he left 5 days before our wedding...catz_tat

i had a partner- we did everything together- we helped each other. we had a lot in common, music,religion,art,animals,fishing. we rarely argued.neither of us cheated or lied to each other- we were happy. we just bought a house together, and a horse. we were supposed to get married on oct 30,2002. i loved him as he was my best friend. 6 days before our wedding, i got him talking to his dad for the first time in 5 years. that night he made me promise him i would marry him on the day we were supposed to, and that i would never leave him. the next morning, i went to the emergency room, i had kidney and bladder shut down. he came to see me at 11:00 am, told me he loved me, he was going to go home and get some sleep, he would be back later- i was supposed to call him at 2;00. I called at 1:30- no answer. i panacked. the next day i signed myself out- i had to find him. i went home- his clothes were gone, some of his stuff, but no note-nothing. i went to his dad's, still kinda buzzing from demoral, and he was there- moved in with the man he said he hated. he told me a bunch of bull, and that he was through. i dropped more of his stuff off a few days later, the day before we were supposed to get married, and he told me he just got scared, didn't say sorry- didn't offer any explanation.a few days later he called- told me he didn't want to get screwed over- he was going to shut the lights,heat water off- we paid his past bill-not mine. he had taken the money- all of it when he left,including our housepayment and my last paycheck, so i did without heat when it was literally freezing out- even though i had done everything for him and he knew i wouldn't have screwed him over.he went from love to hate for me in less than a day. i just want to know- how does that work? how can someone shut love off after a year of happiness? is there a switch? if so- will someone tell ME so i can turn it off and move on?

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