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girl question - anyone want to help?

  Author:  49374  Category:(General Advice) Created:(11/3/2002 7:11:00 PM)
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Hey, everybody! You probably don't know me because I haven't been here for a while, but I decided to come back because of how much I enjoyed this web site. Anyway, I have a serious question.

I'm in college now and have met up with many new people around campus, but there's this weird girl that I've met here. She is basically infatuated with me, and it really ticks me off whenever she comes by. Here's the story:

I was working at my grocery store one day in the checkstand, and she all of a sudden came through my line. I didn't know her, so I just said, "Hey, how are you doing?" You know, the usual. Well, she just then introduced herself to me and started talking to me. I didn't think anything of it, but the next few days, she started coming in more and more, then she got my cell phone number from me, and she calls me at least twice a day now. A week later, just before Halloween, she says that "her mom says we should be in a serious relationship and junk." This was about 2 weeks after I met her, and then after that, she said that her brother dared her to kiss me, and she like REALLY tried pushing it onto me, but I wouldn't because I'm not that kind of person.

Okay, sorry that was so long, but all this is really starting to get to me. I really hate talking to people about stuff I hate such as this, so what should I say? I know I have to talk to her about it, but I don't want to sound all "guy-like" and be completely conceited. Anyone have suggestions? I really appreciate you guys! You're all awesome!

-whatdidisay22 (Terence)

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Date: 11/3/2002 7:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 56381    Well I think you should just be honest with her. Tell her that you dont really want to be in a relationship right now, and you would appreciate xoxo  
Date: 11/3/2002 7:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 56381    LOL part of that got deleted :) I was going to say....and you would appreciate it if she would respect that and stop pushing it :) There ya go that should make more sense lol xoxo  
Date: 11/3/2002 7:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 29262    Ok... I don't want to sound sick but I think she swings the other way... maybe she isn't like that maybe she just wantes to be your friend... I dunno thats all I can think up about now :)  
Date: 11/3/2002 7:34:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49374    you really think so? why do you think so, if you don't mind me asking?  
Date: 11/3/2002 7:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 20956    if you're not interested in her i thinkt that you definatley need to be up front with her. make sure she understands that you arent interested ~ you need to be clear with her. this should solve your problem, plus it'll stop her from getting too badly hurt. good luck :)  
Date: 11/3/2002 7:43:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49374    well, someone else i talked to earlier told me that maybe she just wants to be my friend, so that's why i'm kinda wondering.  
Date: 11/3/2002 9:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 47218    eww-- watch out. She sounds like she may be the potential obsessive-stalker type. If she is calling you and following you to an excessive degree and pressuring you into getting serious too quickly....well, I say, trust your instincts-- if it makes you uncomfortable, get out while you can. In these situations you have to be firm and direct. Be nice, but give it to her straight- tell her how you feel-- "You're a nice girl, but I'm not interested in you that way, it's just not gonna happen between us and it makes me uncomfortable for you to be calling me all the time,blah, blah," or however it goes. In any case, the important thing is not to be ambiguous. If she is the obsessive type, she will interpret the slightest bit of ambiguity from you as a sign that there is hope and she will keep coming after you.  
Date: 11/3/2002 10:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 18516    I agree with Molly Cat..she sounds like and obsessive stalker..lol Tell her your not looking for a relationship right now. Be honest with her..tell her you just want to be friends.  
Date: 11/3/2002 11:05:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49374    Well, on this whole thing, I asked one of my other friends, and she told me that she probably just really wants to be my friend. Who knows, right? But yeah, I'm getting to that point, and I hate it, but thanks for all of your inputs! USM rocks!  

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