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Guys please read this and give me your advice on what i should do!

  Author: 14564  Category:(General Advice) Created:(8/27/2000 6:36:00 PM)
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Right now i am a jounior in high school. My sophomore year i met this guy in my biology class, and over the time we became really good friends. I started to like him a lot...(and still do). So anyways then i he starts to like me too. Because he askes me out. I was so happy. Well a week later, he dumps me and says he just wants us to stay good friends, like we were before. So That was ok with me. We stayed like best friends. Then after school ended and summer came we hadnt talked for a while. I wanted to call but didnt for fear he didnt want to talk to me...(i know its weird). But anyways my friends throw me a surprize birthday party. And he is there! We talk for a long time he tells me how he wanted to call me but didnt know if i wanted to talk to him...i told him i felt the same. We were just laying there on the trampoline watching these shooting stars, and im laying my head on his chest facing him with my eyes closed. We are just talking and then he kisses me. We start kissing a little more and then he tells me that he has thought about me all summer and was so happy that he was finally here to see me. So after the party we walk hand in hand up the street and we wait for his friend to get the car. Then i give him a hug and we kiss good bye. Then he leaves. So then i call him a couple of days later. And we start calling eachother more often. So then its tuesday and only a week until we go back to school. He calls me and tells me how much he had missed me and all that. And he then tells me that he has someting very important to tell me. He tells me that there hasnt been a moment that he was thinking or dreaming about me and all that and that he really thinks he loves me. I was so happy to here that because i have felt the same way for so long, and i always felt that he did to but was scared to tell me. Of course i didnt want to say it first because i didnt want to scare him off or make him feel weird to be around me, cause more than anything him friendship means a lot to me. So anyways we dont get to talk the rest of that week on account of i was really busy. So then monday comes and we see each other at school, and i was thinking maybe this would be the day he asks me out or something...because this would be the first time we have seen eachother since the time of my party. But i see him and every thing seems awkward...he doesnt even bring anything like that up, he kinda acts as if it were like never said. Does this mean he doesnt mean what he said anymore? Did he change his mind? Is he to shy about that....should i just come out and ask him what is going on between us? Or what? Because i know that he is shy ...well about that. Because he was so shy just saying he loved me on the phone i know he was kinda scared off what i would say. But once he said it he wasnt afraid to admit it anymore. But anyways should i wait for him? or should i step up first? Guys i need your advice mostly i know you are all different about this stuff than girls are. So please what should i do? And if you think that i should go up to him first, what should i say? how can or do i come out and say or ask him about this? thanx for your advice, i really appreciate it! love isobella

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Date: 8/27/2000 6:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 11348    well I'm not a guy... but I say go for it! Talk to him first, what do you really have to loose?  
Date: 8/27/2000 7:00:00 PM  From Authorid: 14254    Sweetheart, I am 27 and have played the field in my time. I am now happily engaged and have been in a stable relationship with my lady for three years. I was a typical guy, though, and still remember that nature. He is playing games with you. Either his angle is to bed you or to make you jealous to see if you really like him. The next time he ignores you or acts awkward, tell him you are interested in another. Observe his reaction. That will give him away. Good luck, and never feel second best! One day, someone (if it's not him) will be glad they found you. Blue Moon  
Date: 8/27/2000 7:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 14568    cool
Date: 8/27/2000 7:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 14568    You should go up to him and ask him whats going on and hats all I have to say lol oh my poor sister...lol anywayz the guy you like is really hot! lol ok I will see you at home! love your sis alexandra/melissa oh and I am the one who put cool on purpose...lol oh and I know bruce likes you you both like eachother, I know these things and the way he looks at you it's just so obvious that you guys like eachother!
Date: 8/27/2000 7:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 14568    You should go up to him and ask him whats going on and hats all I have to say lol oh my poor sister...lol anywayz the guy you like is really hot! lol ok I will see you at home! love your sis alexandra/melissa oh and I am the one who put cool on purpose...lol oh and I know bruce likes you you both like eachother, I know these things and the way he looks at you it's just so obvious that you guys like eachother!
Date: 8/27/2000 7:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 14568    oops how did it get there twice...lol
Date: 8/27/2000 8:15:00 PM  From Authorid: 11721    tell him you are tired of playing childish (make sure to include this word) games and you will find someone who isn't going to play games with you if he doesn't shape up  
Date: 8/27/2000 9:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 10657    well, I would ask him point blank what is going on. Tell him you don't have time to wait around for next summer . You may pass something up because, you are waiting for him   
Date: 8/28/2000 6:47:00 AM  From Authorid: 11939    Awwwww! Young love, isn't it grand. He's just
being a young guy. At your age girls are more
mature about what they want. They have been
waiting their entire life to date. With boys this
does not hit them until they are teenagers. He
is probably just scared, so do like Texas Angie
said and ask he point blank. This way you will
know now. Tell him he needs to make up his mind
or he will lose his chance with you. Good Luck!!!
  
