Date: 2/14/2003 8:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 13897
if you already have a boyfriend, why are you worrying about another boy? unless you're polyamorous, it's not going to work out.. or if you're planning on breaking up... which you said nothing of either...  |
Date: 2/14/2003 8:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
your boyfriend?? as in you already have a boyfriend?? but your inlove with another guy?? i think that is very unfair and almost down right hurtful to the guy you are currently with... don't you think you should let him know? he's involved with you... and i think if your seriously thinking about another guy you should let your current one go... or get over the feelings you have for this other guy and let your friend go for him... it's not nice to string along 2 different people... someone is bound to get hurt(and i think that is a little selfish) and i don't think you want to do that  |
Date: 2/14/2003 9:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 16614
I agree w/ the above!!! You can't be in love with two people at once, hon, its just not possible. You can't keep goin like this, or else someone will get hurt. If your friend is a true friend she wouldn't be "ALL over" the guy your in love with. However, she might not truly know how strong you feelings are for this guy, Rob, because she probaly figures you already HAVE a boyfriend, so why would you need another one? Always,  |
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Date: 2/14/2003 9:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
roxygirl i disagree with you on 1 point.. you can be inlove with 2 people at 1 time... it's just you shouldn't act and date and be with 2 people at once or even be with 1 person if your inlove with 2 people.. it isn't fair to the person getting strung along(the one your dating) |
Date: 2/14/2003 10:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 49498
Midnightly, I would have to disagree with you. You cannot be in true love with two people. the word Love is thrown around too much, because we use it without conviction. The person you love should be the person you plan on spending the rest of your life with. If you dont feel like that, then you dont truely love them. IMO...  |
Date: 2/15/2003 6:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 60685
Ok, did you mean Boyfriend as in your other half or as in a boy who's a friend, cause if you have an actual boyfriend then you don't have any say in the matter, not even if you're in love with this other guy. If I was your friend I would have done the same thing considering you're in fact already taken. Sorry if I can't offer any better advice, just in case, if you ever think of moving into this guy you like...please break up with your BF first, no sense in getting yourself into a huge mess plus it's the right thing to do.  |
Date: 2/15/2003 8:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 47983
No one can really help you on this. You gotta do it.  |
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Date: 2/15/2003 5:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 13897
Metalliman, don't you love people that you don't want to marry? (family, etc) and i think there are different kinda of love. i love many people- friends, family.. so i agree with Midnightly... anyways, author- figure out what you want and change something so that people don't get hurt more than they have to. |
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