Date: 11/4/2002 4:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 53900
I would not pursue it unless you are willing to not have them as friends if it does nt work out. It may not happen like that soem people remain friends after going out but most dont. So if you really care about them and dont want to risk it tehn dont pursue them  |
Date: 11/4/2002 4:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 60759
stay where u are.  |
Date: 11/4/2002 4:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
If you enjoy the way things are now why not maintain the status quo. If things change in the future so you know that you have feelings for one more than the other then you change the situation.  |
Date: 11/4/2002 4:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 55689
Well I dont know about you but it you want to tell them..like you said it would be pretty uncomfortable if you guys were to break up and also in any other relationship you run to risk of being rejected, which in this case may make things a little odd too.  |
Date: 11/4/2002 5:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 57776
I was in the same situation twoce but it was the other way around the my guy friends liked me...I didnt like him that way and he confessed his feelings and well i let him down but not in a harsh wasy but to this day whenevr someone brings it up he feels really wierd and well im glad we werent ever nothin more than friends...Then with the other guy after we both confessed our feelings toward eachother things havent been the same at all! Now that i have a bf hes really wierd towards me things arent the same and im sad to say were no longer best friends.................. Really im no one to say what will happen but it just really puts the friendship to the test if its strong enough to achieve the feelings you guys have toward eachother than go for it! Not all of these situations come out bad! You should just think it over before you do anything drastic...If you need any help just msg me :)  |
Date: 11/4/2002 5:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 47508
Stay where you are. Take it from me. My daughter went the next step and got involved with one of her guy friends and it backfired. Everything is okay now, but it did put a little strain on their friendship for awhile. Unless you are positive that this is what you want and that you want more than a friendship from this guy do not go for it. Because it many cases it can cause a friendship. Go out a few times alone with this guy friend and see how it goes first before you make the plunge to "going out". Just a word of advice who has a daughter who was in that situation. Any help I can give you let me know. I have seen these things first hand. ReginaBean  |
Date: 11/4/2002 5:59:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 58030
thank ya'll for all this wonderful advice, i have decided that i'm going to wait awhile see what happens it's about time for a couple dances to pop up.  |
Date: 11/4/2002 11:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 49374
Talk to one of the guys about it, and if they're normal guys, they'll tell you what they think, but personally, if they don't like you in that way, I don't think it would work out any time great. I don't know because I've never had a girlfriend, but that's what I'd say to the situation. Good luck!  |
Date: 11/5/2002 4:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 53054
MAN DONT RUIN A GOOD FRIENDSHIP!!!!!!!!  |
Date: 11/5/2002 9:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 28623
i dated one of my close friends.. the good thing is they know who you are i unfortunitly got scared and ran from him anyways where still really good friends and act the same as we did.  |
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Date: 11/5/2002 9:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 28623
oh also i lost 2 really good friends because they really wanted more and i just kept saying i didn't want to ruin it. |