Date: 8/28/2000 10:15:00 AM  From Authorid: 13974    Brina, there is NOTHING more childish than teenage romance, except maybe adult romance, but I can tell you, being forcefull to somone shy could do more harm than good, some teenage boys just need some time to figure out their feelings. Take it from somone that used to be a teenage boy.... hehe  
Date: 8/28/2000 10:56:00 AM    I know you dont want to hear this but you are still young and guys are going to come and go at this time you dont think but they are so go on and see other people because if it's going to happen it will and if it does'nt atleast you had that one moment. Just think about it.Just think of all the other wounderful guys out there.Now you have time to find the one for you.Good Luck. P.S.Everyones been where you are.You can get advice on this until your 90.
Date: 8/28/2000 12:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 13619    I can tell you from experience. I did that and when I realized that I was confusing my feelings I stopped talking to my bestfriend. I did not want to loose his friendship so I would act like nothing. He ended up asking me so I told him. You need to aske him because you will always will be wondering. I am guilty but I am still friends with him. Good Luck and let me know what he says
Flower Power
  
Date: 8/29/2000 1:04:00 AM  From Authorid: 14314    Maybe you should try seeing other guys, just to make him jealous, maybe then he will ask you out. You could talk to him, and ask him what is the problem.
CissyPC
  
Date: 8/29/2000 8:48:00 AM  From Authorid: 14639    I am a 16 yr old guy and i wanted to say this, he is embarrassed to bring his feelings out in the open his friends must have said something for him to be embarrassed about u.
either that or he was flattering u to get in ur pants, the truth hurts but i know teenage guys
Date: 8/29/2000 5:24:00 PM  From Authorid: 13729    Just ask him whats up. Sounds like hes just using you to me...Ritz  
Date: 8/30/2000 9:48:00 AM  From Authorid: 14186    ask him what the problem is.....he should tell you how he feels. if not, forget about it for now.
Date: 8/31/2000 8:36:00 AM  From Authorid: 8649    I have been in your situation before and I agree w/ BlueMoon. Some guys of all ages play head games. He either said all of that stuff to try to get you to sleep with him or he's now embarrassed and doesn't know how to act. I guess you could talk to him about it but knowing how guys are, I wouldn't act like it bothered me. Some guys like the chase because it feeds their ego. If he really likes you, you would know it. He wouldn't be acting this way.
Date: 9/2/2000 8:57:00 AM  From Authorid: 14182    ok this is kinda what was like for me...I'm sure he doesnt know how to say what he wants to to or when...i think you should call him and see if he wants to hang out...maybe then he'll tell you...if not, then ask him yourself if he still loves you and if you want to carry on a realtionship...Outlaw Torn  
Date: 9/5/2000 10:31:00 PM    Well, take it to him directly and if he really does love you he will be honest and open but keep in mind that there aren't very many true gentlemen left out there. GG
Date: 9/16/2000 6:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 15654    I would definitely say he was shy. He said it over the phone too. Thats your biggest hint. At school, its a different world. I bet he doesn't show you any, or very limited emotions at school, right? I was the same way. Believe me!
So try to talk to him after school, on the phone or meet somewhere. Make sure your link together remains strong.

Marvin

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