Date: 3/20/2003 8:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 60052
If I were you I'd leave him to deal with his stalking problems, don't butt in to that part of it. As far as you liking him, send him a note or talk to him, and find out if he feels the same way. You can't get an answer if you don't ask, and not knowing either way can be worse than knowing he doesn't like you. Either way it turns out at least you will be able to move on with your life whether it is with him or not. Good Luck  |
Date: 3/20/2003 8:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
This is a tricky situation, but not insoluble. First, you have to find out if he really likes you. Once you've done this, and you're actually going out with him, look at her reaction. If she's still determined to stalk him, you need to get some mutual friends together and meet with her face-to-face. Lay out the situation, and make sure she understands the reality of it, not just her version of reality. --Arion1  |
Date: 3/20/2003 8:26:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 60792
lol arion...gonna kick her butt she tries to take my man :p lol  |
Date: 3/20/2003 8:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 24845
Tell her to back off that you like him. Be honest with your feelings towards him. If she is your friend then she'll understand and back off. If she doesn't and gets mad tell Oh well, he's mine not yours. then confront him and MAKE him yours. LOL. He is probably going to have to confront her also. More than likely she won't stalk him the rest of her life, she'll get intrested in someone else and move on. Good LUck.  |
Date: 3/20/2003 8:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 5301
...if you like him, go for him. This other girl has the same option open to herself. You'll never have a chance with him if you don't let him know you're alive.  |
Date: 3/21/2003 2:56:00 AM
From Authorid: 36901
Has he ever actually told her flat out to stay away from him? I know this sounds mean, but I had knew a guy like that in high school. He would even follow me around in school and after school. I got so sick of it that I waited until we were in a large group and told him in front of everyone that he needed to stop following me around and giving me the creeps. He was so embarassed that he left me alone after that. This might work for your guy too. Good luck!  |
Date: 3/21/2003 9:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 36511
Ever heard the quote, "You never know untill you give it a try" ? I say go for the guy, before your friend does...your actually getting an opportunity in my opinion...but im not experienced in these things...Maybe the other can help...good luck!  |
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Date: 3/21/2003 12:22:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 60792
Yes he has told her he will never be interested in her...but you guys don't understand....I am soooo freakin shy!!!! He knows I exist...he play-punches me in the arms and stuff all the time but I dunno if it is flirting... |
Date: 3/22/2003 4:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
That girl sounds obsessed. No guy is going to want that as his girlfriend. If you want him, go for it, but watch your back when it comes to this chick- she might really flip out if you come out on top  |
