Date: 1/16/2003 2:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 60018
I would be worried and make a report about her threatening to kill her. I wouldn't get into the relationship until they were seperated if I were her...  |
Date: 1/16/2003 2:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 50864
I would be worried too The lady sounds unhinged and a danger to your daughter  |
Date: 1/16/2003 3:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
If you feel that she is in danger in any way, then I would advise her to stay away from him, at least until the separation is final and things are more settled between him and his wife.  |
Date: 1/16/2003 3:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 58078
I think she is just jealous and trying to ruin anythign for her ex that could happen with your daughter. It is something that he needs to resolve with his ex wife before talking to your daughter. *IP*  |
Date: 1/16/2003 3:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 61989
Does she still have her phone # on her cell phone? If so call the police and tell them she left a threatening phone call on your daughters phone and threatened to kill her, they won't take lightly to that. That isn't fair to your daughter. If you don't want to got that route I would suggest that the guy should talk to his ex and tell her that nothing is going on and even if it was it isn't her business. Your daughter didn't do anything wrong and she lashed out at her in a bad way. Either the guy can take care of it or the police can. I personally wouldn't let this go any farther, if she found out her cell # then she could figure a way to find her, and if she was serious about the threats I wouldn't want her to get hurt...That is a tough situation though-seriously. No matter which way you go, waves are caused. If she leaves it alone she takes the risk of being found. Gosh that is a tough one. The police should be notified though in case she calls or does anything else, you will have the call recorded on paper that she has threatened in the past....Good luck  |
Date: 1/16/2003 3:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
I would encourage my daughter to find another friend.  |
Date: 1/16/2003 3:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
personally? yeah...not quite sure as to what actions you can take....restraining order maybe or something...  |
Date: 1/16/2003 3:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 36766
I'd be worried and I'd report the girl who threatened your daughter...ppl are nuts these days  |
Date: 1/16/2003 4:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 1799
unfortunately, these kind of things happen even when there wasn't a marriage....too bad ur daughter had to befriend someone with the nutty ex...i would report it if u have caller id and have the number for them or a name. u should tell him what happened to. Its his ex, so he has to know.  |
Date: 1/16/2003 5:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 50861
yes....  |
Date: 1/16/2003 5:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 29775
I would make a report for the threatning to kill her. It might be a figure of speech, but it can also be a serious threat. Just to protect your daughter you should have it on record just incase something does happen  |
Date: 1/16/2003 6:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
it sounds like the girl doesn't want to give up on the relationship.. and the man.. doesn't want to be with her.. you should tell her BF(the man) i have a gut feeling that his nearly former wife only got herself pregnant to get him to marry her(what he did)  |
Date: 1/17/2003 2:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 60162
I lived in a unit with a girl and her boyfriend was on drugs. When she was busted with drugs and evicted, he rang me and threatened me with my life as well. What I am trying to say is I am still here. Most of these troubled souls are all bluff just to scare and wont do anything more than just talk talk talk. Their bark is much worse than their bite. Do be careful though, dont let her go wondering at night or anything it maybe an idea to lay low for a while, but I am leaning towards it being bluff myself. Goodluck, keep us posted on how you go.  |
Date: 1/17/2003 2:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 60395
like i said in the last one, talk to your daughter, that's all you can do. *MusicGirl*  |
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Date: 1/17/2003 6:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 59099
I would b very worried... after all this woman did threaten ur daughter! I think u should send some kind of report or just let the ploice now about the sit uation and ask them wut 2 do. i hope every thing turns out well 4 u, ur daughter, the guy she is talking 2, and the baby girl! i'll b praying 4 u all! ~LuCkYdUcK~ |
Date: 1/18/2003 2:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 49374
I wouldn't worry too much as of yet, but if the phone calls persist to a certain level, call the police and advise them on the situation. They have ways of finding out stuff like that. Anyways, good luck on the situation; people like this make me sick to my stomach.  |
Date: 1/18/2003 6:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 52363
i would be soooooooooooo worried. especially if i had a child.#1)this ex-wife needs to get over herself.#2)she should not be threating anyone.her butt should be reported to the police.#3)they are just friends for now.#4) she needs to get some help.#5)has she ever heard of EX-WIFE!?her priorities should be on the baby not your daughter.people these days.if she gonna threatin' someone...i hope the next time she does her butt will be behind bars.then she can the prison gaurds all she wants to.and when she does she can have a cold piece of bread in her mouth.i cant stand it when people threatin people.you have every right to be worried.
~sugar and spice~  |
47508 Category:(General Advice) Created:(1/16/2003 2:44:00 PM)