Date: 2/19/2003 5:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 60018
Well I have one that I work with who's the same way. All of us at work didn't like him and none of us understood him. I found that joking around with him and not taking him serious seemed to help. I'm not sure exactly what you're case is though since I don't work there lol.  Good luck.  |
Date: 2/19/2003 7:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
there's always a reason why people act the way they do, whether it be rude or whatever, not everybody likes us hun, so with his attitude the way it is..maybe you could have a talk with him and ask him whats wrong!!! depending on how he reacts, treat him accordingly, like if he gives a rude answer just turn and walk away but it might break the ice a bit and he may start being friendly...I hope so for your sake hun, its very hard working all day like this, for heavens sake we spend most our day at work and why people cannot make it as comfortable for everyone else I'll never know...if he doesnt change hun, you will have to adjust your attitude and ignore him...not nice, but necessary...good luck hun...Zema  |
Date: 2/19/2003 8:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 49742
I agree with the answers given!  |
Date: 2/19/2003 8:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i get a few of those i say hello... then i give them space  |
Date: 2/19/2003 10:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 5940
Ditto with the other replies. Sometimes all it takes is a simple question in a reasonable manner.  |
Date: 2/20/2003 3:10:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 11097
Thank you everyone for your time and advice, I feel maybe I should take the time and try to understand why the friction and if no solution can be found maybe its time I look for another job. Thank you guys for all your help, it means alot to me xoxo *hugs*  |
Date: 2/21/2003 10:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 37150
I'm sorry that person is treating you that way. That's not right. Well, just turn the other cheek like you have been doing. You are NOT the problem and you've done your part. Just do your job and hopefully, maybe this person will come around. If not, I feel bad for him that he is that way. Hope all will be well. I ignore rude/inconsiderate people. I'd just leave him alone. I am proud of you cuz u kept ur temper under contorl, I probly would have lost it lol Don't worry be happy. Take care,  |
