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Date: 11/19/2002 3:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 61940
let me be the first to say, I am deeply sorry. Remember to spend every minute of your life with your loved ones, and take care of yourself as well. :) good luck with everything.. |
Date: 11/19/2002 3:40:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49101
thank you +OF  |
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Date: 11/19/2002 3:41:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49101
Thank You Fallen Angel |
Date: 11/19/2002 3:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 46486
I think it may be normal, you are in shock right now.. Your mom is in my prayers, as well with you too MissC.  |
Date: 11/19/2002 3:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 35160
im sorry to hear this sweety. i just found out in september that i have cancer also. i felt the same way u do. i still find it hard 2 beleive that i do sometimes. i think its perfectly normal 4 u 2 feel this way. i have found though, that when i talk about it , it helps me so much. i know this is a rough thing to deal with , but im always here if u need me ok. peace be with u and ur mom hun. all my luv and huggs shay  |
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Date: 11/19/2002 4:01:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49101
THANK YOU SHAY |
Date: 11/19/2002 4:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 20296
it is normal to be numb. you are probably in shock. I am so sorry. she will beat this. keep the faith and be there for her. I know you will. and we are here for you to vent *huGz*  |
Date: 11/19/2002 4:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 47113
iam soo very sorry...i will start praying for her...its normal to be numb, thats exactly how i felt when my mom was diagnosed with cancer...part of that numbness stays with you...i pray also you will get through this...god bless  |
Date: 11/19/2002 4:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 59385
well the other replies covered it all but they foergot one thing since im a chronic pain patient and i know cancer patients are in alot of pain as well.if she is in alot of pain i would recommened that she gets the pain killer of awesome effectiveness OXYCONTIN.this medicine will greatly help her with hwer pain if she has any but if she does i recommened you go to a chronic pain clinic and get this savor of a medicine well good luck to you and your family missc:)..hugs from.BlueEyesWhiteDragon  |
Date: 11/19/2002 4:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 54808
Oh yea... this is definitely normal. When there's a mix of emotions they all boil up until you feel so numb that you don't even know how you feel. I'm sorry that your mom has cancer, and I wish you and your family the best of luck with anything that you go through! :)  |
Date: 11/19/2002 4:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 53054
yep this is normal...it wont hit you for a couple of days because the numbness wil stay but you might find that you willg et very emotional after a few days...im really sorry about your mum! *hugz*  |
Date: 11/19/2002 6:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 53900
I am so sorry to hear this...your mom is in my prayers as well as you and the rest of your family. I think what you are feeling is perfectly normal. You are going through this in your own way. Allow yourself to feel whatever you are feeling and give it time to get through all the emotions. (((HUGE HEALING HUGS)))  |
Date: 11/19/2002 6:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 28946
I'm so sorry. Sweetie, my prayers are with you both at these hard times you must face.  |
Date: 11/19/2002 6:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 57830
Awwww!! I am soooo sorry! If you feel you need to talk, I am her for you. :o) By the way.. yes that is very normal-hope your mom gets well soon *hugz to ya*  |
Date: 11/19/2002 6:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 29262
Oh... I am so sorry. You are probably numb because you are shocked... I was numb when my grandmother died.  |
Date: 11/19/2002 6:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 61933
Of course your numb, your shocked. Just give it time to sink it, but in the meantime concern yourself with the facts of her cancer. Be there with her, and when it dose "sink in" you will be more prepared for the thought. Emotional shock is the bodys way to prevent us from getting hurt to deeply and easily too quickly.  |
Date: 11/19/2002 6:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 49539
This has happened to me...i think its completely normal. When i found out my mom had cancer (about 3 years ago) i was little so i just cried at first. Everyone reacts differently. You're probably just in shock right now. I hope you feel better and hope ur mom recovers from cancer. If you ever need someone to talk to, you can message me! I am always willing to talk. :)  |
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Date: 11/19/2002 6:54:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49101
Thank you so much everyone, this really means a lot to me. |
Date: 11/20/2002 6:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 22852
Yes, I think your feelings are normal for you. Everyone deals with tragedy in their own way. I will keep you and your mom in my thoughts and prayers.  |
Date: 11/20/2002 10:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 28767
AWWW....I'm so sorry. I hope she gets better. You have my sympathy. But i know of many people who have survived cancer. Keep the faith. peace out..  |
Date: 11/20/2002 12:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 50861
Well My dad found out he had canner in his thyroid. When he told me I cried....a lot. I did not even go to school for the rest of the week. I think eveyones emotions are different. I cannot say if what you are feeling is normal or not. But we have a God of wonders. My father does not have cancer any more. If you beleive your mother can be healed....chances are she will get better.  |
Date: 11/20/2002 6:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 7654
Let me say that what you are feeling right now is very much normal..I am a cancer surviver (Two times)..And my daughter fought it for three years, but is free of it at this time..Cancer can be a very scarey word..Keep positive thoughts ! And talk about it, don't close down.But most of all don't loose your faith..You, your Mother and family will be in my prayers.  |
Date: 11/21/2002 7:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 39887
Can it be treated? God Bless you and your family. I will say a prayer for your mom. I hope she can get treatments and beat the type she has. Pray honey, as you have never prayed before. Put this in GOD'S hands and HE will see you through. I am so sorry. I hope you will keep us informed.  |
