Ugh... I have issues! Help!!! ~Emmie Lou

Ok... here's ONE of my problems. I'm going out with this guy, and he's a few years older than me, he's really really sweet, but we rarely talk. We used to hang out in the same group, but then the group split and I went with one side, and he's in the other. He really likes me though, and he always says "I Love You" but I never say it back because I don't feel that way for him, and I think that makes him feel bad, and I don't like makeing him feel bad. I want to break up with him, but everytime I see the look in his eyes when he's with me I just can't do it. I think I'm going to have to do it over the phone... I know that's a chicken way to do it, but I can't look at him when I do it, or I won't be able to. I need to stop leading him on... any advice, PLEASE!!!!

Another thing, I'm friends with this guy... we'll call him Frank. Me and frank are real tight, and we talk a lot. He always tells me who he likes, and I've hooked him up with a few of my friends before, all good right? Well, yeah, you guessed it. I like him, and I don't know if he likes me. He flirts with me sometimes, but when he always talks to me about who he likes I get mixed signals. It could be that he doesn't want to say he likes me because I'm going out with that other guy and doesn't think I'm interested in him, but I don't really know. And half my friends like him, and one of my friends has this twisted little on and off thing going on with him, where they'll go out, then start talking crap about each other, break up, make up, and reapeat. It's really weird, I think it MIGHT be over, but yeah... Ok... I know, I'm messed up. I have more issues, but I'll try and work them out on my own.

Please help me! I know most of this seems petty, but if you know what it's like to be a 14 year old girl, you know. LOL.

Erin * Emmie Lou

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