't try to step in.. kinda like the objects in motion will remain in motion until they come to a stop on thier own.. and if you try to stop it you need to use some force.. what isn't always a happy thing... your gonna get through it just fine.. just lay low...take a deep breath and tomorrow will come and when he is dealing with a hang over.. tell him how you feel about the drinking ask him if he has a nite on the town to stop before he gets sloshed... but that is tomorrow.. tonite.. just take a deep breath lay low and take it easy... |
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Date: 11/2/2002 11:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
you might have to go in there and talk simple quiet and calm saying that they need to keep thier voices down because the children are sleeping just stand at the door and say that then leave... kind of like speaking to a child unfortunately... |
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Date: 11/2/2002 11:29:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28848
He made the guy leave and now he went outside and said that he was going to kick the guys 'a'. |
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Date: 11/2/2002 11:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
well it's good thier outside... they won't wake the kids... heck i'd say toss the pillow and a blanket on the couch and maybe he'll get the message that he is sleeping there tonite! |
Date: 11/2/2002 11:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
I'd do as Becky says and go in with the kids and lock the door, poor girl..nothing worse than a drunk especially when there's two of them...hugs Zema  |
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Date: 11/2/2002 11:33:00 PM ( Admin-MG )
oh & kick his butt in the morning! |
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Date: 11/2/2002 11:38:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28848
The guy probably doesn't even know what's going on because he doesn't speak english. I'm just so tired of getting upset and trying to talk to my husband about his drinking. He just says that I'm crazy and that he doesn't have a problem. I don't know what to do. I told him from the start, before we were married that I wasn't going to put up with an alcoholic. That I wasn't going to allow my children to be raised around anything like that. And now it just seems to get worse and worse. |
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Date: 11/2/2002 11:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
he doesn't realise it.. he doesn't notice it is a problem... my father used to be an alcholic... he didn't think he had a problem.. i knew he did.. my mom knew he did.. he didn't really realise it until one week we were out camping and the empties filled up the whole back of his truck and he broke one of the windows in anger... after that he realised he had a problem... i can't count the nites that he spent drunk sleeping on the couch listening to his old records.. until he can physically see how much it's hurting you and the children and how much he drinks is literly lined up infront of him he might not realise how much of a problem it really is... i was fortunate.. he never did hurt me.. he just fought alot with my mother...he practically caused her to have a breakdown.. i remember the nite where she had made dinner and no one wanted to eat she basically threw it across the room and stormed out and ended up kicking a window and breaking it in her furstration... My father grabbed a beer... i cleaned up(i was about 14 at the time)...my father drank for years and years.... it started out social drinking then it was a beer or two after work.. then it was every nite... |
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Date: 11/3/2002 12:01:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28848
He just left. So now he is driving and he can barely walk and his speach is slurred. He's in no condition to be driving. I've cried and begged and screamed.. I just don't know what to do. And I can't even talk to him while he is drunk, all he does is mock me and everything that I say. And practically just laughs in my face. |
Date: 11/3/2002 12:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 28946
Awwww Release Me, I'm so sorry... I wish I knew what to say. HUGS.  |
Date: 11/3/2002 12:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 31765
He's driving while drunk? Call the police. That might be a wakeup call he will hear.  |
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Date: 11/3/2002 12:29:00 AM ( Admin-MG )
yes if you want this crap to stop, call the police & tell them he is drunk driving! He needs help & this just may be a way to get it for him! He could kill himself or some innocent person! |
Date: 11/3/2002 12:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 16916
Well from what I've read so far, I think you should call the police and give them the info to the car and give them an idea of his whereabouts, maybe a night in jail will sober him up and twach him a lesson! And he never has to know it was you!  |
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Date: 11/3/2002 12:44:00 AM
From Authorid: 16916
LOL Twatch? what is a twatch?? hehe Teach* at 4 in the morning my fingers just dont like to type LOL |
Date: 11/3/2002 1:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 47699
Release Me, I'm sorry for what you're going through right now. I wish you all the best. With any luck, your situation there will improve soon. Take care, my friend.  |
Date: 11/3/2002 4:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 23886
Hey RM I'm sorry about what ur going through right now, I may not not know how to help u in this situation but i'll pray that it will be solved soon enough *HUGZ* Good luck - Take care, --Jabbies--Aka--  |
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Date: 11/3/2002 5:14:00 AM
From Authorid: 35060
I'm sorry to hear this...maybe when he sobers us you can discuss this with him calmly. Tell him this is unacceptable behavoiur, you dopn't mind heim having a drink but getting blind drunk and inviting neighbours into the house has to stop. He's not a single guy anymore, he's a married man with responsibilities, he should starting acting like one. |
Date: 11/3/2002 7:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 33925
Awwww honey I can SOOOOOOOO relate!! My husband used to do almost the exact same things..When they are that drunk it is totally useless to say anything to him..I will tell you what I would do though about his drinking and driving..I would call the Police..give them the license plate number and make of the car..have them be on the look out for him..Maybe if something REALLY drastic happens to him he will smarten the heck up..Im not good at dealing with this crap either..I ended up kicking my husband out once for four months..I wouldnt let him come back until he was ready to ACT like a husband and a Father. Im happy to say that he has been doing great for the past year or so..he has his slip ups of course, but NOTHING compared to what it used to be like..  |
Date: 11/3/2002 10:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 49742
It helps to hear what others go through with these situations and how to act on them. Alot of good and useful advice.  |
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Date: 11/3/2002 2:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28848
Well, things are back to normal now. He sobered up with a hang over. and he doesn't even remember the things that he said or the way that he acted last night. Of course, he appologized like he always does. Everything will be okay until he decides to start drinking again. Thank you all for being here for me. |
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Date: 11/4/2002 5:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
tell him the sign of drinking too much is not remembering what happened the night before |
