Date: 5/23/2003 3:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 53909
Sounds like she could be jealous of you. I'd try talking to her again and let her know that it really bothers you. She might not know what she is doing or that she's doing it. Maybe you should try hooking her up with someone. But if she doesn't stop doing what she's doing, I would stay away from her for a while or whatever. If she was really a good friend, she wouldn't do that to you. That's just how I feel. Good luck.  |
Date: 5/23/2003 3:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 19772
Yeah I'd say she's a little jealous of you. Try talking with her openly and explain to her how mad it makes you to see her flirt with your boyfriends. Talk to your boyfriend about maybe getting one of his friends to ask her out. ~Gabrielle~  |
Date: 5/23/2003 4:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
Why don't you talk to her about it?  |
Date: 5/23/2003 6:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 58427
One of my friends was like this w/ me except she was the one accusing ME of the flirting. Her bf and I had been best friends ever since 1st grade and we have always acted really "friendly". She said that I was flirting, but that is the way that we had always acted around each other and she saw it as flirting. We fought about this all of the time and she was one of my best friends. They have since broke up and everything is ok between us(I got it through her head that I did NOT like him and that we were just friends). I think that you should just try to talk to her about it. I know it mite not be the same as in my story above but it will do some good. Just let her know how you feel. Say "Hey, It bothers me alot when you flirt w/ my bf!" Just be straight out and try to get her to understand. Hope that helped! *Peaches*
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Date: 5/23/2003 8:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 60162
Sounds like she is one of those manipulative types that wants to destroys others happiness. I would just ignore it myself, if you trust him then there is nothing to worry about. I remember having a friend like that and when I accused her she laughed in my face and told the whole group I was paranoid and everyone hated me, so be careful, these types really do manipulate everything and every situation.  |
Date: 5/23/2003 8:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 53558
Have it out with her, MistySpirit. Great big hugs. Take care.  |
Date: 5/24/2003 10:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
he needs to tell her no... and it sounds like your not comfy in your relationship enough to handle harmless flirting.. you need to confront him.. and get him to tell her that she looks like she is making a fool of herself by flirting in such a manner.... do you think she could be doing this because she is unhappy she is not with someone and she doesn't like seeing things she doesn't have?  |
Date: 5/28/2003 1:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 58611
I say tell her straight up that, whether she is meaning to do this or not it really bothers you. Ask her to please stop because you dont want to feel this way about her, and your friendship means alot to you...If that dont work and she still does it then you may just have to take things up a notch or two!  |
57579 Category:(General Advice) Created:(5/23/2003 3:22:00 PM)