Date: 3/6/2003 4:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
awww. that is sad. but who is she to tell your brother he can't talk to you!? that is ridiculous. he needs to stand up to her and tell her that you are family. his kids deserve to know you. i truely feel bad for you. i am very close to my family and couldn't imagine never seeing my neices or nephews. i am so sorry for this. but i think she is very wrong to deny you a relationship with your family. and i also think your brother should stick up for you. blood is thicker than water. blood will always be blood. congratulations on your new neice and i wish you the best.  |
Date: 3/6/2003 4:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 46486
That's so sad! :( You deserve to see your family, that's not right.  |
Date: 3/6/2003 4:38:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 24845
Thank you Cage. It's true. She's crazy. LOL. I really wish I could have a relationship with my brother. He's a wuss though. He's afraid of her taking the kids and not letting him see them. He's not happy about it but he sees no way out. It's sad that way too. She was mad becuase I got married first and got pregnant first. I told her and my brother that if I knew this was a contest I surely would have let them win, my pregnancy was unplanned and my wedding (years later) ended in divorce. Which is laughable really. Her being jealous. LOL I know that one day he'll need me and she won't be there any longer. I also know that her plans on the kids being "sheltered" from me is going to back fire on her. thanks for the response.  |
Date: 3/6/2003 4:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 38278
Congratulations, but I don't think you should let her keep you from seeing your own family.  |
Date: 3/6/2003 4:40:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 24845
Thank you all for the kind words. Flame on, they live really far away and I'm a single mom, and have a car that can get me to the store and back and that's about it. it's just impossible to force the issue. I've called she's errased the messages, I've written she throws them away, I've called, she conveintley forgets to tell him.  |
Date: 3/6/2003 4:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 46486
Oh yes, also Congrats.  |
Date: 3/6/2003 4:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
First of all, Congratulations on the birth of your new Niece! You know..I HAD a Sister in Law..I say had because I am no longer married to her husband's brother..(confused yet??) Anyway..for some reason this woman HATED me..she would do horrible things to me and to my KIDS..she called my kids names..when I was pregnant with my second child she deliberately elbowed me in the stomach..and when I reacted her answer was.."Hey obviously I didnt hit hard enough, your not in labour"..I never understood her jealousy and her hatred..I chalked it up to her being miserable herself..I dont know..Hang in there hon..Eventually your Brother will stand up to her and you will get to meet your Nephew and Nieces!  |
Date: 3/6/2003 4:55:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 24845
Oh, Lady luck, I'm sorry for what you went through. You seem very likable to me. I do know that eventually my brother will get tired of getting told what to do, not to mention how to breathe and such. lol. but when it comes I will be there for him, as I always have been. Thank you for your encouragement.  |
Date: 3/6/2003 5:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 29262
Aww I am so sorry :(. Ohh I would Tell her offf. sayin THATS MY BROTHER AND I SHOULD BE ABLE TO KNOW THEM! LoL she is ridiculous and very immature.  |
Date: 3/6/2003 5:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
such a sad situation hun, what makes it hard to understand is how your brother would let his wife come between you like this...you and him are blood family, the kids will grow up so fast and their parents attitude towards you is depriving them of a very loving Aunt, I hope and pray that one day it will all be corrected..hugs Zema  |
Date: 3/7/2003 7:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 61104
congratulations.  |
Date: 4/5/2003 8:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 4231
Congrats, and good luck to you!  |