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Boy troubles!! (of course.....) :-P ~Forgotten Colorz

  Author:  38989  Category:(General Advice) Created:(11/18/2002 6:04:00 PM)
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Ok, let me explain. There is this guy Brent, that I went out with for a while last year. Got my first real kiss from him and everything. I broke up with him, cause of fear of getting too close. He forgot about me, moved on, and I have regreted it ever sense. He has been a major 'what if' in my mind for ages. We went to seperate schools, cause of stupid boundry lines, and I hadent seen him sense the end of the year last year. I moved on, and I started to like this guy James. We have been, sorta together for a week, we have kissed a few times (thats what got us togehter in the first place) and I like him, but I dont feel as I like him enough to like have a real relationship of any sort with him, plus, all the cute things he did that I used to find so humorus (sp?) I now find quite annoying. But none the less, I do like him, and I really dont feel like hurting him. Now, I'm sure you are wondering, where on earth does brent come into this? Well, after not talking to him in about 4 months, I ran into him at the mall. We talked and stuff, just like old times, then he called me the next day, but I have changed quite a bit sense last year, and he has now found that out. I am no longer that non confident girl, who runs from people she likes, and he now sees that, and seems to want to get to know me again. He asked if we could try again, and I told him that he hasent talked to me in 4 months, and he hardly knows me anymore, and he said, that he would like to get to know me again. He also said how really hot I looked (I went from a light blonde, to a deep rich red head) and he was calling me pet names the whole time I was talking to him. My best friend whitney, said he seems that he still likes me, but hasent actualy come out and said it, and I guess I agree with her. But my question is, what do I do? Im with James (sorta, I mean, its only been a week) but I just dont know what to do at this point. Any advice would be appreciated!

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Date: 11/18/2002 6:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 29262    I think you should tell brent you both can be friends cause he doesn't know you as well anymore and you are kinda with someone else and after a little whie of friends move higher... But its not my decision its yours. What do you want to do???  
Date: 11/18/2002 6:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 54808    Go for the guy you like more. You were with Brent, and if you've changed and he still has feelings for you (which it looks like he does) then give him a shot again. You don't have to stick to one guy. James seems to be getting on your nerves, and if that's the case, then why be in a relationship with him? If it's only been a week, then let him down easy and say it was better just being his friend. It's an icky situation, but good luck! :)  
Date: 11/18/2002 6:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 54808    Go for the guy you like more. You were with Brent, and if you've changed and he still has feelings for you (which it looks like he does) then give him a shot again. You don't have to stick to one guy. James seems to be getting on your nerves, and if that's the case, then why be in a relationship with him? If it's only been a week, then let him down easy and say it was better just being his friend. It's an icky situation, but good luck! :) ~*~MusicalNight~*~  
Date: 11/18/2002 6:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 54808    BTW... sorry to submit it twice. :)  
Date: 11/18/2002 6:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 29262    I also agree with Musical night  
Date: 11/18/2002 6:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 56293    Well, who do YOU see yourself with? You need to figure out how you feel about James. You don't want to lead him on and then end up hurting him more.  
Date: 11/18/2002 6:15:00 PM  From Authorid: 51194    i say go out with james for a little longer and tell brent that you met another guy at schoolabout a week ago and you have just been going out with him for week. and you 2 can talk on the fon and stuff. and if james doesn't work out you will go out this him. if he doesn't understand that then i don't know what to tell you.  
Date: 11/18/2002 6:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 16390    I think the desision is ultimatly yours, but let me ask you...Who will treat you with honesty, respect, and thoughtfulness? I was with a guy who used to call me pet names and kiss SSOO good, but he really wasn't interested in ME...he was interesting in my BODY...Needless to say, he was gone in the snap of my fingers. Question...R U "seeing" James, or "Dating" him. If you are just dating, then you have the right (and so does he) to date other people. Think about it before you make any rash desisions. Good Luck my dear...let us know what happens! KMUSICGAL
Date: 11/18/2002 6:25:00 PM  From Authorid: 55330    o wow.. well technically you're still free... try one day with brent, another with james and see which one you are more attracted to. i say give brent another shot and if all else fails, james will still be there, friend or possibly something more...  
Date: 11/18/2002 6:26:00 PM  From Authorid: 54060    ok..if u dont know if u really LIKE james..then stay with him a lil bit longer until u find out if u like brent or james better..thats what i would do...then if i liked james better then blow off brent...or brent better then james..  
Date: 11/18/2002 6:28:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 38989    KMUSICGAL, technicly, james and i have not gone on any dates together, so i dont know what you would consider us. just, togehter, maybe? i dont know. Brent is so sweet, and totaly respects me (which is a biggy) but james does also, but i just dont know if i feel as much twards james as i though i may have...  
Date: 11/18/2002 8:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 600    Sweetie, I'll give you the same advice I give my daughter. Stay away from boys, they're evil! lol. J/K...My advice in this situation would be to break it off with James if you don't really like him. <---That's the first thing you need to decide. If not, then the easiest way to do that is to tell him that you really value his friendship, and want to keep it, but that being a couple just doesn't feel right. As for Brent, again, go with what you feel. Ultimately only you can make this decision. :)  
Date: 11/18/2002 8:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 600    One last thing...try to remeber that you are still very young and that you have plenty of time to find "Mr. Right" ok? Have fun and enjoy your youth.  

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